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In fact, there are things that you like and will not belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; Loving someone doesn't have to have, if sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave.
If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose. If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay?
If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed? If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide?
There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect. There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave.
There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back. Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing.
Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love? A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely.
It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.
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If you feel that the other person is not suitable, you can consider the following ways to talk about the former clan wheel:
1.Be honest with each other: Tell each other that you are not very suitable for each other, what aspects you are not very compatible with, and let the other party know what you think.
2.Respect the other person: When you speak, you should respect the other person and do not express it in a demeaning, accusatory or critical way, which may hurt the other person's feelings.
3.Give advice: If you feel that the other person can find a better match, you can give them some suggestions to help them find a better fit.
4.Break up amicably: If you feel like there's no future between you, break up amicably to let the other person know that you're no longer compatible with each other and keep the relationship friendly.
The most important thing is to communicate with the other person with kindness and respect to avoid hurting the other person's feelings.
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Hello, you said that in this situation, if you don't feel right, then you can tell him directly or by asking him. You don't think the two of us are suitable. You can just tell him that the two of you are not suitable, and then bless him and hope that she can find her other half.
You can just tell him that the two of us are not suitable, we can't be together, the two of us are not suitable. You can tell each other directly, you think the two of us are not suitable, and the two of us can't be together. You think that the two of us are not suitable, and the two of us can no longer be together because the two of us are not suitable.
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1.Self-reflection: Analyze your own performance and possible problems in the relationship to see if there is anything that can be improved. Sometimes, our behavior or personality traits may not be suitable for the other person, and we need to make some self-adjustments.
2.Communication and understanding: Communicate well with the other person to understand their concerns and reasons for inappropriateness. There may be some problems that can be solved through communication, and understanding and tolerance on both sides are also the basis for building a good relationship.
3.Release your emotions: Confide in a friend or family member to release your emotions. They can give you support, advice, and comfort to help you through difficult times.
4.Keep growing: Whatever the outcome, this experience is an opportunity for you to grow and learn as a person. Think of this experience as an important stage in your life and believe that better opportunities await you in the future.
The most important thing is to maintain a positive mindset and accept and respect the other person's choice. If it's really not a good fit, then maybe someone who is more suitable for you will emerge in the future.
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What to do? If it's not suitable, leave!
The east wind blows up the love brain, and life wears out the hero's dream.
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Summary. Hello, dear, you can say to each other like this: 1. Directly say that two people are not suitable First of all, it is best to tell each other directly what you think, this is the most direct method, and it is also the most respectful way to respect each other, directly tell each other that your personality is not suitable, not suitable for being together, when you are a couple, there will definitely be a lot of contradictions between you, and in the end it is only the two of you who will hurt, analyze the pros and cons with each other, and let each other know.
2. Say that you like someone else This method is more cruel for the other party, and this method is also the best way to break off cleanly, when you tell the other party that you like someone else, the other party will definitely be very happy, you must comfort the other party well, and appease the other party, so that you can break up perfectly, and you can also make the other party's heart not so much burden. 3. Explain to each other that two people are still suitable to be friends Well, the other party says that the other party is still very good, but the personality of the two people is still not suitable for being a couple, suitable for being friends, and then telling the other party that the other party is still very good, but it is most suitable to think that two people will be friends, when the other party knows your thoughts, they will understand what you mean, and naturally they will not embarrass you.
Say something inappropriate to someone you've never liked.
Hello, dear, you can say to each other like this: 1. Directly say that two people are not suitable First of all, it is best to tell each other directly what you think, this is the most direct method, and it is also the most respectful way to respect each other, directly tell each other that your personality is not suitable, not suitable for being together, when you are a couple, there will definitely be a lot of contradictions between you, and in the end it is only the two of you who will hurt, analyze the pros and cons with each other, and let each other know. 2. Say that you like someone else This method is more cruel than simple and smooth for the other party, and this method is also the best way to break off clean, when you tell the other party that you like someone else, the other party will definitely be very happy, you must comfort the other party well, and appease the other party, so that you can break up perfectly, but also let the other party's heart not have so much burden.
Letter gap 3, explain to the other party that the two people are still suitable to be friends Okay, the other party said that the other party is still very good, but the character of the two people is still not suitable for being a couple, suitable for being friends, and then telling the other party that the other party is still very good, but I think that two people will be friends is the most suitable, and when the other party knows what you think, they will understand what you mean, and naturally they will not embarrass you.
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Summary. There are three possibilities for this scenario:
He likes you very much and cherishes you very much, he lets you know what he means to like you and gives you time to think about it, and people who like each other do not mean that two people are suitable for being together.
Two people together, does not mean that they can go long, he may want to keep a distance from you all the time to be friends of the opposite sex, if the two people are really together, in case they are separated one day, they can't even be friends.
Maybe you are just one of his many female friends, or he has other girls he likes more at the same time, he will want to ask other girls if they are willing to date before replying to you, if the other party finds a better condition than you, he may reply that we are not suitable, unpredictable, really realistic.
The person you have a crush on says she likes herself, and then she says it's not appropriate.
There are three possibilities for this situation: he likes you very much and cherishes you very much, he lets you know what he likes and then gives you time to think about it, and people who like each other do not mean that two people are suitable to be together. Two people together, does not mean that you can sail and go long-term, he may want to keep a distance from you to be friends of the opposite sex, if two people are really together, in case they are separated one day, they can't even be friends.
Maybe you are just one of his many female friends, or he has other girls he likes more at the same time, he will want to ask other girls if they are willing to date before replying to you, if the other party finds a better condition than you, he may reply that we are not suitable, unpredictable, really realistic.
Whether you really like it or not, two people must think carefully before they get together, girls must protect themselves, and boys should not be very casual about feelings. Two people must be together if they have an emotional foundation before the victory, don't play stupid and play with feelings, treat them sincerely!
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Summary. It doesn't seem like he respects your wishes too much.
I know that it is not suitable for a person, but I like it very much in my heart, and I don't know how you judge that you and the other person are not suitable.
He said that he was two years older than me, and that the quarrel was not at the same point.
Have you been in a relationship before? Under what circumstances did he say that?
When angry.
So when he says this, you feel a little lost and don't know what to do, but at the same time, you still like him very much in your heart, and you don't want to give up, right?
Right. Were you boyfriend and girlfriend or regular friends before? What is the specific scene of the quarrel?
Boyfriend and girlfriend, he said that they would eat together in the evening, and that day my brother was leaving, and I would go home after sending my brother, and he was angry.
So you didn't eat together that day, and he was angry. Did you inform him of your situation in advance, if not, he would feel that he was not as valued as Yu Songpin.
My mom told me to go home that afternoon, and I said I was going to see him in the afternoon, and he had to be in the evening.
Have you asked him why, maybe he only has time in the evening, or he has more time in the evening.
He said he played with friends in the afternoon.
It doesn't seem like he respects your wishes too much.
So usually you also quarrel over similar things? It's just that each has his own words, and he doesn't think much about it for you, and he gives in to your ideas.
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