How should some girls who feel inferior because of their appearance regain their self confidence?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think that this kind of thing is given by my parents, and I am born with some things that I can't change, if I don't want to change myself through plastic surgery, I must first accept my appearance. In fact, I think everyone has their own beauty points, there may be no way to make all the facial features are very exquisite, there is no way, like a star, or some beautiful people, so perfect, but I think there must be a point of beauty in you. The first thing is to find your own beauty and affirm your beautiful things, so that you will slowly regain a little self-confidence.

    Second, I felt the need to divert my attention. When you have something and connotation, you won't care too much about the flaws in your appearance. So I think you can divert your attention, develop your own ability, develop some things that you are interested in, you can read more books, read more newspapers to increase your knowledge, and slowly your conversation will change, and your temperament will also change. I think that enriching yourself is always the most important thing, rather than dwelling on the defects of the five senses, it is better to use this time to improve your ability.

    Third, you can exercise more. Exercise is a good way to develop self-confidence, in the process of exercise, we secrete dopamine, which will make us happier. And exercise can make a person healthier, the figure is more symmetrical, the well-proportioned body can largely make up for the defects of appearance, there may be people who are not facial features, very delicate, but because she has a vest line, her figure is very slim, she can also get the attention of others.

    So I think exercising more can also make me more confident, more cheerful and optimistic.

    Appearance is never the criterion for determining a person's quality or badness, maybe in many cases appearance is important, but if you don't have such a high appearance, you don't have to feel inferior, you can make up for it in other ways.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    As a girl, you attach great importance to your appearance, there is a saying that there are only lazy women, no ugly women, as long as the facial features are correct, you can make yourself beautiful through makeup, if you feel inferior, then go to learn more makeup, you can get back your self-confidence.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you want to regain your self-confidence, you should change your appearance and make yourself beautiful and beautiful, and you can make yourself very confident through plastic surgery, so that you can look good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think the most direct way is to be beautiful, although it has no connotation, but it really works. Learning makeup, getting a makeover, hearing compliments from others, and having something you didn't have before, it's easy to come back with confidence. But you may fall into unconfidence again, and the most important thing is to accept yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can increase your inner beauty through knowledge. It can also give others a sense of beauty.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If the appearance is lacking, then the ability to make it up, the inner beauty is also very attractive, the ability can make people confident, and self-confidence can make the whole person have temperament, which cannot be expressed by appearance.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    For a person, whether they are beautiful or not should not be a reason for pride or inferiority. People's faces are very different, and the aesthetic perspective is different, even if my face is not so outstanding, don't be pessimistic about how ugly I am. There is no absolute norm for the beauty and ugliness of the face, and there are many ordinary people.

    If you can be more confident, you will find that in fact, I am not so ugly, maybe many people are not as beautiful as you.

    Don't just look at your shortcomings, but also see your strengths. What's wrong with ugliness? Are you more talented than me?

    You don't think you're beautiful, it's nothing, many people have this idea, and they always think that others are beautiful. No matter how you look, it is not very important, the important thing is that you have a kind heart and a warm side, so that many people will like you, isn't there an old saying, people are not as good as their hearts, so to have a loving heart, people will look a lot better. People are not good-looking, and then they are still black-hearted, no one can help you.

    Therefore, to be a good person, as long as you have good popularity, someone will be willing to approach you at any time.

    Enrich yourself, be a person with connotation, and become beautiful because of your temperament. Men don't need to be too handsome, women don't need to be too beautiful, people don't feel at ease, give people a sense of urgency, and don't eat or drink, it's the same when you're old, you have an advantage when you're young, and when you're old, you'll be bad old men and old women.

    Cultivate one of my own specialties, and strive to stand out from the crowd and achieve the best. Then your self-confidence will grow exponentially, and it will be strengthened by the external environment from time to time.

    In fact, beauty and ugliness are not on the surface, but on the inside. No matter how beautiful she is on the surface and ugly on the inside, she will have no friends, and even if she has friends, she will covet her beauty; Inner beauty is true beauty, so there will be many reliable friends.

    Enhance one's self-cultivation, be polite, sensitive and studious, and still attract people's respect, not only no worse than "embroidered pillows", but also better. The surface only plays a role in dealing with the first time, and the more lasting one is still to have taste, self-cultivation, and compassion.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you can improve your knowledge. In this way, you can be more confident in a certain aspect, and slowly you can also alleviate this psychological state of inferiority, and you can try to let yourself go out and get to know more people.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should make up for your shortcomings with your strengths, you can put your energy on your work, make yourself better, more outstanding, improve your temperament and cultivation, and make yourself more confident, in fact, confident girls are more attractive.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should be confident in yourself, you should think more about your strengths, and don't underestimate yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I have found that if a person with low self-esteem often praises him if he has friends around him who often praise him, then his low self-esteem will slowly turn into self-confidence.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't live in the eyes of others, insist on your own ideas, and be yourself. Maybe there are some gossiping people around us, and there are some girls who just care too much about other people's opinions, so they live very restrained, and they don't know how to be themselves. If you live in the mouth of others, you will only make yourself less and less confident, and you will not even be able to find yourself at the beginning.

    So you have to firmly believe that you are the best, and ignore the gossip that others say about you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I believe that the beauty of the soul is more beautiful, the good-looking skin is the same, and the interesting soul is one in a million.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then work hard to improve your ability, as long as you have a special temperament and ability, you will be more confident.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Girls don't have beautiful faces, but they can become a more confident person by improving their cultivation and knowledge.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Girls do not have beautiful faces, they can create some achievements in their careers, and they are very outstanding in character and temperament, so that they can increase their self-confidence.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Beautiful looks are only temporary, girls should pay attention to their inner cultivation, read more books, exercise more, and improve their inner self.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Girls don't have beautiful faces, so we must continue to work hard to learn knowledge, make our connotation stronger, and having enough temperament will also make a girl more confident.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then you must be talented, you must have a good conversation, and you must be educated to be more confident.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Improve your ability to make yourself strong in a certain area, and when your ability improves, you will be able to have self-confidence.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As long as you pursue it, it will inspire the other person's self-confidence! Communicate and communicate with more heart, as long as the other party is sincere, the other party will definitely feel it!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Give her more confidence and tell her that her looks are given by her parents, and she has no choice, but her ability can be obtained by her own efforts, and if you work hard to improve yourself, you are the best!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Give her a sense of security, give it in action, and she will feel it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Your liking should be the best answer.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The key is that one's mentality is not only the adjustment of one's own psychology, but sometimes it is also closely related to one's own living environment, especially in the process of self-psychological growth, the influence of the things or environment that one is exposed to, so how to become confident mainly depends on whether you are brave enough to take this step and make yourself confident, so the most important thing is to be brave yourself, of course, in this case, you also need to find out some reasons for your inferiority to solve these, which may be better.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on the reason for your inferiority, if it is your appearance that makes you inferior, then you should study more, enrich yourself, and make yourself a woman with connotation, with poetry and books!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is recommended that on the one hand, you can read more books to enrich your spiritual world from within, and you can also draw strong inner strength from books. On the other hand, when you have time, it is recommended that you go on a trip and see the different lives of different people during your travels.

    Especially hiking, we may not be familiar with each other, but the relationship of helping each other during the journey is very innocent and warm, and it is a good medicine for the soul. Sometimes low self-esteem may be due to your own psychology, but in fact, others may not see you that way. It is this kind of psychology that will trap you in a circle and not be able to get out.

    When you are strong in your heart, you don't care too much about what others say or do. Why should you base your happiness on the evaluation of others? As Mr. Yang Jiang said:

    After a person has undergone different degrees of exercise, he or she will obtain different degrees of cultivation and different degrees of benefits. It's like spices, the more crushed they are, the finer they are ground, and the stronger their fragrance becomes.

    We used to be so eager for the waves of fate, only to find out in the end that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually the calm and calm ...... heartWe had been so hopeful of recognition from the outside world that we finally realized that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Self-confidence is not something that others will give you a few words of advice, or you will have it if you shout "you are great" and "very beautiful" to yourself twice a day.

    The only thing to be confident in is to succeed.

    So if you are not confident in your appearance, you can really improve your appearance, dress up, be diligent in internal and external use, change your hairstyle, change your hair color, learn makeup, practice your body, train your clothes, and practice your manners and temperament, (PS Actually, I personally think these points are more important, after all, the overall proportion of the face is really small).

    Until you're satisfied with your looks, there's nothing else to say

    If you really think that appearance is that important.

    In fact, as long as it is not a very pleasant or uncomfortable look, most people will not care much about your appearance.

    Be cheerful and generous, and you can be very eye-catching.

    What is really ugly is the cringe and inferiority that emanates from my bones - I also have extreme inferiority complex for a long time before I realized it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't know what you think of Ma Yun's appearance, actor Du Yuchun (crooked mouth)'s appearance? Yang Guang's appearance in the Avenue of Stars? Everything lies in one's own efforts, everyone is not perfect, and change lies in oneself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Is people's appearance really important, I don't think you should be inferior to your appearance, your appearance can't be changed by your parents, only let yourself do better and better in other aspects, and do things better than others, then you will be proud of your excellence.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hello. Don't care too much about your appearance, success or not has nothing to do with your appearance. As long as you study well and handle interpersonal relationships, you can succeed.

    No one is going to look at what they look like, and you can't deny yourself. Boost capacity. That's it.

    No matter how good-looking you look, there are times when you are old.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The appearance is given to you by your parents. If you want to change, you can only have plastic surgery. As long as you are a strong heart, good enough appearance is not a problem, don't feel inferior.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Your appearance is given by your parents, you have no right to choose, but if you want to have a good look, you have to rely on your own efforts, don't feel inferior because of your own shortcomings, you can change yourself or develop from other aspects, so that others can better understand your strengths, each of us can not be perfect, as long as you make yourself strong and have a high IQ mind compared to the appearance is a small thing, congenital created our appearance, we can also change all this through our own continuous efforts!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you are very inferior to your appearance, you should put on makeup and be excellent at work, then you are also very confident.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Appearance can't be eaten, only people with strong hearts can get ahead.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Don't feel inferior, in people's lives, a skin can not prove anything, it can not bring any value, to be confident, the value of the meaning of life is basically reflected in the mind, if you study seriously, the mind is armed, then you can be used everywhere, and you can play a relatively high value at any time, so that you are more worthy of yourself, but also worthy of this life. If you don't have that much knowledge now, whether it's economic conditions or because of various other reasons you don't have enough knowledge, whatever the reason, then it doesn't matter, if you realize it, you need to be strong, then it's not too late, work hard, you can.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If the appearance is not enough, it can be made up, and it can be made up for from other aspects.

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