I didn t love him, but without a decisive refusal, I hurt him

Love is not charity, and love will not be good.

If you don't love him, don't give him the illusion that you love him, today's rejection of him is a pain from a pinprick in your fingers, then your future breakup is a pain in your heart, and this pain is due to your previous acceptance of today's rejection.

You are now using false love to accept his sincerity, which may be a kind of charity to him, but it is also an insult to his love.

Some things have many choices, but some things have only one choice. Friends can choose more than one, but husbands can only choose one.

Don't pretend to love him and be with him just because he says he loves you, just like you can't pretend to love me because I say you love you and be with me, but you can choose to be friends with me, right?

Tell him that you are my best friend forever, and that will be good for everyone.

I hope you can make the right choice, you are a kind girl, but don't hurt others because of your kindness.

My name is "Wow", and it seems that there is only such a name, and if you can't figure it out, you can talk to me. But you have to know it, otherwise I will refuse.

No, your imminent departure may be a manifestation of your kindness, or maybe you don't want to be too ruthless.

Now go your own way, don't dwell on the past anymore.

Nothing, your biggest mistake is not rejecting him in time. It's not that there is no conscience.

You're right, long pain is better than short pain, love can't be forced, otherwise both parties will feel very tired.

It's not your fault, I'm a man, and I'm the same, who's sorry for whom.

You know in your heart that don't blame yourself if he really likes you.

He won't blame you, he loves you and wants her to be happy, and he doesn't have to get his hand.

No. I've had the same as you.

Love no one is sorry for anyone.

You have your chosen one.

It's not called harm, because you're too kind.

Not loved. How can it be done without harm?

Let it be

The damage is only temporary, and it is better than if you keep dragging his appetite, and the longer you delay, the more it hurts.

In fact, after refusal, time can be diluted!

Loss is inevitable. It can only save his self-esteem. Tell him that you already have a boyfriend. If it weren't for the fact that you have a boyfriend, you would definitely like him. Say something more regret that you didn't meet sooner. That's fine, minimize the damage.

Better a finger off than always aching. Not telling him all the time is a disservice to him. If you really don't have feelings, just say it. Don't mistake him. He should be able to sense your thoughts, too.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find.

If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

the world. on, each.

Everyone has one. Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

If you really think about him and really don't want to be with him, don't use him as a spare tire, and make it clear to him. It's best for him. has been dragging the person who has been hurt the most is the one who gives love.

Let him pester you, and you haven't done anything wrong, and if he annoys you, you will yell at him, who is called a seller's market.

Or reject him, because you're doing it to him and it's hurting him and it's deeper

Therefore, it is better to explain the long pain in the morning than the short pain

Wipe. The key depends on whether you feel it or not, if you feel it, you agree, if you don't feel it, look at what is said below, as a man, I have also pestered others. However, I was either rejected by ruthless indifference, or the relationship between the two of us deteriorated. Either he was issued a good person card, and he didn't refuse directly, but he always shirked it, didn't agree to any requests, and couldn't have a meal.

Because you don't state it directly, it gives the feeling that you can be approached and that you are not disgusted. You can tell her directly, or you tell her that you already have a girlfriend and are not in the same city, and you usually ask you out, or whatever, you can't talk about it, and that's it.