When I was a child, I was beaten by a kindergarten teacher, how to deal with a kindergarten child wh

Updated on parenting 2024-05-29
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This teacher is really bad, contemptible person!! I remember that I was beaten by my teacher when I was a child in kindergarten, but not as badly as your cousin!

    These teachers are really hateful! But luckily I don't have any shadows.

    Of course, you can find a few more witnesses, or go directly to the education department to report it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If it's my kids.

    I'll find a law firm to consult first... Then find a few victims and witnesses to sue her... What kind of teacher is this?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Find the management, first clarify the facts, and ask for a communication plan.

    Good communication should be unbiased and full trust in the other person.

    Parents can do that.

    You can find a homeroom teacher or you can communicate directly with the kindergarten, depending on your convenience and the specific management measures of your kindergarten. For example, in our kindergarten, parents are not allowed to communicate directly with teachers, this is so that teachers can be more focused in their daily work.

    Whether it's a direct communication with the homeroom teacher or with the kindergarten leadership, you can say the same:

    Hello Teacher, I'm sorry to disturb you. Yesterday my child came home very upset, I asked him for a long time, and he told me that the teacher threw his hard-earned homework in the trash. I'm quite shocked to hear this, so I'd like to talk to you directly to find out if there's any misunderstanding.

    I would also like to ask you, if we parents encounter this situation, how to communicate with our children will be better, and what we can cooperate with. ”

    This kind of communication gives the kindergarten time to deal with it, and at the same time it sounds comfortable. I believe that professional educators will naturally know how to explain and apologize to their children when they hear such words from parents, and at the same time, they will also give corresponding suggestions on how parents should guide their children at home.

    Today I talked about the importance of positive and peaceful communication, the reason is very simple, I am an "undercover agent" in the kindergarten, but also hope to bring more courage and confidence to the kindergarten.

    The right to choose the kindergarten is ours, we will first take the initiative to send the child to the kindergarten that we think has a conscience, problems are inevitable, but since we have chosen, we should at least believe that the kindergarten is willing to communicate with us actively and effectively.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Female, the child was beaten by the teacher, and the parents should be notified as soon as possible, and the parents should communicate with the teacher, the teacher, why did you hit my child, and what mistakes did my child make? What mistakes can he make, you can't just beat him, what should you do if you beat him stupid?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If a child in kindergarten is beaten by a teacher, the first thing you should do is contact the teacher and the principal to see what is going on.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Determine the severity and severity of the beating, as well as the causes and consequences of the incident. There is nothing wrong with teachers educating children, but if some teachers vent their emotions or bad emotions to children, this cannot be tolerated. If the child is naughty, the teacher's punishment within the effective range, we must not protect it, and must apply it to the teacher's work, otherwise the teacher will be afraid to control your child in the future.

    Educate the child, tell him to talk about the rules on campus, listen to the teacher's famous words in teaching, don't play with classmates, affect the order of the classroom, and don't be naughty. Communicate with the teacher and explain your mindset. It's not that we cover up the child, it's just that we expect to pay attention in the case of punishment, after all, the child is indeed still young and can't bear too heavy a punishment.

    Parents don't have to put up with some tough teachers. Although the teacher is a respectable position, there is no shortage of some impetuous people and people who are not self-sufficient. If the punishment is too much, the teacher will be at fault, and he should not be tolerated and nurtured.

    It's good to be able to agree with the teacher, but if you don't communicate well, don't argue with him, and immediately report the matter to the dean of the institution, and they will certainly give you a satisfactory response.

    Questions. In the first grade, I was slapped in the face by the teacher because I was naughty, which was not serious, but many classmates were slapped in the face, and I didn't know how to communicate with the teacher once.

    Work with other parents to talk to the teacher.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In principle, if the child is beaten by the teacher, he should communicate with the teacher and talk to the hospital well, and such problems are not allowed in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Preserve evidence. Direct alarm handling.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The child in the kindergarten was beaten by the teacher, if there is evidence of monitoring, the child is beaten very hard, you can sue the teacher, the teacher will, be punished.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, parents should understand that the consequences and impact of their own actions should not be rash for their children, for themselves, and for the kindergarten (including the principal and teachers).

    Handling suggestion: Regardless of whether there is monitoring at the time, if parents want their children to continue to attend this kindergarten, then they should communicate with the teacher:

    Name some of your child's reactions when they come home. For example, the child has nightmares and cries at night, and in the morning he is very resistant to going to kindergarten, saying that he is afraid to go. Parents then ask the teacher what happened, although the teacher will almost certainly not admit to hitting the child.

    Then, parents can tell the teacher that the child will be frightened, and hope that the teacher can talk to the child and comfort the child. The teacher knows what is going on in his heart, and saying this is not only to give the teacher a secret warning and to go down the stairs, save face, but also leave room for the child!

    In addition, parents should communicate more with teachers to understand their children's situation, which is also a good relationship. Tell the teacher what the child has at school to communicate with the parents in time, and the parents will fully cooperate with the teacher, so that the teacher will tell the parents about the child's problems.

    Suggestion: Talk to other parents and ask them if their child is in the same situation. If there is the same feedback, then it is necessary to give feedback to the principal and communicate a mutually satisfactory plan.

    Since the teacher's way of doing things is relatively well-formed and the level is uneven, it is unlikely that one or two lectures can improve the level of parenting! In particular, if the teacher is a class teacher, other teachers may also imitate the class teacher's routine, and then things will be a little troublesome.

    For example, Dabao, who embraced a future instructor, once encountered such a class teacher: he transferred to be a class teacher halfway, but in less than a month, after communicating with many parents, he reported that his child had changed a lot, including swearing, beating, and intimidating children. After that, the parents jointly reported to the principal, and the head teacher was changed in less than a week.

    Later, this teacher did not continue in this kindergarten because she was the class teacher and would have an impact on other teachers.

    If you don't change the kindergarten, you can change the communication method, or consider changing the teacher, because the principal does not want to affect the future students of the kindergarten because of one person. Both the principal and the parents want their children to be happy, and this direction is the same!

    Of course, if you want to change your child to a kindergarten, you can also choose to open it up if the evidence is conclusive. But be aware of the implications for all parties, temporary and future!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Quarrels can't solve any problems, you should talk to the teacher first, and try to turn enemies into friends with the teacher.

    First of all, we all know that it is not right for a teacher to hit a child.

    Secondly, you should calmly communicate with the teacher, no matter what, it is not right to slap the child, and it may have a negative impact on the child's heart. Therefore, while affirming the teacher's serious and responsible and strict requirements, you should remind them of inappropriate or even wrong ways, we do not protect children, but we should also have principles and bottom lines. In this way, the teacher can communicate with the child, let the teacher express the apology for the improper handling, put forward strict requirements for the child, eliminate the psychological burden of the child, and face up to their own problems.

    Whether it is a kindergarten child, or a primary school student, or a middle school student, the child at this time is in the growth period and mental growth stage. It is more necessary to be carefully cultivated and cared for by parents and teachers.

    You must know that children are very naughty in their growth stage, so sometimes they are naughty and do certain things, which is inappropriate in the eyes of the teacher, so they bear the punishment of the teacher.

    But the child is still young after all. It's okay to be a little naughty and make some little impulses!

    And the teacher is a role model, and the teacher's ethics also clearly pointed out: corporal punishment of children is not allowed.

    When a child makes a mistake, the teacher should first manage his or her anxiety. Actively let your child understand the root cause of mistakes. How to make children understand that the reason for making mistakes is wrong, instead of corporal punishment of children as soon as they make mistakes, how can children understand the root cause of mistakes.

    Parents of children who have been beaten by teachers should not blindly quarrel with the teacher, but should communicate with the teacher first.

    First of all, parents need to understand what mistakes their children are making. To know why the child made a mistake, communicate more with your child, first persuade your child to admit his mistake to the teacher, and teach his child that it is not right to make the teacher angry like this. The teacher has done a lot for your growth, don't make the teacher angry in the future, I believe that your child will understand the truth, and will not make such a mistake next time.

    Finally, don't be like some parents, as long as you hear that your child has been wronged at school, you may be angry, but it may ruin the child's life.

    In short, there are many ways to love children, including dealing with children's grievances, which is often the most testing of parents' determination and wisdom. In fact, everyone will be wronged in the process of growing up, and the key is our attitude towards being wronged.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can contact the teacher.

    Communicate to understand the situation, if the situation is true, you can find the principal to react and talk about the matter.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The teacher beats the kindergarten children, it is very excessive, he is a teacher, he is not worthy of being a teacher, and if there is evidence, the teacher must be asked to make financial compensation and apologize publicly! Otherwise, the alarm will be dealt with!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you find that your child has been beaten by a teacher in kindergarten, parents must find the kindergarten and provide evidence, so as not to let your child continue to be beaten by teachers in kindergarten.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The child is bullied by the teacher in the kindergarten, first of all, there must be certain evidence, it is best to have a guitar classmate to help testify, and then you find the corresponding party teacher to communicate, figure out why such a thing happened, and at the same time let the principal come forward to solve it, if the solution is not good, you can complain to the Education Bureau.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you find that the child was beaten by the teacher in the kindergarten, you must first calmly understand the situation, get the sentence, and then solve it through the negotiation of the leaders of the kindergarten, and if the circumstances are particularly serious, you can protect your own interests through the law.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you find that the child was beaten by the teacher in the kindergarten, you must first communicate with the teacher to determine whether the teacher will tell the truth, and secondly, if the teacher ignores it, you must communicate with the kindergarten leader.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, you should ask the child why he was beaten, and generally understand the process of the incident and the reason for the beating, of course, you can't listen to the child's side of the story, and the kindergarten child is so young, he may not be able to tell the cause and effect of the incident. If the child has an injury, he should take a picture of it with a mobile phone and interrogate the teacher in person, whether it is caused by improper education methods and emotional out-of-control, or whether the child himself is caused by the process of educating the child.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, first of all, to calm the child's emotions, secondly, take the child to the doctor in time, and then keep the voucher to report the situation to the school.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After finding that the child was beaten, the first thing should be asked why the child was beaten, understand the process of the matter and the reason for the beating, of course, you can't listen to the child's words, if the child has an injury, you should use a mobile phone to take a picture of it, and ask the teacher about the injury in person, if it is caused by the teacher unintentionally, you should be considerate of the teacher and the teacher After communicating with the teacher, if such a thing happens again, you should pay attention.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If your child is beaten in kindergarten, be sure to find a teacher, who will definitely help you solve these problems.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If your child is hit by a teacher in kindergarten, you should go to the kindergarten, go to the teacher, and ask what caused this to happen?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The first thing to do is to explain the reason to your child. Talk to the teacher about it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Directly find the principal of the school and complain to the principal, the teacher who hits the student is not worthy of being a teacher.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you find that your child has been hit by a teacher in kindergarten, you can ask about your child's performance in kindergarten. Go to the kindergarten and ask the teacher. Why hit your child?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The child was beaten by the teacher in the kindergarten, and it is also possible that the child is really hard to listen to and chokes the teacher enough.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you find out that the child has been beaten, of course you have to go to the kindergarten and ask for an explanation, see what they say, no matter what the situation, it is not right to hit the child, they give an explanation.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    So first of all, I think what to do if I find out that my child was beaten by the teacher in kindergarten, so I think that as a parent, I should go to the school and communicate with the teacher about the situation. So, first of all, we still have to find a root cause of this problem to solve the problem.

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