My husband doesn t trust anyone, including his family, he is insecure but not a single parent.

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Actually, you don't trust anyone from the bottom of your heart. Hehe, people who don't trust others.

    Must have been hurt inhumanely. I don't trust anyone either. It's anyone......In the hearts of these people, they don't even believe in themselves. Because of this world.

    It's meant to be dirty.

    I've got you covered:

    1.Try to soften his heart and care more about him (this kind of person is actually eager to be cared for). But don't nag, annoying. It is easy to arouse your husband's disgust.

    2.To improve your status in his mind, you think about what to do, after all, you are two people.

    3.You want to know all about his heart. Does he know everything in your heart?

    4.As it was said upstairs, go to him and make a little touch. Let him know that you value him more than your own life.

    Take your time, this kind of person thinks differently than you do. That's all there is to it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since he is the pillar of the family, you should take care of your family and let him know that you need him, and you can't live without him (it may be a bit exaggerated, you just understand the meaning). Or have a child, children are the best adjustment for marriage and family.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Only when he is drunk or very excited, will he tell you that you are a person who believes in a word, and he is moved by his actions.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Go to him and live with him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'll see a psychiatrist.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Living conditions are better! The environment has changed! The time with you is short, you are older, and you are starting to doubt!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's trust in him, gone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because you have no love for him, you don't trust him anymore.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe it's something his family has encountered, maybe he really doesn't know what you're doing, or maybe the reason why he's upset is that the society is too turbulent, for fear of losing you, it's better to try to pull him to do something together, gradually go out together to do something, and slowly reassure him, of course, it's best not to do it right away You feel the same way as him, or talk to other people of the opposite sex very enthusiastically, just have normal interactions, or let him help or something. There are a lot of specifics, but let's start with these. If necessary, please feel free to contact us.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe you're too pretty. He's afraid you'll change your mind.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It depends on whether what his parents say is ruining the relationship between you and the couple, and if so, solve it. Record when needed. If not, leave it alone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    To understand that your husband is helpless, his parents gave birth to him and raised him, even if you do it right, he can't go against his parents! He doesn't feel good in his heart, only forbearance, you have to talk to him well, don't quarrel, don't make trouble, care more about your husband, he will understand you, the young couple has opinions about their parents, only forbearance, love is the most important!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your lover copied the letter to whoever said it, and it was not.

    The subject of the question. Parents are the elders he wants to honor, and you are the lover by his side. If your parents say that they love you and maintain the family, of course they will listen.

    If you say something in the same sense, he will listen. He put his parents first out of filial piety. He puts you a little later, because you are the lover by his side, husband and wife are one, with one heart and one mind, and in his heart, you are the one who lives with him for the rest of his life.

    Intimacy and trust should be met with your understanding. Your lover should be a good man.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    One, your husband may be a mother's treasure.

    Second, it is not just to believe in the words of parents, but to respect the elderly.

    At home, men have to take on the task of dealing with the conflict between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Sometimes he's protecting you in his own way!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, he was brought up by his parents since he was a child, and there is a deep-rooted influence, you are considered an "outsider", and secondly, if you want to change this situation, you should let him become responsible, "far away" from his parents, and take on the responsibility of your small family alone.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It should be that there is a problem with the way of communication, first find the reason in himself, and then communicate with his parents, empathy, if it doesn't work, he should be asked to reflect and reflect.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First: You can't have a relationship yet.

    Good enough; Second: He can be a mother's treasure man, and he needs you to train him.

    Du raised him to stand alone;

    Third: possible DAO

    You have said something or done something that makes him a little distrustful or insecure about you;

    Fourth: Maybe what you say is irrational, or objectively speaking, what you say is not as good and reasonable as his parents said.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Ma Bao Nan It's very troublesome to find such a man, and tell him directly, since they all listen to your parents, then you can live with them.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Depending on the situation, as long as his parents' words do not seriously damage your interests.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no way, when is the family most important in their eyes, unless his family is towards you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your credit is so bad that your husband doesn't believe you, or your mother-in-law doesn't like you in the first place, or your husband is a mom boy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can communicate directly with your husband, and if you don't believe your words, it means that the fate of husband and wife is over.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Find a relationship master to analyze how two close people get along.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That shows how careless you are in handling the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What I said was meant to be sincere, trust me!

    Don't say too much, look at my actions!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Trash cloth, shoddy, deceived.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What did you do to make him not believe you?

    You can do anything to make him believe.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Living with such a husband is better than death.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I'm a person who speaks directly, and what you chose with him was his money, so you can only endure this. His problem is not only now, but it has always been there, and it can't be changed, and there are many examples like this around me.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Do not consult yourself about anything, and be financially defensive of yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    That's not machismo. It's selfishness. Not when you are your own person. Worth it when you're his appendage. When your family is also an appendage. And look down on them. That's why it's like this.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    What else do you have to say about becoming a husband, why did you choose him in the first place? Isn't it because he has a successful career? When you meet such a person and live in this family, you can only seek satisfaction with grievances and manage your marriage well, otherwise you will be out!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    1. Parents, lovers, and children are all a family.

    2. My husband is going to live with you for the rest of my life.

    3. It is appropriate to take good care of parents and children.

    4. But you are equal to them in the family, and it is more important than them abroad, because the two of you have to leave the longest.

    5. The husband should give his love and responsibility to the family equally.

    6. If he only has parents and no you at all, then I don't know how you met and how you came together.

    7. If the situation is what you say, then I suggest you communicate with your husband to see what the situation is, why he doesn't care about you at all, and if you can't change it, I suggest you leave.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Understand him, his loving parents show that he is very filial, you also communicate with him more, if he is reasonable, he will change, the two must learn to communicate together, and must not quarrel.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    How can you think so? Don't you care about your parents, it's normal for him to care about his parents, you don't have to be jealous, such a man is a good man.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    To understand that my husband's parents and you are his relatives, I think it's a bit selfish for you to think like that.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Actually, that's not fear

    Afraid of marriage, but afraid of marriage change. Because of the purpose.

    The divorce rate before zhi was too high, especially 80

    The young people who have not been thoughtful in the post-90s and post-90s are like treating marriage and divorce as child's play. Therefore, there are many post-80s and post-90s generations who are a little more stable and have to consider whether their marriage is stable and long-lasting. So I'm always worried about whether I'll get divorced one day.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Communicate more with your husband, your wife uses it to hurt.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Communicate more. You lack communication.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Because you care so you are afraid of losing, because you are afraid of losing so you will beware, you should believe in yourself, believe in your husband, start with yourself, live a good life, it is not easy for two couples to come together

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