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A word of advice for you. What is a friend.
It is impossible to live without friends. But. Don't think of friends as the main thing in your life.
You're autistic right now. It is impossible for a person to live without friends. Friend.
can make you happy. Happy. People are cheerful and come from being with your friends.
A person's self-confidence must be related to your cheerfulness. I'm in a good mood every day. This is the main point.
Practice your communication skills. It's also possible to make some friends online. Talk to them when you're bored. It can also improve your communicative skills.
I'd like to say that later. Friend. It's just temporary.
This society is a cannibalistic society. So no matter how good you and your friends are. And don't lose him.
Saddened. in this world. Anyone who rubs shoulders with you.
It could be your friend.
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Friend, in fact, you are lost in life, don't be afraid, first figure out who you are, and then find the lighthouse, which is your ideal, and move towards it.
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Friends are used by each other. They all want to take advantage of each other. There are really fewer righteous people.
If you want to make friends, don't get too involved, just be a regular friend. That way you won't be so unhappy in your heart. Because you care too much, you are hurt badly.
Do you understand? Stand up, this pain is nothing. There is even more pain in life.
If you're not happy, you can come to me.
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You have to force yourself to go out, don't stay at home all the time and find a job So at least you won't have so much time to think about it Friends are essential in our lives But friends are not all in our lives There are all kinds of people in the world, no one is perfect, and the heart of defense is indispensable Maybe your sense of self-protection is a little poor, and you have to use different ways when you are with different friends
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I have the same mentality as you, but when they walk away, I regret it, and to keep them, maybe fickleness is human nature, when they are too close to me, I can't help but push them away, and I am numb over and over again, my friend also told me that he was scarred by me, I had doubted whether I had a psychological problem, but in fact, this is a view of the world by people, unwilling to express it easily, but I understand: we don't need to open our hearts at all, when you meet real friends, you can't help but say your thoughts to them, everyone has their own line of defense, but someone doesn't show it, so don't think too much about it Follow-up: But haven't you noticed, it's easy to hate yourself and get tired of this repetition, aren't you?
It's confusing. I know, too, it's because you care too much about how friends feel, and sometimes a few very subtle words can make your heart quite uneasy, right?!Change your mindset or don't let them get too close, shift your focus to your studies, really, stop paying very much attention to these things, then you will understand that there is distance to keep the friendships you like!!
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Learn to appreciate the stars in the night sky, the clouds drifting in the blue sky.
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He has taken a fancy to you and wants to trick you into going home to be your daughter-in-law.
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Locked up because I don't want to face it anymore.
The door that was forcibly locked, but there would still be a slit, waiting for someone to find ...... one dayYour heart can really be locked or opened only by yourself, and what you really want to determine is only whether it is worth "opening" for the person who is "opened".
Close your eyes, take your time, and think carefully about what you really wantThen open your eyes and see if the person across from you can meet your needs. If you can, then open it without reservation.
Even if there is no perfect ending in the end, at least, at this moment, you will not regret it.
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- Mingyue has no heart.
Everyone has a key that can open a door in this vast world: the door of the heart.
Everyone also has a lock, waiting for the key that belongs to them to open.
You must have had such a lock and key, and perhaps someone has tried to open it, and finally you hear the sound of the key falling to the ground, which is the result of an accident.
Maybe you have also taken that key to open someone else's lock, and you want to open that lock so much, but as a result, you hear the click of the key breaking, which is the fault left by the previous life.
When you walked past me many times, the key jingled in front of your chest and sang, what a familiar melody, I remembered it in my heart five hundred years ago, I was sure that your key could open my dusty heart lock for many years, but you did not pay attention. Walk through without stopping for a moment.
The world is so impermanent, if you find that lock, cherish it, and don't wait until the keys are rusty.
Life is so short, if you find that key, open your heart, and don't wait for gray hair to regret it.
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Just tell yourself: look at everything and don't care too much. Face everything happily, even if it is a blizzard, you must walk bravely to the past, because the candlelight ahead is hope. And love everyone, of course, not the love of love, but the love of love.
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Communicate with each other's hearts and exchange their thoughts.
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Only by the nourishment of love, the long-sealed heart can be gently opened, and only through the influence of love can the soul of a person remain young forever, and the fire of life can be ignited again, and the most beautiful and beautiful music of life can be played passionately!
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You're going to try to open up.
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Find the reason why you close your heart. Indirect evasion shows that you don't dare to face the people standing in front of you, in fact, you lack trust and don't trust the people around you. For example, I am afraid that others will know about my mental illness, and I am afraid that others will not be able to understand me.
You should understand the truth that if you have no desires, you will be strong, and if you can let go of all selfish distractions, you will not be afraid of anything.
Don't worry too much about yourself. Pay more attention to others, think about what you can do for others, and what kind of help you can give to others. If you care too much about what others think of you, are always suspicious, and think badly of others, you will be afraid of certain things due to nervousness, which will lead to avoidance behavior.
Keep an appropriate distance. You don't have to get too close to others, and you should focus on your studies and work, which will make you feel fulfilled. Only by having a distance from others can we retain a beautiful friendship.
You don't have to deliberately open your heart, everyone has their own line of defense, it's just that some people don't show it. When you meet a true friend, you can't help but say what is in your heart to them.
Think about anything. Maybe you haven't met anyone or something that can touch your heart. Only under such an opportunity will your heart be knocked open.
Allow your heart to be purified in serenity. People who can really think about anything will not close their hearts. As long as you can think about it.
Socialize with the right people. No matter what your personality is, there will always be someone who can open the door to your heart. It's about meeting the right people, people who are attractive to you.
It is difficult to open your heart by yourself, always alone. Get along with the people you like, and the sparks in the collision can ignite your long-sealed heart.
Consider whether you should change yourself. If you feel that with your character, you are living a good life and are very comfortable and happy, there is no need to change anything, and you don't have to do things that go against your heart. If you feel that your personality is too unfit for society and even unable to survive, then you should really think about how to change yourself.
Observe life more carefully. When you close yourself, the world becomes so dark and small. Only by observing life more can we be interested in life, and you will find that the outside world is really rich and exciting.
Only with a delicate and sensitive mind can we discover many beautiful things in the world.
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Longing for love, pursuing love, hoping to have a high companion completely belong to their own love, all this is very slim, once loved, also hurt, for love I paid a lot I don't beg for anything in return, but I am afraid of hurt, afraid of tears, when I have love gone, when love is broken, I am also in a shed tears, alone tasting their own tears, I know the taste of tears, is salty, really unchanged or salty, but my heart is bitter ......Landlord, I wish you happiness and sweetness in love!
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In front of oneself, there should always be a place to be left alone. Then go to love. I don't know what it is, I don't know who it is, I don't know how to love, and I don't know how long I can love.
Dou Shou Xian is just waiting for love once, maybe no one will ever be. However, this kind of seepage and destruction is love itself.
It is a very happy thing to have a girl like you, don't be in a hurry to reject her, you can tell her first, it's too sudden, you can't react a little, tell him that you can be friends first, if she hears your reply, and no longer cares about you in the future, you can leave it alone, if she continues to associate with you, it means that she likes you more deeply, and she won't give up easily, you can try to date her, if you can, accept her. The most important thing is not to let these things affect the mood of studying.
Contact your parents. Education is not a teacher's business. It's okay to criticize it in class, but don't criticize it by name. Let's just say how someone is how. Don't add emotion.
We have loving parents, friends who love us, they like us because of our character, and our boyfriends are with us because of our character. If the man's parents don't like his personality, then we don't have to be sad, this is the real me. No need to change.
If you want to get married, you must confess, men will mind the girl's side of things, after marriage, I like to turn over old accounts if I quarrel, make it clear before marriage, I believe it will be considerate of you, if not, then there is no need to be together again, after all, it is a matter of paper that can't hold the fire.
The wisest way is for the three of you to sit down and talk, don't talk to her alone, if you talk alone, there are two results, one, she will add fuel and vinegar to talk to him, and it may be serious, causing you...Second, she will feel that you care about him very much, so she will use this psychology to harass you and force you to quit, and it is best for the three of them to sit down and have a good talk and listen to his opinion....