How do I contact the blind date man, do I want to take the initiative to contact?

Updated on society 2024-05-08
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Yes, you can ask him how he is doing, is he still so busy, does he have time on weekends, it's okay, you rejected people once, this time it's time to take the initiative.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think if he says he's busy, and he says he's going to have time to talk next week, then he should take the initiative to find you if he's interested in you, but if you say you're busy, for example, after you've gone shopping with someone, then you can take the initiative to find him. Because I know that others have something to bother me very well, but I hope that the other party will take the initiative to contact after the end, I am a man, I think so and do this, don't keep saying that men don't take the initiative is not enough to care about anything, if I take the initiative a few times women but never take the initiative once, I will give up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You don't need to take the initiative to contact you, if the boy is interested in you, he will take the initiative to contact you, you just need to be clean and dressed up beautifully.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It can't be said that you take the initiative to ask the other party out that it will make you look very anxious, you just show that casual attitude After all, you are a girl, and this kind of thing should be done by the man to take the initiative.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you think the other person is okay, take the initiative to reach out. If you feel that you don't need to take the initiative to contact in general, it's not a big deal. What do you think?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the beginning, it is better for the girl to stay lukewarm, unless you really like him or you are really in a hurry to find a boyfriend

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't contact, he will contact you if he is sincere.

    Be sure to hold your breath and don't move too much.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's better for a girl to be reserved, and if the other party also has a good impression of you, I believe he will take the initiative to contact you!

    Don't lower yourself in the first place. Girls. It's better to be arrogant. Men usually prefer to pursue the challenging!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't, such a man is arrogant. I've met one before, and I'm obviously tempted by it, but I'm afraid that each other will hurt each other, so I'll be away from the test person.

    I hope this is only temporary, bless you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Take the initiative, girl, and the fact that you can ask this question shows that you still like the other person. So why doesn't the other party take the initiative to contact you, the other party is busy with work and doesn't have time. No matter how busy you are, send a WeChat message and explain the reason why you haven't taken the initiative to contact you recently, so it won't be because of this.

    Let's start from the problem itself, the other party does not take the initiative to find you, but have you taken the initiative to find him? If you never take the initiative to contact him, or when he takes the initiative to contact you, he will ignore it and be cold when dating. Of course, the other party thinks that you may not be satisfied with him, but he doesn't dare to refuse categorically because of the matchmaker's face.

    Because matchmakers are usually acquaintances or relatives and friends. The other party felt that there was no hope of success, and naturally felt that there was no need for such an exchange to continue.

    If you've had a good conversation before, but all of a sudden, the other person doesn't have much contact. If you are cold all of a sudden, there may be two reasons why the man found a shortcoming of yours in the process of getting along, and he felt that this shortcoming was unacceptable, so he immediately did a cold treatment. The man found a more suitable girlfriend.

    Blind dates know that both men and women, most of them use a wide net, hoping to find the most suitable person for themselves, and everyone has been choosing each other before you establish a relationship. The above is all speculation based on experience, only if you know the real reason, you can prescribe the right medicine, so why not take the initiative to contact the other party.

    That means that the other party took the initiative to look for you at first, and then they didn't take the initiative to look for you. From the other person's position, you may feel that you are too proactive, or you may not give the other person enough response to make the other person feel dispensable. Or maybe the other party was interested at first, and then they didn't have much interest in you.

    The other side may have a more suitable candidate. From your point of view, whether you are interested in him, if you feel that you want to continue to get along, you might as well take the initiative, if you are not interested, then it is not necessary. Are you too passive in the relationship, give too little response to the other person, if you try to respond to the other party more.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think you should take the initiative, because if the other party doesn't contact you, it means that the other party doesn't want to continue to have a relationship with you at all, so you should also keep silent.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you think it's more appropriate, you can take the initiative to contact once. If the other party still ignores you, it means that they don't like you. Then don't contact again, good women are afraid of entanglement, but men are different from women, and you won't change if you stalk him, you will only embarrass yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you like the guy on a blind date, you can take the initiative to have a contact with him, but if you don't like it, don't contact him again, he doesn't contact you because he is not interested in you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, women should still be reserved, if you are too proactive, the other party will look down on you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you do have a good impression of the other person, try to be proactive. Maybe other people feel the same way about you, but when you take the initiative to reach out, maybe they will gradually change.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Need to understand what the specific work of the blind date is, some units stipulate that they are not allowed to look at mobile phones during working hours, so the response rate is not very high during the day, and it is normal for this situation to not take the initiative to contact during the day, I hope you understand.

    Look at how quickly the blind date responds, if the reply speed is slow, it means that you may not care very much. If the reply speed is relatively fast, it means that there are still feelings for you, of course, don't be concerned when you just met.

    If the blind date partner does not take the initiative to contact, it may also be that he is introverted or shy, if this is the case, then you can take the initiative to chat with the other party first, whether it is a boy or a girl.

    There are many ways to do if the blind date partner does not take the initiative to contact me, such as maybe because the two people have different interests and hobbies, if there are problems, you can raise them in time, and if it is not suitable, then both parties should not waste time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't take the initiative to contact you, mainly because I am introverted, or I am dissatisfied with you, I don't like you, I don't have much impulse or interest in you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The fact that the boy doesn't take the initiative to contact you after meeting means that he is not interested in you.

    Reasons for not being in touch after meeting:

    Clause. 1. It is a man's instinct to judge people by their appearance if they don't feel your appearance, and the beautiful mushroom must make men fall in love at first sight. Therefore, if the man has not contacted the woman again, it is because he has not taken a fancy to your appearance at first sight.

    Of course, different people have different aesthetic views, but they must be beautiful. Note that beauty here refers to outward beauty, and inner beauty requires great courage and long-term contact to know.

    Clause. Second, I am satisfied with your appearance, and there is no news after a few days of contact, I guess it is usually done by the beauty herself. For example, if he chats with you, you seem very arrogant, and there is a reply without a match, then the man will guess if he is not interesting to me, and it feels like coping.

    There is no grass at the end of the world, although you are beautiful, but I can't force it, then be interesting, forget it.

    So beauties, men also want face, if you think it's okay, then take the initiative, it's time to go on a blind date, don't hide it, everyone comes together for the same dream, why should women bother men?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Personality problems. Being able to be reduced to relying on blind dates to know the opposite sex is itself a certain problem.

    Many people, if you ask him why he has been single, he may be disliked because he has no money, no house or car, and because he is poor.

    In fact, this is not quite right, how many people are poorer than you, and they can still get married and have children. can flirt with girls, and there are one after another around them, and they won't chase girls, even if they have a house and a car, they are still the same single.

    Therefore, we should not always make excuses for our failures, but should reflect on our own problems.

    I know that one of the biggest reasons for my failures is personality issues. Otaku like me usually don't like to talk, don't have many interests, and don't have too many social circles.

    Every time I get together with friends, I'm basically the one who hides in the corner. It's not that I don't want to talk, I really don't know how to insert the topic. It seems that I don't understand what other people are saying, and I don't know how to speak.

    Speaking is also a function that is not commonly used and will degenerate.

    I'm not a person who takes the initiative in my own right, and it's really difficult for you to get this kind of person to take the initiative. It's like if you ask a barber to kill a pig, it's just a bad professional, and you can't adapt to it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The blind date man doesn't take the initiative to look for you, maybe because your attitude has made him timid, or it may be because his interest in you has decreased.

    If you are more interested in him, you can take the initiative to find him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. No play. 2. Wait for the girl to chase.

    There is no one in the world who feels that they are bad, and they all want the other person to chase after them. But it's all waiting for a blind date, if you like it, let's take the initiative.

    3. Spare tire. Everyone is watching, waiting, picking and choosing, thinking that in the end it will be the best. If not, go back to someone else.

    I don't think I like to say it quickly, if you delay others and miss a lifelong event, it's really bad! If you like it, you like it, and if you don't like it, don't delay others.

    A blind date man is interested in you.

    1. Take the initiative to contact.

    If the blind date man is interesting to you, after the blind date meeting, he will take the initiative to contact you, such as calling **, texting, he will want to continue to contact you after the meeting.

    2. Appear very interested in the topic you are talking about.

    If the blind date guy likes you and is interesting to you, he will be very interested in the topic you say, even if it is something he does not understand, he will show interest in understanding. Maybe what you say is just a daily triviality, or a TV series gossip, and the blind date man will also cater to you, talk to you, and listen to it with relish. He'll get to know what you're talking about, and won't be ignorant the next time he talks to you.

    3. Remember your things very clearly.

    The blind date man will deliberately remember your things. Maybe you happen to mention that you like a certain movie, and he will buy two tickets for you to see it. It may be that you casually say that you have something to do tomorrow and you have to get up early, and you are afraid of being late, and the blind date man will call you on time the next day to wake you up.

    A boy can only be so kind of caring for the girl he likes.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There are only two reasons why boys don't take the initiative to contact you, stop making a fool of yourself.

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