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It seems that we are people in the passage, hehe, I told you the same at the time.
At that time, I was so bored that I was counting the blocks on the floor while walking, hehe.
Later, I also felt that I couldn't go on like this, and I thought of a few tricks, but it didn't work.
This situation continued until I didn't study and played at home for a year. Now my former people have seen me and said that it feels like a different person.
Teach you a few tricks: 1 Adjust your mentality well, I just want to learn to do business by myself, so I will change it.
2 It's okay to find your friends to play, chat or something. Develop your own expressive skills.
3 You have a goal and keep moving forward. Don't care what other people think. But appropriate reference is still necessary.
4. Do more things you like, such as playing ball, chess, etc. That way you'll find that when you're engaged, you don't think about anything else. [I do this now when I'm in a bad mood, and I'll forget it soon.]
Even if I remember it after playing, but I'm not angry, so I don't care so much].
I can't help it when it comes to memory, and I don't know what to do myself.
But there is a way to die, repeatedly, to memorize, deepen the impression, hehe.
I'll tell you about my experience, it's up to you how to do it. I hope you don't take so long to understand like I did. Alas, there was no one to guide me at the time.
Finally, I wish you to come out of the shadows as soon as possible and succeed in your studies.
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I'm 22 now, and I've been like you since I was in high school, I didn't have the heart to study at all, and my grades were at the bottom of my class, and in the end I couldn't stand it, so I didn't finish high school. I have a serious problem now, but it's much better than before, you think you're still very young, don't think too much about studying hard, this society is very realistic, others can't help you, everything has to rely on yourself. Read well!
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In fact, it just passed naturally, I was, I used to think that everything was very sad, everything was a cup or something, very negative, and then slowly, I bypassed.
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Do you no longer feel happy, you say that you are very introverted and not cheerful. This is the source of your depression!
You first have to build confidence and establish your goals. Find your hobby! Then you will have a strong desire to learn, and you will be able to get out of the depressed situation.
Our lives are colorful! Remember to believe in yourself!
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Talk to friends more, go outside often to breathe fresh air, don't keep boring yourself at home, go to see the sun and rain, the world is so beautiful, and there is nothing to be depressed? Open your heart to not all bad luck will befall you, think more about the bright side.
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If I'm not mistaken, it's probably the reaction of adolescence! Everyone will have a small psychological barrier, troubles cannot solve the problem, and we have to overcome self-......
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Do you have a dark and damp past?
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In order to improve the child's academic performance, a mother took antidepressant drugs instead of vitamins, this news has attracted a lot of attention, and also caused related discussions, whether this mother's approach is appropriate, you need to act according to the doctor's instructions from the ** disease, and you can't act without authorization, no? Parents must have a correct understanding of their child's situation, and parents must pay enough attention to the problem of their child's depression. These three aspects are understood.
The disease must follow the doctor's instructions and cannot be acted on without authorization. For any disease, we must pay attention to science and follow the doctor's instructions, whether it is a person without medical knowledge or a person who does not understand the specific situation, it is not allowed to act without authorization. Failure to do so may lead to serious consequences, and the mother of the accessory limb acts without medical knowledge on her own, which will have serious consequences for the child and must be stopped immediately.
Second, parents must have a correct understanding of the specific situation of their children. The fundamental reason why this mother will do that is that she does not understand the specific situation of her child, and thinks that the child's condition is not so serious, so he will dare to change the antidepressant medication to vitamins, and if he really understands the specific situation of his child, I believe he will not do it in the future? Therefore, it is important for parents to have a clear understanding of their child's specific situation so that they can know what they should do.
Third, parents must pay enough attention to the problem of depression in their children, at present, the pressure on children is very great, so the problem of depression among children of all ages cannot be ignored, and must be paid attention to by all sides, and measures should be taken to effectively solve it. Specific to the child's parents, they should also pay attention to their child's depression. And actively help the child to solve the problem, so that the child can return to normal, so that the responsibility of parents can be fulfilled to let their children grow up healthily.
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First of all, you need to know the cause of your child's problems. Experts believe that "children's psychological problems are often the symptom of family problems", and the root cause should start from the family environment, parents should self-reflect, and teachers should fully understand the family composition and background of the relevant students in the class. Children growing up in families such as divorce and domestic violence are prone to problems, and more often because parents pay too much attention to and dote on their children, which will make children more selfish, self-oriented, poorly adaptable, unruly, and unobedient to management, resulting in inability to go to school.
There is also the opposition of educational concepts between family members, which causes psychological distress and emotional conflicts to children. A large part of this is related to the parents' own childhood life experiences or traumatic experiences, and the family unknowingly passes on the problems to the children. Some teachers are also unaware of the problems that have arisen because of the above problems or do not understand psychology.
Only by understanding the root cause of the problem can we find the fundamental solution. The most fundamental is the environment in which the "problem" arises, i.e., parents and teachers. For some minors with depression, ADHD and other problems, in addition to starting from the family, school, etc., psychological counseling and intervention are also needed.
Most of the "growing pains" of minors require the efforts of families, schools, and society to improve their related growth environment.
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This question is peculiar ......
First of all, adolescent as a period, it is the stage of the formation of outlook on life and values. In this phase, we encounter many things that we have not encountered before, and at the same time we will think.
Second, adolescence is also a transitional period physiologically, with hormonal secretion and secondary sexual characteristics appearing, and physiological changes occur.
Third, the network is accessible, and there are many people and things that I come into contact with, and I am very affected by the people around me.
In fact, everyone has troubles, objective, subjective, and there are many reasons, but if there are no troubles, life is not complete......
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Having worries means that you have grown up, and you are no longer carefree as a child. Mortals are destined to have a lot of troubles, it is normal for people to have troubles, everyone has troubles, the key is how you look at it, use the troubles as motivation, to solve them and overcome it, you will take a big step. When troubles come, you can do things that interest you, such as traveling, shopping, chatting, listening, and releasing stress.
Or find a place where no one is and shout loudly. Build confidence that you will be able to solve your problems and cheer up. The most effective solution is to exercise, play basketball or soccer when you have time.
Relax your brain during exercise. Don't think about anything, wait until your mind is cool down to think of a solution.
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The reason why adolescent ruler Jian has troubles is because you are still growing, and you are not yet a Liangzao adult. But adults also have troubles. In fact, everyone has their own troubles. It mainly depends on how you face it, how to do it...
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It is not right for the mother of a school bully to change the child's antidepressant without authorization, and adolescent depression is also a real occurrence, some children do not like to study as they get older, and even have a depression of disgust with school, parents should actively adjust:
The first point, give more encouragement and support to children, when children have the problem of boredom with school, there may be great resistance to learning or infiltration has been a setback in learning, at this time can not punish and deny the child, should be more tolerant of the child's behavior, listen to the child's voice, let the child pour out his negative emotions, the child can get a sense of security, support.
The second point is that children should be allowed to combine work and rest, such as decomposing children's learning tasks into easier small tasks, urging children to complete appropriate tasks every day, and allowing children to accumulate successful experience, only in this way can children gain self-confidence and fall in love with learning.
Third, for children who are seriously tired of school, you can also take them to seek psychological help, find out the reason for the child's boredom in school, and provide more support, encouragement and tolerance, so that children can establish a good relationship with the psychological counselor, and confide their inner world to the psychologist, so as to solve the problem of school boredom together. Give children proper relaxation, not so that children's learning tasks are too heavy, so that they can always get a good rest, but let children learn to combine work and rest. Especially when you are tired from studying, take your child out to play, accompany your child, chat with friends, or take your child to watch a movie and listen to it, so that your child can have a very good rest.
The first code shouts Zen four points, but Chi Chen to communicate and communicate with children more, find the main reason for children's boredom in school, and actively solve it, for example, some children because the learning goals are set too high, there may be too difficult, especially it is difficult to complete these learning goals. There are also some people who are tired of learning because of the bad relationship with their classmates, and these reasons should be actively addressed.
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