What should I do if my family breaks off contact with my boyfriend?

The landlord described the problem in great detail. First, you have to reassure your parents. Falling in love doesn't have to be married, it's only been half a year now, anyway, there's no suitable one around, just get married, and I didn't say that he wouldn't marry.

Besides, it is not certain what will happen in the future, which person who is prosperous and prosperous, has a fortune written on his head from a young age.

Second, you can't get to know a person for half a year, and what your parents say is also very true and true. You also have to think about whether the man's brother has a partner and when he will get married. Whether the man's family must marry the elder brother to the younger brother.

Are you really willing to suffer with the man you are now. Can your current man take care of you for the rest of your life.

In conclusion, hold on to your parents, continue to socialize, understand patiently, and make decisive decisions.

Hey, what to do? Do what you want! After all, marriage is a lifelong event!

Good men don't come out of nowhere. After this village, there is no such shop. Parents eloped without consent.

My sister is the same, no matter how they make trouble, and now you still get married?

Hello, for your question!

Parents in modern society hope that their children can find a good home, and due to the progress of modern society, parents have higher requirements for their children, such as: the man must have a car, a house, and money, and the most important thing is a job, and for the woman is: virtuous, filial piety, simple, do not spend money indiscriminately, single-mindedly, and capable.

Your problem can be seen from two aspects, one is that it can be seen from the question that your partner does not have a house at present, and the subject's brother is not married, which can be seen that the other party's family is hard; On the other hand: from the question, it can be seen that your parents have no different requirements for your object than "rich and handsome".

You know, in ancient times, as long as the couple was single-minded, they could become a pair of non-scattered mandarin ducks, and talk to their parents. Parents in modern society have one idea: money!

Looking forward to their children finding money, I said cruel things, now parents are desperate to save face, for example: other people's children scored 70 points, their own children scored 100 points, and their own parents show off in front of others, (probably like this) "Hey, how much did your children test?" Our family got 100 in the exam!

It's all because I urge him every day! (It's no wonder that parents in modern society either go playing cards or going shopping)". These examples are very common in life and need to be analyzed for ourselves, we teenagers are the future of the motherland and cannot be crushed by the pressure of modern parents (in my own words).

So, think about it!

Your boyfriend's family forced him to break up by breaking off the relationship, and you must fight to pursue your own happiness.

First ask a few questions, and answer in your own heart, what does it have to do with you whether your boyfriend owes his family or not? If you don't have tattoos yourself, what does it have to do with whether you are short or not? He feels indebted, so when he doesn't pay it back, he can't deal with it before he gets married, and can he handle it properly after he gets married?

It's okay for the old people over there to have old ideas, and it usually depends on how the man deals with it at this time.

Don't listen to his parents, if his parents can break the father-son relationship, run away from home or something, will they still care about his personal feelings? You might as well talk to her parents, if you don't break up the two of us now, we will get along very happily, and the two of us will work hard to live a higher quality of life.

You let us be together, we won't bother you, you don't care about the two of us, don't spend your money, if you really want to buy something, we will spend our own, you can dismantle it now, it's not good for your son to dismantle it, it's just to satisfy your desire for control, scare us, don't treat us two as children.

You just talk to them on an equal footing and politely, if you think they really can't talk about it, then you can say, in the end, what consequences will really be caused to your family, it is not for me to bear it, you are useless to me, it is the second elder who intervenes in our relationship, and the final result is also borne by your son and the second elder.

If this set doesn't move the second elder, then let your boyfriend work hard, let the second old loosen up, if you can't do it, then his parents are really inhumane, and there is really nothing to do, if your boyfriend doesn't cooperate Then you can break it up, people who can hesitate in the case of fighting for their girlfriend are not suitable for falling in love, let alone falling in love at your age.

Don't give up just because the other party's parents are opposed, as long as you find a way, you can still solve it.

I have a colleague who is also in the situation, they don't break up, they wait until their parents can't help it, they get married.

You should comfort your boyfriend, after all, he quarreled with the family or even broke off the relationship because of you, you can see your boyfriend's attitude, he wants to be with you and will not break up with you.

My boyfriend's family is already like this, and I must not like you very much, so let's break up as soon as possible, it's not interesting to stay up like this.

Ask yourself if you really like your boyfriend, if you really like it, then hold on with your boyfriend, and slowly his family will accept you.

Parents don't think about their children, your boyfriend can talk to his parents first, your advantages and his firm determination to live with you for the rest of his life, the old man still walks the road and sees many people, they oppose whether they also have their reasons, only by understanding the reasons, can we prescribe the right medicine.

As long as it is true love, you must insist, at this time, your boyfriend values your attitude the most, you can't hesitate, you must support him, and he will not marry.

Then break up with him, because his parents don't like you, and even if you keep insisting, you won't have a good life when you enter his house in the future.

If the boyfriend insists on staying together, they have to work together to convince the family, and in the end, the parents will definitely agree.

Depending on your boyfriend's attitude, if he is determined to be with you, he will find a way to solve it, don't worry too much.

If your boyfriend is genuine about you, get along well. If not, just break up. Persistence does not lead to happiness.

Then break up with your boyfriend, don't let his parents hate you for the rest of your life because of a relationship, and there are so many high-quality boys, and then choose something else.

For the distress and tangled problems you encounter.

1. Whether the relationship with the lover is worth the sacrifices and concessions you make.

2. Whether the family resistance can be withstanded.

3. Stick to each other, whether the emotional support can withstand the test.

4. See if there is the possibility of having the best of both worlds and being able to compromise with each other.

5. Look at whether you really need a career or a family, there is no perfect thing in the world, and see if your efforts can make you feel worthwhile and have no regrets.

6. We must leave room for independent existence in society and family, and understand what we need and desire in our hearts.

How to say it! Your family is rich, isn't it? It may be that your family looks down on him for being rural!

But that's what I thought! It's not easy for a young man from the countryside to be able to read a Ph.D.! This is the man's greatest success!

What does your family look down on him! If he really loves you, you can ignore what his family thinks of him! I'm sure you can make a name for yourself with your knowledge!

And now is the time to test you! Are you going to bet your life on your parents or on him you like!