When love comes, should we be excited or depressed?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Depressed, I'm telling you as a man, absolutely depressed. First of all, when two people are together, money is always spent quickly, and it is also spent inexplicably, when I used to study, I felt that 1000 yuan could be spent for a long time, and after getting a girlfriend, 1000 yuan was gone in a flash. Then there is the time arrangement, when you don't have a girlfriend, you can do whatever you want, you can do whatever you like, you don't need to care about her feelings, after having a girlfriend, you have to spend time with her, when you miss her, you have to accompany her, when she misses you, you have to accompany her, which takes up a large part of the time.

    The next thing is to get along, if two people can be humble and tolerate each other, that's fine, if one of the two people can't do it, the future life will be annoying, and the bullshit will be noisy. Falling in love is equivalent to the end of the days of leisure, and getting married is equivalent to stepping on the grave.

    Although there are so many bad things, there are still many people who are very happy and happy together, in fact, there is no need to be excited and depressed, just to cherish.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Get excited when you need it, and depressed when you don't.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Depressed. I am depressed about the Shanghai I am going to receive or the setbacks on the road to love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It depends on what you think, because money is troublesome, and there are times when you are happy, why don't you say it, and you can't be old to yourself.

    Or two people are happy or unhappy to share together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Treat it with a normal heart, because there will be times of excitement and depression in the future!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He's showing off himself, don't bird him, kick it, this person is unreliable

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Beat him, who said you weren't pretty!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He loves you now, that is, more beautiful than his predecessor.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    He's praising you. It shows that you are not only beautiful, but also a good person. That's why I chose you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The bounty is so high. I must want to hear a lot of comforting words. Maybe everyone has a different way of dealing with their worries, and you know these methods but they may not work for you.

    Therefore, the symptom should be treated more than the root cause. Before looking for ways to make you happy, it is better to analyze why you are unhappy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Think about the happy things in the past, go out to relax, and talk to good friends about happy things, and the mood will naturally improve.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No one can help you, help yourself, what you want to hear from us, what you want to comfort is what you want to say to yourself, that's all.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Listen, relax. Think about happy things.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Climb to the top of the mountain, or go to the top of the building and shout loudly for half an hour. Oh, and don't jump down.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Annoying? Let's go on that roller coaster, and that's how I did, spinning around a few times in the air and not remembering anything.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Find someone you like, and you will be happy with the person you like.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you are hit by someone on the road, others apologize to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you don't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you.

    Or think about the sentence "It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, why not be happy every day". 2.If you think you're in a bad mood, you're going to be in a bad mood, then no.

    Think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and wake up in the morning.

    Don't fall in love with the bed in the future, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little day.

    Make ......3.Choose a place where the air is fresh, the surroundings are quiet, the light is soft, not disturbed, and you can move freely, and choose a place where you feel more comfortable.

    Posture, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, and do it at an even and slow pace, and the movements do not need to have a certain pattern.

    As long as you feel the joints loosen and the muscles relax. 5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, silently in your mind whenever you exhale."

    Relax". 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely.

    Look at the subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.Close your eyes and try to imagine something idyllic and beautiful, like blue.

    The sea water, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountain water, etc. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming.

    Swimming, taking hot showers, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

    Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work everything and take life seriously, only.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Glad. In fact, those two customers just politely rejected you. But the good thing is that you have taken the first step towards success, and I believe that you are working hard to succeed in the near future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Do what you love! I travel when I'm in a bad mood, but I'm happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1. He likes you.

    2. You know it by listening to the lyrics.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He likes you and wants to ...... with you

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The meaning is very clear, congratulations! You're in love! ~

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You think about it too much, it's not interesting.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, it is said that men pay attention to see if this is a man hurting a woman, or is a woman a disaster? Personally, I think that men's emotions are much more than women's emotions, because men do not express themselves, so that in the eyes of men, men are physical animals and do not pay attention to psychology, in fact, I say a fair word, men really know how to love in the heart and physiology, such as two married couples if they divorce, then the proportion of them affected by the emotional impact is mostly men rather than women, just because men do not like to express it.

    After reading your story, it's really not worth it, such a dusty woman is not worthy of you in 10,000, so why should you spend your feelings on such a bad person? You should be glad, and you should be happy, because you have discovered, you have understood, you have known, and this is the gift that God has given you. Otherwise, if you really get married, a woman like this will definitely have an extramarital affair, I believe she will do it ten thousand, and then bring you a big green hat, hehe, then you want to cry and don't worry, so forget the past, especially a woman like this is not worth it, and pursue your happiness.

    Don't harbor the past in your heart, it's a tainted emotion. Accept that the person who loves you should not be antagonistic to the person who loves you, because it will hurt you at one time, and you will hurt someone who loves you. Isn't this too stupid for you, because you don't give yourself the space to try the power of love, so I advise you to forget the past and bravely accept the love of others and the love you want, this is life.

    Got it ...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Cherish the people around you, since you have no fate, why bother yourself. Open your heart, try to accept other people, and get out of this bad relationship. I wish you happiness.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When fate is over, let it go! Don't worry about things that can't be undone, or you're punishing yourself for someone else's mistakes! You are an emotional person, and of course you can't forget your ex-girlfriend anytime soon, just let time dilute your thoughts and cherish her forever as a good memory!

    New girlfriend, you don't feel anything, maybe it's because your mind is still on your ex-girlfriend, you haven't really met and understood her, try to know her better, it's not impossible that you will like her! After dating for a period of time, if you really don't like her, you must sincerely apologize, refuse her tactfully, don't delay people to seek her true love, and your parents will not force you, after all, they all know the truth that "a twisted melon is not sweet"! May you solve this thorny problem and regain your happiness soon!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I've been in this situation and kept myself busy.

    Remember to be busy!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If the heart is clear, the sky will not fall.

    All changes are still stable, and the spirit is calm.

    Void and nothing.

    It is difficult to grow without each other.

    Forgetting things is the same as nirvana.

    Heaven and earth are endless, and all things are one.

    Flying flowers and falling leaves, humble as a valley.

    A thousand worries before I put my heart down.

    That is, the eyebrows are raised, and the spiritual platform is quiet.

    The heart is not obtrusive, and the mind is not attached.

    Relieve the mind and release the mind, Mo Ran has no soul.

    A thousand worries before I put my heart down.

    That is, the eyebrows are raised, and the spiritual platform is quiet.

    The water flow is not alarmed, and the clouds are late.

    Single-mindedly, ancient and modern.

    Give up attachment, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet each other, it seems that you have no fate.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Give it up, that kind of woman might not be for you (I don't know if that's right).

    In fact, I feel that it is best to find someone who really likes me!

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