I m not confident and I need your help

The things that a person fears the most are often the things he needs the most, indicating that you are a self-motivated person, but to overcome low self-esteem and accept defects. First of all, low self-esteem comes from your own heart, you always want to perform better, but in fact it always fails to satisfy you. In fact, don't care so much, you have to think about both sides of everything, that is, you have to have the best and the worst in everything, don't think about the good and not prepare for the bad, so that you won't be caught off guard when things develop on the bad side.

Also, everyone has their faults, and others don't pay as much attention to your shortcomings as you think. You have to think that even sports stars, every time they play, they have to face losses and mistakes, and that's what they're good at, and they are also good at it, and maybe there's a lot worse than you. I am born to be useful, you can find self-confidence in what you are good at, don't compare your shortcomings with others, some are really not what you are good at, it is better to take the initiative to admit your shortcomings, others will not laugh at you, but because you have a modest performance, and win the favor of others.

Of course, if you care about it, it is not impossible to surpass others, and there are many people who are great because of their defects, for example: Beethoven practiced because of his poor hearing, and as a result, he became a generation of masters.

Changing low self-esteem is actually simple, don't take everything too seriously, many celebrities have occasional times when they make a fool of themselves, normal people (except for those tabloid reporters) will not care about him so deliberately, everyone has shortcomings, and they are tolerant. All you have to do is play your abilities normally, it's okay if you don't perform well, and don't carry any baggage. Even if you care, you are not afraid to do well in the future if you have this kind of shameful and courageous spirit, and you have realized the shortcomings of the problem, you have the opportunity to improve, compared to people who are not aware of it, this should be regarded as a gratifying progress, as for the embarrassment at that time, forget it today, don't always take it to heart.

Based on your description, I think you should be the kind of person who is relatively timid, it's not a joke about you, everyone has this kind of mental journey. Improve self-confidence, overcome low self-esteem, but also overcome cowardice. Learn to be bold, keep going out into the crowd, learn to communicate with people...

It's a matter of your personal mentality Remind yourself that not so many people pay attention to me We live for ourselves and not for others In your eyes, others are a landscape, and you are also in the eyes of others I suggest that you can read more books in your free time Participate in more activities Develop self-confidence Know more things and have a wider range of knowledge Invisibly, I believe that you will become more and more confident.

You care too much about gains and losses.

Keep your childlike heart scattered After doing something, I will disturb my brother and worry about the worst result, and then say to myself that I don't care! It's no big deal! I can!

It's good to look farther, and when you grow up, your horizons will be higher, but you should first see the road in front of you and ask yourself, if you continue to be nervous, everything will be empty in the end.

Calling yourself stupid and saying that you don't like to talk is inferiority complex and making excuses. Why can't you be confident, why don't you talk to people more? Those classmates talked and laughed, and they also talked about it when they were close to each other.

I think you need to face yourself more squarely, you can only face what you can't dodge, if you don't want to regret it later, then now you have to seize the opportunity! You also need to overcome yourself, don't rush! Accumulate slowly, step by step, and make yourself your goal!

Overcoming oneself is more practical than defeating others!

Did you know that children who love to learn love a quiet place, and when you take advantage of the quiet moment, you should study more diligently?

Don't discriminate against yourself, you are you, others don't understand you, laugh at them, they are not on the same level as you, because they say you, they are scolding themselves.

If there is a mistake, correct it, and if it is right, continue to work hard. You put your studies first! It's not too late to get into your dream school and then think about some trivial things.

If I believe that I can do it, I will be able to do it;

Others say that I can do it, and I can do it by working hard;

If you can't do it today, you will strive for it tomorrow;

If you can face it squarely, I can do it;

not only do it yourself, but also help others do it;

Support each other, cooperate with everyone;

Strive for all-round action, and the college entrance examination can be done.

A person's ability determines a person's status in this society, and the ability is not only IQ high academic performance, but also all aspects of expertise, and half of it is EQ emotional intelligence. The most beautiful ornament for a woman is not jewelry, flowers, perfumes, but self-confidence.

In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, being with a confident person will make people full of enthusiasm, whether it is the attitude and feeling of being confident in dealing with things or knowing things. This kind of self-confidence is very dazzling, and it can attract people if it is too unconscious.

You have good grades, you have special talents, singing and painting are very attractive to girls, you have a great advantage, you should give full play to these. Start small, raise your hand to answer questions in your favorite class, express yourself in a drawing or singing competition, say a few toasts at a family and relative's gathering, and be a class representative or class leader. Little by little, tell yourself that I will always hold my chest up, that I have the ability and confidence to accomplish what I want to do, so that I can slowly develop my self-confidence and believe that you will become a confident person!

Hello, you can actually say your own advantages, indicating that your inferiority complex is not to the point of being out of control, so you can see the advantages you have, there is a saying called, "people are more angry than people", so you don't need to think about who is smarter than yourself, better than yourself and so on, as long as you can overcome yourself, it is very great, you must dare to say your own ideas when doing questions, don't be afraid of mistakes, failure is the mother of success, know your mistakes and change, the exam is used to test how well you learn, This is a way to know where you are still lacking, which will help you improve in the next exam, so don't underestimate yourself.

Self-confidence is cultivated, never compare yourself with others, do your best, do what you like to do; Don't expect others to applaud you, because it's all for yourself and not for others.

Believe in yourself, you can do it, hehe, adopt it.

True friends will not underestimate you because of your grades, and besides, you have a lot of strengths, don't be so demanding, everyone is perfect. Isn't that interesting? Just be yourself and do your best.

You've affirmed that you're a Gemini.

Smile at yourself in the mirror every day...

Self-confidence is a trait of a state of mind, or rather a trait of character. It is due to the influence of the long-term living environment or the blow of an incident that a person changes his understanding of himself, blindly thinking that he is not good enough and has no ability to deal with things well.

The reason for this, and then opening the knot, is a way to regain self-confidence, but sometimes the time has passed and it cannot be changed. At this time, what you have to do is to forgive yourself first when you are not confident and bring negative effects, understand your psychology, or that your personality has changed slightly, and you are in a state of need for adjustment, or that you are already a patient, of course, you must be kind to yourself.

Then the next thing is to overcome my former self, change myself, and understand one thing, where am I not confident in this matter? We must analyze rationally, it is ourselves, carefully analyze our own psychological state, and then find out where the problem is. Of course, this still doesn't restore self-confidence, but you do exactly what you do.

After that, you are coaxing yourself, changing your state, which thing is not confident, scared, then avoid, don't do it, psychological problems will be tough, and when you feel that you are in a better state, try to do something that is not very confident, nothing must be exact, all one by one to overcome, don't be tough in the process.

Change your living environment more, go to places where no one knows you, no one knows that you are not confident, go shopping, bargain like before, go shopping.

When you are in a good mood and constantly surpass yourself, self-confidence will creep in.

The process is hard, because low self-esteem is a scoundrel, so you have to be more patient, more determined, and show the scoundrel in your heart step by step. Persistence is victory, and you should be kind to yourself in the process.

One day I will forget my old self and become my new me!

Incoherent, please use it as a reference

It's painful to live without self-confidence. There is a way to live like an actor, to define yourself as a successful person from now on, to imagine and feel your self-confidence, calmness and sense of accomplishment as a millionaire and a successful person, if you subconsciously think that you are not a confident person, how can you talk to others comfortably? Over time, the role of an actor will generalize to your life?

The subconscious mind is not controlled by the present, but the past experience is what you believe, and now implant success in the subconscious, and the method is to feel the self-confidence of being a successful person, I don't want to talk about it, go and see the book of thinking and getting rich. Otherwise, an unconfident life will make you miserable.

Be brave enough to express your opinions, you can pay attention to the way you express them, you won't offend people, you don't need to care too much, be true to yourself, then others will think that you are very assertive and have your own ideas, raise your head and smile and say your opinions.

Self-confidence is a good habit that is slowly formed over time, that is, you must always believe in yourself.