I m a decadent junior now

Be independent, think that everything needs to be solved by yourself, don't rely too much on others, after relying too much, it will become your weakness, don't be a weak person in front of others; The third year is still an era that can rise up, learn more knowledge in the limited study time, only if your knowledge is thick enough can you convince others; Life is very short, rather than being decadent all the time, it is better to struggle, and see what kind of world can be created after struggle... Come on...

I have a junior high school degree and work in Sichuan Dexing Group.

But before I had been working on the construction site, the year before last I stayed at home, people were going to be depressed, last year I had this opportunity, I borrowed money to come, and then slowly helped my people, wanted to take me, only to slowly improve my treatment.

How to put it, it's really sad for people to lose their self-confidence, and I understand this deeply, and I still can't stop worrying about losing my job and returning to my original shape.

But I still need to work hard, three minutes of heat, it shows that people are lazy and have no perseverance, and I am a boy who is even more so, I can only say that I can control myself and try my best to do it, so as not to feel inferior.

I advise you to find something to do, don't be afraid of being angry, girls should insist on doing things, because of the cultivation of self-confidence, people become beautiful and temperamental, and all aspects of natural life will be better, if there is a good man who loves you, think about it is beautiful, life loses money and loses work, even if you lose your lover, it is not terrible, I am afraid of losing the courage to face life, hope for life.

Then you give up on yourself Go here Ink what to eat @@@

No goals, no confidence in yourself. How do you want to solve it?

I am a student of a third-class university in Hubei, studying finance, working after 15 years of graduation, and now working as an assistant manager in a state-owned enterprise, doing cross-border e-commerce (international**). I was very confused at the time, you can see my account, I also had similar questions. Now, as a person who has come before, I want to tell you, don't get entangled, just take every step of the way.

Many of the awesome people around me are not continuing their majors in college, because they are in an ivory tower and have no idea about the changes in society. Whether it is policy or education, we have to cater to the invisible hand of the market. To put it bluntly, in the specific environment of university, don't think about your future development direction, because the perception of the future only stays in your mind, and has not been considered in reality.

Struggling to learn design? No, this mainly depends on whether you have intentions or not, in addition, you can cultivate some hobbies that suit you. Having a mind in business and having a flexible brain is an advantage, and if you don't use it well, you may become a disadvantage.

Poor English foundation? You have to pass level four, right? Whether you are going to graduate school, whether you change careers and majors, whether you are taking the civil service exam, these are not the excuses you make for yourself, you are deceiving yourself.

It's good to start a business, it's good to have an idea, and I personally recommend working first, or because you are in an ivory tower and look at the problem very shallowly, you can try it later.

Pointing doesn't count, refer to your own experience to give you some advice. There are a lot of books in the library that you can use after work. For example, has the fourth level passed?

P.S. Proficient? Will PPT really do it? Does Excel really play?

If your answer is yes, congratulations, you have basic professional skills, what about intermediate? For example, the pyramid principle, such as the McKinsey trilogy, have you understood it? If the answer is still yes, then is there a company to do an internship?

For example, helping companies for free in exchange for experience (believe me, it's worth it), and while dealing with seniors in the workplace, it's time for you to add value. Signing up as a volunteer for a large-scale event when I have nothing to do is also a kind of broadening of my horizons, and my work is recommended by friends I met at the event.

If you have something to do, I believe you don't have time to think about it, mainly because you are idle. The road is out of your own, it takes a little bit of trial and error, no one can help you, you have a small cost of trial and error now, and you have a lot of ideas, don't waste time on meaningless things.

In fact, I think you should learn your major first, and the most urgent thing at present is technical talents, so do the things at hand first. Although young people should dare to fight, if they don't settle down to plan for the future, how can they fight.

1. You can do a good job of the things at hand, learn professional courses, and overcome the problem of software failure. Make sure you can support yourself after graduation.

2. Make a small career plan by yourself, and supervise yourself to complete the goals you need to achieve in the near future.

From not knowing how to know, to mastering; From unfamiliar to familiar to proficient; It's a process! You can't learn, you can understand if you're not familiar with it, live to learn, what you should do now is to understand the actual situation of different directions, see if you are interested, and then make up your mind to learn, when you enrich your knowledge, you won't be confused! ~

First wait for graduation to find a job and hone for two years, your ideas will slowly mature after the work is tempered, and when the mind is mature, you can choose to start a business, you can prepare while going to work before starting a business, and when you are ready, you can start working directly, don't be in a hurry, if you don't do a good job before starting a business, it will be difficult, unless you have a lot of funds**, and I think the ideas in school are sometimes a little whimsical, and the real society and the campus are very different.

I'm also a junior in college, you first look for a job, settle down, and study in the society, so that you can develop in the society, you do well in school, because you know the school very well, the society is absolutely different from the school, and you will fall badly to do social things with the enthusiasm of the school, and it may affect you for life, but you can do well in your school circle, and you can control the society, but the premise is that you have to understand and master it first.

In fact, most people's college life is spent in play, playing until they are bored and depressed. In the three years of freshman and sophomore years, it doesn't matter if you play, but remember to remember!

No matter how you play in the past three years, you must develop a habit of combining work and rest.

Some people have been playing for three years, and they can find an internship in a top 100 company in their senior year, and the salary can reach 10,000.

Some people play for three years and squat at home after graduating from their senior year.

What's the difference?

People's habits are very terrible things, the first kind of people although he plays, but the combination of work and rest, as the so-called no work, no entertainment, not only to play comfortably not so muddy, but also to develop good habits, why not.

The second type of person is the kind of person who doesn't know how to balance learning and entertainment. As a result, the three years of college have almost been played, and by the time you need to work hard in your senior year, you are no longer used to it and don't know how to work hard.

Now, get the certificates you should get, what level 4 or 6, what level 2 computer science, what accounting certificate, these. It doesn't take much time you spend every day, but reminds yourself that you can't lose your learning when your brain is still working.

At the same time, the schedule should not be chaotic, and there should be a beginning and an end.

Give you a fulcrum trick: choose your own orientation according to your interests and hobbies to do some campus business, such as selling gadgets or something, working and studying, accumulating social experience to enter the student union, and exercise yourself.

Find a boyfriend...

In order to prepare for the future:1Fall in love.

2.Try a job fair or something like that in advance, you need to know what to learn to be useful.

3.You have to discover what you're good at, what you're interested in, and go to various events with that purpose.

Alas. Peers. I didn't attend any of the events. I didn't even go to class, I rented a dormitory and stayed by myself.

If you haven't graduated yet, take a look at the books while you still have time, no matter what type of books; If you really don't know what to read, you can go to the library and look for it, and there will be a book you want to take out and read.

I graduated in 10 years, and now I really want to go back to school.

Cultivate your own interests first, and it will get better.

Knowing decadence means that you are still saved.