Obviously two people who love each other, why do they quarrel every day? Very tired

My boyfriend and I also had a lot of fights for a while, and it was all trivial. I also thought about breaking up, but neither of us made an unforgivable mistake and it wasn't worth breaking up like this. We often quarrel because we don't think from the other person's point of view and don't know how to care about each other's feelings.

Don't say anything. In the end, they were uncomfortable. We all have to learn how to understand each other, tolerate each other, say anything directly, bury it in our hearts is not beneficial, and only by saying it can we solve the problem.

This is what my boyfriend taught me, and now we have very few fights. Every time we quarrel and reconcile, it's as good as ever. I feel the same way.

If both parties love each other very much, then they should cherish each other Summarize the reasons for the quarrel Find a time for two people to sit down and talk about the problem calmly How to solve it How to avoid quarrels in the future, it is not easy to find someone who loves each other now Don't give up each other's hand easily Because maybe this time you let go You won't be able to pull it anymore ... My boyfriend and I separated because of this, and I don't know if he will regret it, at least I regret it...

Why do the two love each other very much, but often quarrel?

Alas, I haven't tasted it! But it's quite thundery. People are emotionally vulnerable. Young people are all about playing with personality, and men should indeed be generous, but when they are generous, women must react! Probably when the end of the earth comes, I will know how to cherish it.

That's still divided, right, when is it a head over and over again?

2. Learn to be patient, it doesn't matter who is right and who is wrong.

The process of two people getting to know and falling in love is often from the beginning of passionate love to the beginning of contradictions, and even constant quarrels. From the perspective of human psychology, this is because when two people first met, they saw each other as perfect and hoped that this perfection would be maintained. And keep it as you want.,Once there is a deviation, you will make various demands on the other party.,When you don't meet it, you will quarrel.。

As the two get along deeply, more and more shortcomings of the other party are exposed, some shortcomings are acceptable, but some shortcomings are completely unacceptable, and quarrels naturally occur. In addition, when people get along with others, they will enter a period of fatigue, whether it is getting along with friends, lovers, or married life. Once you enter the fatigue period, the other party will not please you do anything, and at the same time, you will no longer tolerate everything with each other.

1. Always hope that the other party is more perfect

When couples first meet, they like to say: You are the best and most perfect person I have ever met. In fact, the psychological starting point when I said this is that I want you to keep a perfect state all the time.

Once one day you find that the other party is no longer perfect in many aspects, or even makes your psychological gap a little big, then quarrels between the two are inevitable.

2. Some shortcomings are unacceptable

In the early days of love, two people will always tell each other that I accept your strengths and weaknesses, just because I love you as a person. But in fact, after staying together for a long time, you will find that this is simply impossible, and some shortcomings are simply unacceptable to the other party. For example, if you are loud when eating, not brushing your teeth at night, talking too loudly, etc., a quarrel will occur at this time.

3. Entered a period of fatigue and was not tolerant enough

When people get along with each other, even if they have a good relationship, there will be a period of getting along fatigue. Otherwise, how can there be a saying that "flowers are not red for a hundred days, and people are not good for a thousand days". After the person in love enters the fatigue period, there will be a phenomenon that is no longer tolerant of each other, and a little problem will become a big conflict and quarrel, and it is best to think about the other party's past when they are about to quarrel.

Because two people don't know how to tolerate, they are very impulsive when there is a conflict. Two people should learn to communicate and resolve conflicts through communication.

This is because two people do not know how to respect, understand, trust, and tolerate each other in their daily interactions, but deliberately complain, and they will not have a corresponding sense of ritual, and they don't even know how to consider problems from each other's point of view.

This situation shows that they are just in love, but they have not yet reached the point of knowing each other, so they always quarrel.

It is likely that it is difficult for two people to consider problems from the other's point of view, and they can't control their emotions when they encounter things, so they are prone to tantrums and often quarrel.

It may be because there are many contradictions in life, and two people have different views, and there are contradictions when they have different views on the same thing.

Although two people love each other very much together, not just any two people will have the same personality, just have a heart that loves each other, and factors such as personality are also irresistible.

The so-called love is often something that makes you feel excited. And the attraction of this aspect will gradually fade with the interaction, and finally, the original excitement will slowly become passive. As a result, the two entered the bland and watery dating transition period of the old husband and wife mode.

During this period, the eyes that were blurred by the heartbeat became clearer, and as a result, you will find many shortcomings that you can tolerate and cannot tolerate on the other side, and as a result, the contradictions will increase dramatically.

This is also the true portrayal of Ren Xianqi's "It's easy to fall in love, it's too difficult to get along".

This situation is still related to two people who love each other too much, or give each other too much pressure, and it will naturally be easy to have this contradiction after a long time.