I am disliked by my boyfriend s family, how to adjust my mentality?

We have loving parents, friends who love us, they like us because of our character, and our boyfriends are with us because of our character. If the man's parents don't like his personality, then we don't have to be sad, this is the real me. No need to change.

My personality is that I don't care what others think, but if the person I like is a little shaken, I won't stick to it anymore.

When two people are together, no one owes anyone, it's just that I like you, and you just like me. They were equal to each other from the beginning, so why should they be influenced by others?

And the scariest part is, even if you try your best to get closer to what they want, they are not satisfied?

Although continuing your education is also a good thing for you, just wanting you to be better and wanting you to be worthy of your boyfriend has a completely different meaning.

If you are like the subject's boyfriend's parents, you don't have a good enough education, you don't look beautiful enough, and your family conditions are not good enough. Then your boyfriend wants you to continue your graduate studies, not allowed, and you can only get married when the conditions are good. What if your parents think that your boyfriend has had surgery and is not in good health and won't let you get married?

Can your boyfriend become him who hasn't had surgery?

Isn't it because your boyfriend is trying to get you to talk to his parents and express his determination to be with you? How can it turn out that your boyfriend and his parents want you to be what they want you to be?

First of all, since his son chose me, then I must have my own merits. His parents disliked me, probably because they didn't think I was good enough. That's the kind of character I am.

I won't change for the sake of their family's dislike. Everyone is different, and I don't have to change for the sake of some of their parents' thoughts.

Just be yourself. Your character, your lifestyle, doesn't have to be changed by the people in their family. Besides, you are living with his son, not with his family. There's no need to be sad about their family's dislike of you.

Happy because I have my own parents. Love our own people, why should we ruin our mood for those who are irrelevant. Their dislike is just a dissatisfaction with themselves. Or maybe they just don't want to really know themselves.

If you are disgusted by your boyfriend's family, and you want to adjust your mentality, then you should first have a good talk with your boyfriend, if the other party's family really can't accept you, then you can only break up, and then keep your mentality balanced.

First of all, be confident yourself, and you have to be prepared if your boyfriend's family has been disgusted with the worst outcome, see if you can accept it, if you can't accept it, it's better to divide it early.

If your boyfriend has always maintained and cared for herself, and reconciled the gap between himself and his family from the middle, then he is a good boyfriend.

It takes your own continuous efforts to prove to them that you are worthy of their son, that you have been with your boyfriend, not his family, so that you will feel more comfortable.

First of all, you have to find out why their family dislikes you, if you think you are not worthy of their son, I think you will definitely suffer after you get married.

I think at this time, you should keep yourself in a good attitude, keep yourself in a good state, this is still very important, if others dislike themselves and dislike themselves, wouldn't it be worse.

First of all, let's take a look at what your boyfriend's family dislikes about you. See if you can change it. Second, look at your boyfriend's attitude.