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First of all, jealousy or inferiority complex is at fault, people who do better than themselves and are better than themselves must pay more than you!
Secondly, responsible students may also do not do well enough, generally just follow the teacher's requirements and arrangements, just express themselves, and do not consider some of the feelings of other students!
In the end, those students who hate class cadres are not mature enough, so it would be good to spend more time on learning and grow up slowly!
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The so-called responsible class cadres may have a rather blunt or even tough attitude at work. In this way, the distance between me and my classmates is invisibly far away, and there is no popularity. Therefore, it is still necessary to pay attention to methods and art in work. At least it can't be simple and crude.
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Because the responsible class cadres generally manage more, and the students want more freedom, especially in the university, everyone is an adult, and they don't want others to take care of it.
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Because everyone thinks he or she is putting on a show.
There is also a sense of jealousy, feeling that he or she is very organized, or very showy, or recognized by the teacher.
In short, due to the cultural environment we live in now, the word "responsible" is very fake.
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It's not that I hate being responsible, it's that I hate him being rigid, and only those who will be flexible will be popular!
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The class cadres who should be responsible will do their official business! For example, if you don't know what homework to write and you don't turn it in the next day, ask him to tell the teacher that he doesn't know what to write so he didn't write it, but the class cadre has to put your name on the list of not writing homework. Of course it's annoying!
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Because everyone longs for freedom and doesn't want to be governed.
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Being responsible means that they have to be constrained, they have to be regulated, and that is something that no one wants.
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Because I'm close to the teacher.
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Summary. If one person doesn't like you, it means that everyone has a problem, and if everyone doesn't like you. Then you have to look at your own problems and see if you are doing well.
People, you must always learn to reflect on yourself, only in this way can you do well, if you don't feel that everything is good, everything other people do is wrong, then you will never grow up like this. You have to study and do it seriously, you will grow, you will have, and others will look up to you. In class, it is not necessary that you will not be treated well by others, it is because you have not done the right way to do things.
Reflect on yourself and believe that you should be able to do well.
If one person doesn't like you, it means that everyone has a problem, and if everyone doesn't like you. Then you have to look at your own problems and see if you are doing well. People, you must always learn to reflect on yourself, only in this way can you do well, if you don't feel that everything is good, everything other people do is wrong, then you will never grow up like this.
You have to study and do it seriously, you will grow, you will have, and others will look up to you. In class, it is not necessary that you will not be treated well by others, it is because you have not done the right way to do things. Reflect on yourself and believe that you should be able to do well.
If one person doesn't like you, it means that everyone has a problem, and if everyone doesn't like you. Then you have to look at your own problems and see if you are doing well. People, you must always learn to reflect on yourself, only in this way can you do well, if you don't feel that everything is good, everything other people do is wrong, then you will never grow up like this.
You have to study and do it seriously, you will grow, you will have, and others will look up to you. In class, it is not necessary that you will not be treated well by others, it is because you have not done the right way to do things. Reflect on yourself and believe that you should be able to do well.
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First: manage the class seriously, treat all students equally, and do not ignore some students because they behave too badly, nor target some students because they occasionally make mistakes.
Second: When there is a conflict between the classmates and the class teacher or the teacher, they will help the classmates and ask the teacher to "make concessions" as much as possible, but the mistakes of the classmates will not be tolerated.
Third: If there is something in the class, the first to rush up, **lack of people to make up**, **need to go**.
Fourth: Study hard, don't let your grades fall, and at least keep them in the upper middle and upper grades.
Fifth: Maintain a good attitude, public for the public, private for the private, public and private (don't affect your emotions because of school affairs).
Sixth: In the places under one's own management, oneself must not violate the rules (for example, the discipline inspection committee manages discipline, and must not mess with oneself).
Ditto, it should be the need of a good class cadre hahahahaha.
Here it is, here it is, and then it's why I said I wasn't done.
Regarding the first point, I have no deviations, seek truth from facts, and will never cover up.
On the second point, I don't have any deviation (- school, is it necessary not to have a mobile phone?). I paid my classmate's mobile phone, hahahaha didn't die, but I didn't tell the head teacher who was paid, I usually return it to my classmates the next day——— I also have it about helping my classmates talk, once a classmate was drunk and vomited in class, a little disgusting....Then I called the head teacher, and I asked the head teacher to be tactful when communicating with the parents of the classmate, because everyone is not sensible and can forgive him appropriately).
As for the third point, I will not say anything, I am Comrade "Lei Feng".
Regarding the fourth point, I was too much of a failure, it was simply zz, and for the sake of the duties of the "class committee", my own studies completely became stinky fart.
Regarding the fifth point, it's okay, it's not too good, it's not too bad, I'm a person with feelings. But emotions do take a big hit!!
Sixth, I can do it, I can do it. When I was in the Discipline Inspection Committee, I didn't say a word (chatting or the like) during the evening self-study. (I want to sleep, I don't know, it's just that I'm very tired every day, very tired, and I sleep unconsciously, so I didn't care about the sleeping classmates during my tenure as a class committee).
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We are similar to you, not that you others hate you and don't like you, not because you don't do well, but because you are too good, you can insist on good quality, kind others are jealous of you know? We children are jealous of us.
I think you are doing the right thing, communicate with everyone appropriately, and then you know what your classmates are like, don't you have one or two good friends? It doesn't matter if you stick to yours and you do your best because you don't quarrel with them, you study hard and persist in doing this, your light is ahead, you are now in the graduating class. Does it refer to the senior year of high school?
Then you did a very good job, you don't care about them, they laugh when they laugh, in short, they don't beat you, they don't scold you.
You've all graduated, and your excellent grades have made them look red-eyed and they are dumbfounded.
That's it now, jealous villains, you ignore them, you should be happy.
In fact, I have already learned from you what you said, and when our children grow up, when they are bullied by others in the class, I will also follow your example, it is possible. Imitate what you do and communicate with your classmates like this.
Now I am disappointed that our children are not as good at learning as you, you are really good, too good.
One aspect I tell you, you don't have to talk about anything with those troublemakers, because the troublemakers are all in the same group, and they promise on the surface that they will actually make trouble for you, so just don't provoke them again.
In terms of learning, you still try to insist on yourself, if they don't ask you, you will answer the same questions, and everyone will learn together. There is a saying that sees people's hearts over time. There will be more things to face you in the future.
Thank you also for seeing your title.
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It is a kind of social morality to abide by the discipline of class, but it is natural that there must be scumbags in the "bad class" who do not abide by it. The reason is that they can't understand the teacher's lectures at all, they can't do homework, they are very helpless and bored sitting in the classroom, they are naturally active and can't control themselves at all, in order to show a "sense of existence" and to show that they are very "good" (I can't do anything to see the teacher and the school), so they must take action. Their mentality is that although I can't study, I have the power of "calling" and "influencing", and look, the whole class is "laughing".
They have no grievances with you, not because they can't get along with you, but because they can't get along with their own boredom (nothing to do). If you want to study and want to change classes, it's right to ask the teacher. If you want to read well in such a class, there is only one way - calm down and self-study, preview the textbook every day, write down the difficult questions, and ask the teacher to change your seat to the first row closest to the podium.
At this time, your homework must be careful and careful, so that the teacher will be more confident to teach "you". The class is the same as the small society, it is normal for all kinds of good and bad to be uneven, and we have no ability to "make up for the sky", but we must control ourselves. The scumbags will not appreciate the importance and necessity of learning now, but they will understand one day, but it will be too late!
Everyone will be responsible for their actions today, and now you don't have the ability to do this, so don't "take the burden". Put all your energy and time into studying! Read your own books and let others argue!
You can communicate your ideas with the teachers of each class individually, so that they can understand what you mean and get their support, so that you and the teachers and the scumbags do not "interfere" with each other, and the teacher only needs to tell you to listen alone, which will help you a lot. Is that okay? Thank you.
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Under normal circumstances, class cadres serve their classmates, and they should be supported and loved by their classmates when they become class cadres! On the contrary, he was hated by his classmates, which was due to two reasons: first, he did not do well enough and did not serve his classmates well; His academic performance is not as good as his classmates, and he does not play an exemplary role in the class, which is unpopular!
So classmates will hate it. The second is that if some students hate it, that is, these students are jealous.
But don't get entangled, it is suggested: first do your best, unite those who are jealous of you, do a good job of class work together, study cultural classes well, and play the role that class cadres should play, and this problem will be solved!
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Because you have to help the teacher manage the class, there will always be someone in the class who will be undisciplined, so if you take care of him, he will not be so happy, you don't care, other classmates decide that you are not capable, since you are a class cadre, you must face this problem, in fact, they don't hate you, they hate the people in this position, but with your efforts, I think most people will see it, will agree with you, as for those who don't agree with you, you don't have to please, God can't be liked by everyone, isn't it.
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Some people are destined not to be learning material, no matter how hard you try, you can't change (as a teacher should do the hard work or do it), what you have to do is to constantly improve yourself, through learning, let the people around you become as good as you. Don't care about the eyes of the people around you, because they are not on the same level as you, just frogs at the bottom of the well.
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Personally, I don't think you need to be influenced by others, secondly, I think there are some things that shouldn't be taken care of by you, maybe you are thinking from your point of view, but others may not be able to accept your approach, I suggest you don't care about it in the future!
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People like to be free, and once they are restricted, they always feel that others are in charge of themselves, so there is a kind of discrimination against class cadres.
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I feel like I'm superior. Class leaders are also elected by the students, and they should serve their classmates, not direct them.
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The class cadres who do things unfairly are the most disgusted. The benefits of the class president of the university are all taken by himself, and whoever has a good relationship with him will get the benefits, and the other students can only watch. On the surface, it is public, and many things are determined by the squad leader himself.
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Two class cadres, one squad leader and one regiment secretary, the two of them are still in the same dormitory, in order to grab a party member's place, canvassing votes, currying favor with the teacher, tearing their faces, and finally one of them moved out of the dormitory.
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I have met nosy class cadres, who always like to take care of themselves, and when there is nothing to do, they lean towards themselves, which will make me feel disgusted.
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Because I am a class leader, the teacher asked me to draw a blackboard newspaper by myself, and the school leaders thought it was good, and I thought it was ugly to help you write a classmate, so I wiped all the blackboard newspapers that I spent three days drawing, and you can draw them yourself.
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In fact, this phenomenon does not only happen to you, with my experience as a class leader when I was a student, I have shown that the resistance of ordinary students to the class leader is not actually against you personally, but on behalf of the group of "officials" mainly composed of class cadres, which is also the psychological and external manifestation formed due to the asymmetry of identity. They suspect that you are angry with you, in fact, sometimes it reflects the other party's lack of confidence and inferiority, a small number of classmates are unbalanced, their psychological idea is that they are not worse than you in all aspects, why can you be the class leader.
It is this kind of psychological imbalance that causes them to have prejudices against you, so they will look at you unpleasantly in some things and find faults.
When such a problem arises, you don't have to be angry. Because to be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others, and this is when you should let your own superiority surpass them spiritually. Therefore, the most important thing is to adjust the mentality, and not just think about using violence to solve the problem.
Sometimes some people simply eat soft rather than hard, and what methods to use need to be analyzed in detail for specific problems.
You pay attention to collective honor, which shows that you have the ability to be a class leader. If a squad leader does not have a sense of collective honor, then it is difficult to bring up the class style. However, the sense of collective honor is created by everyone, and it is useless for you to shout slogans alone.
Usually you should first deal with a group of classmates with similar temperaments, who can not only help you share the joys and sorrows of work, but also win popularity for you in your work. If you establish a good image among them, they will naturally spread to the class. Slowly, your classmates will also know your good intentions and will not reject you very much.
This requires a process and cannot be rushed.
Finally, pay attention to your personal image in your daily work, because your special identity is destined to sacrifice more things than ordinary classmates, and you must maintain your image at any time, and your image is the capital of your speech. In this process, you will inevitably feel very hard, so it is necessary to buy a notebook to record the worries and joys and even anger at work.
Finally, I hope you can become a good class leader and study and live happily.
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