What do you think about a friend who says bad things after being rejected to borrow a car?

I don't think I need to care too much, my mouth grows on others, and I love to say whatever I want. A friend of mine had an accident with a borrowed car and hit someone else's newly purchased car very badly. Although the car is insured and the person is not too injured, the matter has come to this point, and the owner of the car is not good at saying anything, so he can only consider himself unlucky.

In the end, we are still friends, but the relationship is not as good as before. Therefore, I would rather have a friend speak ill of me behind my back, and I will never borrow a car. And then there are those who say bad things about their friends because they are rejected to borrow a car, and they don't make friends.

If it's a friend who says bad things about people when they are rejected, I recommend breaking up. After all, borrowing a car is a risk, and if something goes wrong, maybe you won't even have to be friends.

I don't borrow it, I love it. People who embarrass others and don't think about others have nothing to worry about. I think this kind of so-called friend you will offend him sooner or later, it is better now. Speaking ill of you is just a good way for you to see clearly who he is.

Break up. Friends should have the same outlook on life, values, and worldview, and a real friend is one who talks about your shortcomings in person and good things about you behind your back.

When others say bad things about themselves, they should not hear them, and if they make mistakes, they will correct them, and there is no way to crown them. Why care so much, no one is perfect.

If you explain to your friends why, I'm sure they will understand. The person who doesn't understand and still says bad things about you should just be an ordinary friend, so you can assume that you didn't hear it.

If you don't lend him something, he will definitely be unhappy in his heart, and he will definitely say a few words, don't pay attention to this kind of friend, the car can't be lent out casually.

I don't care, he did it because of the embarrassment and anger after the rejection, and I can understand this feeling, so I won't care about these things.

I don't think this kind of friend is worth making deep friends, this kind of friendship is all superficial, and I will be very glad to see the true face of a person through a small thing.

Thinking of Jolin Tsai's song "Open One Eye and Close One Eye" "People are not perfect", since you don't borrow, there must be enough reasons not to borrow, if you can't understand it, you can only shoot it in two.

Ignore it, and there is no need to be annoyed by it. You must know that you live for yourself, and you know what kind of person you are, and those who are good with yourself and know yourself are also clear, but we can't everyone understand themselves. In addition, we also have to think about it, if we ask a friend to borrow a car, and the friend refuses you, we may also complain behind our backs.

Ask a few more whys afterwards and figure it out. I'm sure my friends who have a good relationship will understand.

The classic talk of refusing to borrow a car.

The car is not around.

The argument that the brakes are out of order and repaired in a repair shop should scare off the borrower, after all, no one wants to have an accident on their own.

When the commercial insurance expires, there is only compulsory traffic insurance, and the accident is fully responsible.

This statement sounds a bit false, but a real veteran driver, or someone who is not deliberately pretending to be confused, will immediately understand your true intentions and will retreat.

I'm always in a hurry.

I recently have a very important customer, may need to use the car at any time, I know you are not in a hurry, just want to have a good time, when I am busy for a while, you can drive at any time, of course, this statement can only be used for friends who have a good relationship.

The wife or family disagrees.

My brother is nothing. But the key is not with me, I can't be the master, there is no way, this statement makes the other party seem to be embarrassing you, so the other party should not insist anymore.

You can give each other a ride in person.

Since someone else asks you to borrow a car, there must be a good reason, such as going to a certain place to do something urgent, you can say, I'll send you there, we have such a good relationship, I'll give you back as a free driver. Full of sincerity! Is there wood?

In this case, the other party can only accept your "selfless dedication".

Take a taxi for each other.

How tiring it is to drive by yourself, and how troublesome it is to come back after you are done. You're going somewhere, right, I'll give you a taxi! It's a bit far-fetched to say how comfortable it is to make it ready-made, but it works very well, after all, everyone is not stupid.

In fact, now people will "wronged themselves and fulfill others" for the sake of love, even if absolutely others have to make up a seemingly "reasonable" reason, few envy people can directly Zhengchang bury their faces and refuse to accept others, after all, it is a human society, and it is understandable. However, you should be cautious about borrowing a car.

1. The car is like a wife, and it will not be borrowed Advantages: This method is simple and rude, and the effect is immediate. Disadvantages: For friends who have a good relationship, it is easy to say this to be charged with not being upright and stingy.

022, if you want to borrow it, I will help you open it Advantages: The method is slightly tactful, and interested friends can fully understand what you mean. If a friend does want to use a car, then acting as a driver yourself can also give the friend face.

Disadvantages: It takes up your own time and energy, and is only suitable for situations where the journey is relatively short and you have plenty of time.

033, my wife is not allowed, and I can't Advantages: Transfer the contradiction to make it difficult for the borrower to attack directly. Cons:

This excuse only applies to men, because it is normal for women to be stingy and not to borrow a car. In addition, my wife has a habit of cleanliness and is worried that after borrowing it, my friends and other women will use the Phenando agent in the field to cause a car shock, and then she will be full of excitement and her car will be affected.

044, I want to travel, I can't borrow it Advantages: It is natural for the owner to use the car himself, and the other party is not good at insisting. Disadvantages: If it is proposed by a close friend, then it is best that you really have a travel plan, and it will look embarrassing if you are recognized.

055. There is a problem with the car and it has not been repaired Advantages: This is of course a very sufficient reason not to borrow the car. Disadvantages: If you encounter someone who wants to borrow a car, you will even offer to help you repair the car. Therefore, how to express the specific fault of the vehicle is very particular.

066. The responsibility is too great, and I dare not borrow you Advantages: This reason has basically been accepted by most people and is very sufficient. Disadvantages: Friends who have a good relationship often use all kinds of luck to enlighten you, such as saying that they will drive slowly, will be very cautious, etc. to persuade you.

Because he thinks you're stingy and won't even lend him a car, but I think you're doing the right thing, and you're not a reliable friend. Still slandering you behind your back.

It's a way for friends to get along, because if you don't meet his demands, he will denigrate you in front of others, forget about what you did to him before, and will only make up stories to discredit you.

Because human nature is difficult. Even if you are his friend, he will take it for granted that you should help him, and if you don't help, you are sorry for him, which is typical egoism.

For this kind of person, I think you should stay away from him, he is not worthy of being a friend, he will only ask for it from others, and he must not slander others later, and break off relations as soon as possible.

Don't be embarrassed, it's not if something happens, sorry for the question, don't borrow if you don't want to be responsible.