Why are men so ruthless?

When you are immersed in the beauty of love, he also thought about changing the existing state to be responsible for you to the end, but the reality is so cold, which makes you fall from the paradise of love to the middle of the cold reality, he may not be deceiving you, but he can't help himself.

Uh, I think you need to take a break and calm down and think about these things between you. Do not deny all your past because of a little bad thing, thinking that everything is false. What you said is that love without marriage is just love, and they all say that marriage is the grave of love, but love without marriage is just love, and it is a line segment rather than a complete circle.

You have to make a choice, and you have to choose when he can't give you a marriage. It's a choice that has to be made. Commitment is something that must be in the process of two people falling in love, in fact, those promises don't mean anything, you don't think too much about it, think about everything for good, he doesn't lie to you, he also wants to practice everything promised you, but the reality is very cruel, in the face of reality, when each of us is powerless, don't force these if you really love him, don't distort love.

May you be happy.

Several men who used to love me and loved me so badly are not still married after breaking up. Had a great time. Because love is the most unreliable thing. As you get older and experienced, you will gradually understand. Fate is over, and you can't force it. Let it be.

It's like this all over the world, you are sincere to each other, but the other party doesn't care about your feelings, or you don't care about each other, and the other party respects and loves you very much, in a word, you don't care if you get your hands Hehe, there is no pair in the world Relying on yourself.

There is no right or wrong in feelings, it is yours, it is yours, it is not yours, and it is not yours to cry to death. There is room for crying, so it's better to find someone else who loves each other.

Men are rational in their feelings, and their thinking is very different from that of women.

The Buddha said: Face it with a smile and don't complain. Leisurely, casual, casual, casual.

What is destined to change a lifetime is only in a hundred years, when that flower blooms.

Ma'am, don't be one-size-fits-all! There are some things to be realized by yourself, good luck to you!

Then you are more ruthless than him! Men are trash!

Why are you breaking up again What is the reason Are you not doing a good job to make him tired of it.

It's also very important to keep men.

I'm going through the same thing as you! But he's a woman. 55555 sad past.

Many men are very ruthless, saying that they will break up when they break up, mainly because he is rational thinking, he judges whether a period of Keqing is suitable or not, and he will not think emotionally, but rationally, so he is very ruthless.

1. Thinking. Men are rational thinkers, so he judges whether a relationship is appropriate or not, while women are emotional thinkers, judging a relationship with love and non-love. So you will find that women will say when they go to a man after being broken up

Do you still love me? ”。If a man says "don't love", "I don't believe it, I don't believe you're going to stop loving me, you're lying, aren't you?"

First of all, let me tell you: it is impossible for love to disappear. But what men are talking about is whether it is suitable or not, what you are talking about is whether it is suitable or not, and you are talking about love and not love. So what you call desperation is the conclusion you come to after your perceptual thinking.

2. Steps to recover.

Generally, a man breaks up mainly into two situations: one is that he feels inappropriate and forces you to break up. The second is that he feels that there are a lot of negative emotions now, and when he reaches the limit, he can't hold it anymore and wants to break up.

Either way, if you go to him at this time, you're only going to create something called negative emotion. He wants to break up, you want to redeem it, and that's when the two of you start to fight. He will say more things that hurt your heart and try to get you to give up.

So what he said: "Get out of here", "There is no chance", is it true? It's not, it's just that he wanted to escape at that time, so he said what the coward said.

At this time, you should not lose confidence and feel that there is no hope of recovery. "He said so", don't listen to what he says, but you have to be clear about what you want to do, and that's it.

You have to eat, don't you eat until you're hungry", and even tell you: "Are you really not hungry?" ”。

You will find that even if the child is hungry, he will not eat. But you throw the bowl over there and go away by yourself, and he will be hungry later, and he will eat himself. So the child can't be forced, and neither can the feelings.

Personally, I think there are several reasons why men are ruthless

1. Other character problems.

He just wants to find someone with good family conditions, he dislikes you and he doesn't match, and the family is poor, so he breaks up.

Second, you put too much pressure on him.

Although you have been encouraging him and accompanying him to find a job, you also said that sometimes you are tired and talk harder.

I don't know how much you said, but you can tell from your letter that you don't think there's anything wrong with yourself.

But I guess you must have hurt his self-esteem, otherwise you wouldn't have mentioned it in your letter, and he wouldn't have reacted so much.

Third, he is afraid of hurting his self-esteem.

It is possible that he does not have the ability to buy a house at all, but because the work has made him very frustrated and his self-esteem is very hurt, he simply breaks up with you, lest you say something that he can't accept.

Fourth, he is afraid of failing you.

Both of you are currently not earning much, and he has just worked, so both parties are not able to afford to buy a house at this time, which means that if you want to buy a house, you two have to gnaw at the old.

As a 30-year-old man, he may not be able to leave all the pressure of buying a house to his parents, and he doesn't want to disappoint you, so in a dilemma, the best thing to do is to break up with you.

Fifth, he felt unfair.

Although we all think that the man should pay for the house when he gets married, if the woman doesn't pay a penny, and his own ability is limited, I'm afraid he will feel uncomfortable.