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For anyone, how can there be happiness without a home? Don't say how realistic and powerful women are, what one wouldn't want to have their own home? Can you remarry and live a sweet world for two?
I don't think the requirements for buying a house are too much, the key is how to buy, you have to understand that the house must be bought sooner or later, the house price will only rise and not fall, the money is becoming less and less valuable, buy it early. However, depending on the personal financial situation, it is necessary to have a nest, if you can't afford a big one, you can buy a small one, and if you can't afford to pay the full amount, you can take out a loan. If the requirements are too unrealistic, you can tell her that if she has the capital, she can choose a car and a house directly, why should she follow you, if you want to marry a rich man, you also need capital.
But you're still young, I think it's mostly her parents' side, hoping that their daughter can live well, so requested, if you are sure to get married, you can buy it together, make an agreement how much, sign it. In addition, if you take out a pre-marital loan to buy a house and have not paid it off after marriage, then the unpaid part is the joint property of the husband and wife, that is, the remaining part of the loan. Let's discuss it, the matter of two people still needs to be solved by two people, starting from the actual situation, communicating with each other, there will always be a way.
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You tell her that the house you bought before you got married was a pre-marital property and she didn't have a share. It belongs to two people only when you get married.
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If you can't afford it, she's going to dump you, don't want this kind of girlfriend.
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This is a question for your parents...
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You just have to ask, do you want a house or a person?
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Tell your girlfriend directly that you are just having fun with her, and you have no plans to get married, so you are not ready to buy a house. Scumbag, the idea is so strange, obviously hanging other girls, I don't want to give promises, and I'm embarrassed to come to consult how to cheat my girlfriend!
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For something like this, you should find a time to have a good chat with your girlfriend. After all, it's a big thing, and the common concept of two people is important.
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You can tell her that you are not ready or that you want to work hard again to buy a better house in the future.
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Communicate with her, talk about what you think in your heart, discuss it with the two of you, and treat this issue with a peaceful mind.
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This kind of thing must be said as soon as possible, because the sooner you say it, the more you and your girlfriend have room to discuss, and if you say it later, you will have a complaint against you, and if you have any concerns, you can have a good exchange between the two.
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You can euphemistically say to your girlfriend that we can prepare for marriage first, and then buy a house when we get married, so that our girlfriend won't think about it much.
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Alas. Now it is normal for a woman to want a house, no matter how big or small, there is always a stable place to live.
Then try to buy a smaller one.
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It's quite realistic, but I can understand that your girlfriend also wants to have a home, and if she doesn't form a family, what is the purpose of getting married? Renting a house to live in just haven't settled down yet, so think about it. If you want to get married, don't be afraid of being bound, once you get married, it's not just a matter of the house, there are a lot of problems, the responsibility is very heavy, and you are also facing the trouble of having children in the future, which is a big burden.
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Yes, we should overcome the difficulties together.
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Do you think your girlfriend loves you? If you don't love, you have the answer. If you are in love, why do you have to stipulate external conditions? It's okay for two people to be together first, and then work together. Knowing that you have no money, but you say that you want to get married and must have a house, isn't that embarrassing for you?
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I think if you love each other, you can wait, I advise you not to get married now, everything is a problem after marriage, especially if you don't have a house, it will be like Liu Yiyang in the era of naked marriage. Now you have to work hard to make money, which is the most important thing.
It's better not to make trouble for her in the past, the part-time job is very hard, it may be inconvenient for you to go over, and besides, you will not be able to find a job for a while in the past will only increase the burden on her, and when you find a job, you will start school. Don't be busy, let's make a decision after the two of them sum it up.
You have to communicate with her more and enlighten her. In addition, to analyze the reason why she is like this, maybe it is because she cares too much about you, and she has no self-confidence. In short, love is an art, and if you value your feelings, you should water this love more.
She said that you should make a spare tire for her, or a good share, no matter how good you are to her, she will feel that you are just her spare tire, are you like a spare tire for the rest of your life! You are a man, such a woman is not worthy of you to be really good to her, love is mutual. in order to have good results.
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