Recent troubles! It s been annoying lately!

I had a similar experience to you, but the girl was not in the same country as me, because she used to have a boyfriend, and she loved the man very much, but then she knew that the man had other women outside, and they separated, and she said that she couldn't get out of the man's shadow

She gave me a taste of the unique determination as a girl, you are fortunately still under the stairs, the last time I talked to her, maybe she was running out of words, and suddenly said You can't afford to support me, that sad

It's because this became the last conversation.,Later, she sent a text message to apologize.,Didn't reply Now she still lives without her.,**Number,QQ number or something have been deleted.,I can be an ordinary friend with my former girlfriend.,And she can't.,Because she's my first true love.,I'm afraid I won't be able to control it and bring it up again in the future.

It's still the old saying, a twisted melon is not sweet, and feelings are a matter of two people.

If you get to this point, you should give up. If you really regard her as a friend, if you still pay so much attention to her and care about her feelings, then it proves that you haven't completely let go. This process takes time.

Slowly accept the reality and think about it: if you really can't move her and don't want to accept you, then even if you reluctantly accept you now, you will have a hard time getting along with the two of you in the future, and you will often rack your brains to make her happy, and you will often feel that it is difficult to get a report for your efforts.

In the future, you should also pay attention to chasing your girlfriend, don't launch a fierce attack as soon as you chase a girl, don't be too direct, and don't contact her every day, hang her appetite, and can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. Learn to be humorous, keep your distance, and don't cling to her too much, as she will feel pressured to be with you. That's why distance produces beauty.

Good luck getting rid of it soon!

Then you have to be romantic, don't just call ** or send her a text message to confess to her.

Depressed, how can it be the same as my situation! But I believe in you, don't give up. I haven't known her for a long time, but I have a deep relationship, and we all said when we will get married.

But at the last moment, she told me that she still couldn't let go of her former boyfriend in her heart, and I told her that I was willing to wait for you to forget about him and give up completely to marry me again! She thought about it for a few days, and then decided that she was going to go to him. I didn't say anything, I just told her that I would wait for you, and then I took her with her to him, 300 kilometers away.

I'm sad, but I'm sure one day she'll think of me, and I'll tell her whether she's coming back to me or not

Men are not bad and women are not loved.

Feelings are always so distressed.

Since you now think you're letting go and calm, you shouldn't care about her attitude now. You seem to regret a little, regret that you have done so much, and hope to return to the way you used to be, at least closer than you are now.

Therefore, you still can't completely let go of her position in your heart.

Ask yourself, what is the state you want?

If you're ready to let go, don't do anything, just walk the same way.

If you want to keep going, it will take some work.

You have to try to understand her life, starting with her friends, relatives, and gradually really understand her life, maybe you will see a different her. Or maybe she's been waiting for you to get to know her.

Be sure to know why she's angry at you.

You have to learn to be calm and not to be noisy; Rational, not impulsive.

It's a good idea to be more prepared before moving on to the next step.

The above is my personal opinion, as a reference, I hope it can be of some help to you.

Hello! Upset, sometimes it's people who think too much. Always thinking about something that will happen in the future puts a strain on one's psyche. Why think about something you can't do?

Ways to relieve stress: Yell loudly for 1 to 2 minutes to vent the resentment in your heart; Then sit quietly on the couch.

Listen to the light ** for 15 minutes, and you will feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved.

You should listen to more ** and let beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in you from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries will be eliminated.