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This shows that you love her very much, value her very much, and you are a very emotional person. Anxiety, excessive worry, and psychological pressure are relatively high, which means that the relationship between the two people during your relationship is not correct, both parties are equal to each other, you are destined in this life, and you do your best to do your duty as a man.
Suggestions and opinions: You must adhere to this mentality: what is mine is mine, and if it is not mine, it will be lost sooner; Two people together.
If you are in a happy mood and are very speculative with each other, if you really take care of them, it will not be a problem. In addition, you understand her temper and try to let her be careful, women need to be cared for by men.
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You have thought of a thousand possibilities, and if you don't act, there is only one possibility, and that is that you and her are impossible.
Hurry up and be a man of action, if you are together, the new love will give her new feelings, how can you remember the words of the past? In addition, she doesn't go to remember and don't pay attention to it, it's not the point to delete it or not, hurry up, I wish you success.
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Many things are written out to express an emotion at the time, and after a long time, even if it was strong at the time, I don't remember it.
It's normal to worry too much and think too much.
A lot of men think about a lot of things, and after thinking about it, they just want to think about it themselves.
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You're scared of losing in love, but the worst outcome is a breakup. The key is for you to let go of your heart and no longer worry about the sky!
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After a long time, I don't remember even how thick it was at the time.
It's normal to worry too much and think too much.
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Everyone has experienced some emotion. It's normal to miss the old days. You can't drill the horns.
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The reason why I feel uneasy in love is that the first is mainly the reason of personality, in fact, it is the love of introverted people, which can easily produce uneasy disorders. Because he is often not confident, he does not dare to ask some questions clearly, but thinks silently by himself, but this kind of silent thinking is often the more he thinks about it, the more sad he becomes, and the more he thinks about it, the more pessimistic he becomes. When an introvert is wronged, he is also suppressed in his heart, and gradually his mood is very low.
The love of introverted people is prone to uneasy disorders, and another reason for the lack of parental love when they were young, that is, the phenomenon of original family love. Fathers and mothers care too little about their children, or they use beating and scolding education, which hurts the child's heart. Then since he didn't learn how to love when he was young, he will have some love anxiety when he grows up, he is always afraid that he is not good enough, he is always afraid that others will not love him.
If a person's personality is sentimental, he will think a lot inexplicably. When he sleeps at night, there are all kinds of pictures flying out of his mind like movies, which often makes his nerves very tense and anxious. And he often gets along alone, he doesn't want to tell others about his troubles, and chooses to endure it alone.
But he doesn't feel relaxed, he often thinks about a lot of things in his heart, in fact, there are many things that he doesn't need to think about, but he always can't help it, this is a little sick.
There is also a reason that a proud heart can produce this kind of love anxiety, because he is a proud person, so he will not give up easily, he is a high self-esteemTherefore, he is not willing to compromise with the other half. Such a person is also bad, too much pride and self-esteem are a burden. Because he always wonders if his other half loves him enough?
This is also a condition that produces anxiety disorders. These deficiencies have more or less caused a seven-year itch in marriage. At such moments, if the men on the outside exert a little warm care, the women will generally be tricked and indulge in unrealistic appreciation and fantasies.
And many people will think that this is the savior of marriage.
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The battle to defend love comes at a cost and money ......
There is no free lunch in the world, including the crystallization of harvesting love.
The reason why we feel anxious when we fall in love is because we are afraid that all our efforts will be in vain, and in the end, we will lose all our money and lose both our money and money!
Due to the serious imbalance in the ratio of women and men in today's society, girls are becoming more and more valuable, and the number of thinking concepts has also been baptized by higher education, they are no longer like women in ancient times who are loyal to men, today's women have unique opinions, and the standards for choosing a mate are also very high, no money, no appearance, don't want to mention marriage, so you need a certain amount of extraordinary capital to be able to stand on the invincible position of love, and girls are willing to marry ......
Because girls want to marry a rich man, who is good-looking, gentle, considerate, and empathetic, and loves his wife as their husband. So in the face of love, if the boy has no appearance and no money, no matter how much he pays in front of love, in the end, the girl may leave you....Because if a man is not good enough, he can't meet the material and spiritual needs of a woman, and in the end, no matter how much he pays, material money will be wasted, so in love, we will worry that there is no return for paying, and we will feel anxious!
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I am always afraid that one day I will lose each other, and I am afraid that the other party will no longer be loyal to me, this uncertainty has caused us to always be very anxious in love.
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Because we are not confident in ourselves, the main reason why we are anxious in love is that we are not confident in ourselves, we feel that we may not be able to give the other party happiness, and the other party may encounter a better choice than ourselves, and thinking too much leads to our own gains and losses, and then we feel anxious.
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Because in love, we have too many responsibilities and pressures, so we are always so anxious.
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If you are always anxious in love, it is mainly because you are not confident in yourself. I am afraid that the relationship between the two people is not strong, crawling in the twilight, afraid that the other party will run away, the reason why this is the case is that I am not confident in myself. Anxiety is triggered.
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Love is inherently the most complex emotion in life. So, because of the effort to strive for success and gain, in this way, it is very anxious and troublesome, and it always causes anxiety.
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The reason why we are so anxious in love is because we attach special importance to love and lovers. Our concern for them can lead to frequent emotional swings. In addition, love will face the material conditions facing marriage, houses, cars, which will make us feel anxious.
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Because in today's society, material life is still more important. And then everything seems to be affected by matter. So love becomes very uncertain.
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In love, I don't seem so anxious, because I feel that it is yours after all, and there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, and with fate, how can two people not be separated? So I've never felt anxious, and I hope that people who feel anxious won't be anxious, because life is so beautiful.
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Hello, I think love is a placebo in anxiety, which means that this person is actually eager to talk to people, which will relieve psychological pressure.
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Those who are unwilling to let go are often not worth cherishing, and those who are chasing are often not what life needs. Stop and laugh at the wind and clouds, sit down and enjoy the flowers, and settle down to watch at ease. The calmer the mentality, the fewer bumps in the road.
The opportunities of life, please, may not come; Hiding may not be avoidable. The mentality is flat, the right face to come, and the loss is indifferent. The inner entanglement in the uneasiness is the attitude that you care about this relationship very much, as for the strength of the heart, to be honest, this has nothing to do with the relationship, if you are very attentive to this relationship, you have to match a firm heart, not afraid of hard work, not afraid of tiredness, never back down the kind of spirit.
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He can't see it yet, you should tell him the truth, a relationship must have problems when you are scared, as for what can be done better, everyone like this will regret it, even if you tell him, communicate more real thoughts and tell him.
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There is a kind of fool in the world.
Do you know? When they themselves are at their saddest.
but comforting others.
Sometimes we just owe it.
I like to flip through things that affect my mood.
Doctors don't heal themselves. Man does not cross himself.
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What kind of people are prone to love anxiety? In fact, I think the main reason for the emergence of anxiety disorder in love is my personality and temperament.
In fact, people with more introverted personalities are prone to love anxiety, because such people are generally not confident, and they dare not ask the truth of the matter when they encounter something inappropriate that they feel the other party has done, but they think silently, and even over-guess and think about it. This kind of silent thinking and magnifying the consequences of things often makes you more pessimistic and sad the more you think about it. And when an introvert is wronged, he will not express it to the other party, but suppress it in his heart, the more he thinks about it, the more aggrieved he becomes, and slowly his emotions will be very melancholy.
Therefore, introverts are considered to be a type of anxiety disorder susceptible.
There is also a kind of person, that is, people who have lacked family love since childhood, which is the phenomenon of lack of love as we understand it. Parents who care too little about their children, or grow up in a parental scolding education, can hurt the child's heart greatly during the teenage years. Because he didn't learn how to love or be loved when he was a child, he couldn't grasp the attitude and degree of the other party's love for himself, and always hoped that the other party would love himself in his own way, and even restrained the other party's normal communication with other members of the opposite sex.
At the same time, there is another reason, and that is habit. Because I am always used to being alone, and suddenly becoming two people, my living state will have to be adjusted accordingly, and many people will feel that they are not well adjusted, such as eating habits, work and rest habits, etc., which need to be adjusted accordingly, and I am afraid that if I can't get used to it, anxiety will naturally occur.
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Because love is two people together, there is an excess, after all, I was used to being alone before, and now there is one more person, we have to consider living expenses, coax each other, and consider the future, and this future also has too many uncontrollable factors, so there will be a sense of anxiety.
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Because some people have low self-esteem and anxiety, do what you should do in the case of a normal relationship, don't think too much, which will cause a lot of pressure on yourself!
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Because of the lack of security, the lack of trust in others, the other person will bring a lot of uncertainty, and these are beyond control, so it can bring anxiety.
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When you are alone, you are free, and when you are two people, you think more and care more, and you will not have these anxieties when you get married.
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one's own joys, sorrows, and sorrows are no longer dominated by oneself; To begin to blend in with another person's circle; Fear of losing because of gain; Thinking too much and not daring to grasp it tighter.
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I think there are two sides to everything, and it's normal to have these things on the opposite side of happiness.
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This must be a bad person, some scumbags are very bad, so in love, you must see clearly, who can be friends, stay away from uneducated people, so as not to be hurt.
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If you want your girlfriend to live well, you have to work hard to earn money, and you have to care more about your girlfriend with your time and experience, and it is difficult to bring strong anxiety to yourself, is this normal?
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It may be said that after a person has been single for a long time. And then the performance, because I got used to being alone, and then suddenly fell in love, had a boyfriend and girlfriend, and sometimes I was at a loss. Then I have to go and coax my girlfriend, and then sometimes I have to buy a bag for my girlfriend, buy lipstick, buy clothes, and then I have to coax him, and sometimes the boy is very tired, especially after a day of work, and then his girlfriend makes a fuss.
So it's a kind of phobia of love, because I'm used to it, because I'm used to being single, and suddenly one more person has to take care of her emotions, and I have to coax her to do it, and I will feel uncomfortable spending money on him, and I have to control myself and say that this is not good, and it is not okay to say that, sometimes I will feel very annoyed. But getting married and falling in love is the only way for everyone Wow, well, are there more boys now? There are few girls who can't get a wife like this, and then they will be very annoyed.
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Don't trust each other, don't feel safe.
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This symptom is also a kind of love phobia, the reason for love phobia is mainly related to life experience, for example, I have been hurt in my previous love history, or my relatives and friends have been hurt by love, and even because of some love movies and TV series, I have misinterpreted my views on love, resulting in psychological shadows and fear of love.
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Types of love phobia: rejection love phobia: once you smell the smell of love, you will naturally retreat, often fearing that the end of the relationship will be a joy.
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Worried, afraid of not being able to do it for a long time and afraid of investing too much.
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