Why do we prefer the familiar?

Because we often know more about familiar things than we do about things that are unfamiliar, there is a reason why we prefer familiar things, we understand it, so we like it. We don't want to take risks, we don't want to waste an opportunity to put ourselves in a good mood.

Just like I prefer to eat fried rice with tea tree mushrooms, then I will always buy this flavor, and I will not buy Lao Gan Ma scrambled egg flavor, because I am familiar with this taste, I like this taste, and I know that my habit seems so boring in the eyes of some people. <>

But it's nice to have fun on my own, right? When you meet your Prince Charming or Snow White, will you find someone else to keep you company? Of course, my analogy is a bit inappropriate.

But that's what I think, I like everything I know, I don't like to take risks and like another thing because it makes me uncomfortable, and even if it turns out to be good, I just don't want to try.

Because it makes me feel very secure when I do familiar things. Because we know how these things go from beginning to end, it also makes our judgment very strong, and we don't have to worry that we will do it wrong. When we do familiar things, it also makes me feel very proud.

Because this matter is familiar to us, others may not be familiar with it, so when doing these things, we will have a great advantage over others, and it will make us feel very proud in our hearts. It's the same thing when we read a book, we only want to read the pages that we already know, and we don't want to read the topics we don't know.

It's because we're afraid that if we look at things that we're not familiar with, it will make us feel very unconfident and make us feel like a failure. So we always stay on the things we are familiar with, and we always feel that we are very powerful. In fact, it is a kind of escapism, because of the fear of being hurt, so I prefer the time of familiarity.

It's a very normal thing for us to prefer things that we are familiar with, most notably our taste buds. We all like our hometown food, and no matter how delicious other people's hometown food is, we can't compare with our own. Maybe your hometown food is really not as good as other people's, but what you eat in your mouth is your own good.

This is the memory of a taste bud, in order to be very deep in this memory, which is what we call the taste of childhood, when we grow up, away from this land, and suddenly when we come back, we will definitely be full of saliva about our own family and hometown food. Taste buds are the most memorable, so it's probably not because they're the best of the best. It's the same with other things, we all prefer things that we are more familiar with, because we feel more at ease there, whether it's the food we eat, the places we've been, and now the stores we're used to going to.

As long as it is long enough, we will gradually become familiar with some things that are not very familiar to us, and we will develop a love for him in a certain period of time, so that we feel that it is a part of our life. <>

Each of us has more or less similar thoughts, if we go to a very interesting place, in this place we feel not only happy, but also the memory that exists in our hearts, the next time we go to a place to play, our minds invisibly think of this place that gives us happiness, indicating that we want to play again, again and again, beautiful places always make us linger.

When we play with friends, we often get together to eat, and we will eat at a restaurant that we go to regularly, and eating in such a familiar place, we can not only feel the familiar taste, but also the service we have enjoyed before, which makes us feel really warm in our hearts.

Life is like this, we will always get used to everything we have and keep our love for those familiar things.

First of all, familiar things will not make us feel strange, in familiar things we will have a sense of intimacy, feel back to the previous time, full of memories will also make us more eager to relive once, everyone will be familiar with their familiar things at ease, will not feel particularly strange because they are novices, so that they can not perform everything they want to show normally.

Secondly, for us, it is more secure to return to our hometown, or the place where we live and work for a long time, for the new world outside, we will always feel that we can't fit in, feel that we are a separate individual, and we run into walls everywhere, it is better to return to our familiar place.

Moreover, familiar people will give us a sense of intimacy, less so many disputes, will feel particularly comfortable and relaxed, and it will not be particularly difficult to get along, this is a more harmonious state, in the process of getting along with familiar people, we will have a sense of nostalgia and a sense of relief to relive the old days.

We often have a special affection for familiar things, just like when you are in a foreign country, when your mother comes to see you and makes your favorite braised pork ribs for you, you smell it and remember the taste of your home, and when you like this dish, you also remember the taste of home. This familiar thing gives us a sense of belonging and allows us to gradually immerse ourselves in this feeling.

The things that surround us, we don't feel like they're amazing. But once we get away from them, we feel how dependent we are on them. I used to be uncomfortable with the single bed at the beginning of my school and dormitory, and when I went to bed at night, I often remembered my big bed at home.

Preference for familiar things is because we have become accustomed to its presence.

It's like we suddenly land in a strange place, and we must be feeling panicked, just because we know too little about it. Because we love it, we will be familiar with it, and we will love it if we are familiar with it.

People like to use inertial thinking to deal with things, and whenever they encounter unknown things, they will unconsciously produce fear, because the current things are likely to be solved by inertial thinking. Therefore, most people are afraid of the unknown, are used to living in a comfortable environment, and do not want to make changes.

In life, there are many people who like to list plans, but do not implement them. It's not our fault either, because laziness is one of the original sins. But those who know this truth, but still have to fall in the same place over and over again, repent, and never embrace change, are guilty and wrong.

Your sin is that your laziness in the here and now, the comfort of habit in the here and now, will change your future destiny. If you choose to challenge, change, and be exposed to new things, you may have a bright future. However, people just like familiar things and don't like to challenge things that involve uncertainties.

Such a person cannot achieve great things.

Most people are mortal, but most people choose "ordinary rout", only a few choose sorrow, they are constantly challenged, and embrace the unknown. In the fall again and again, learn to get up and move forward in different ways, which is the so-called 28th law. If you really want to change, you have to leave the familiar and face the new.

When something you are familiar with, you will be very comfortable with it, and you may not need to think about it to make it very familiar.

This is an inertia of many people, and if you want to do something that you haven't done before, maybe you need to spend more time doing it. Because you haven't done something before, you don't know what problems you will face, and you don't know if you have the ability to solve the problems that may arise.

For example, if you are a pastry maker, then you make what you know every day.

When doing something that you are familiar with, because you already know exactly what to do it, what steps to do and when, and what problems you may face. Even if there is a problem, you already have experience, so it will be easier to deal with it.

However, people always have to continue to move forward, and it is impossible to be immersed in the knowledge they have mastered, which will be slowly eliminated by society. So, as much as we like to do familiar things, we still keep exploring new things.

Because only in this way can we continue to make progress, and we can slowly turn the newly acquired knowledge into something familiar to us.

The familiar environment, familiar things, and familiar figures are the long-term accumulation of a person's daily life, and tend to be flat and stable.

At the same time, it is also a resource that a person has worked hard to get in exchange for work, socializing, etc., and feels safe because he understands it.

Habits tend to become natural, and few people go to live in an unfamiliar place unless they are better developed or forced to do so.

Perhaps, it is necessary to change the ideological concept, change the living habits, change the working state, and even change the mental outlook ......Such a choice may be possible for young people, but it may be possible for adventurous people, and others are basically unwilling.

The moon is the brightness of the hometown, the water is the sweetness of the hometown, the soil is the fragrance of the hometown, and the people are the relatives of the hometown.

What looks pleasing to the eye doesn't automatically become attractive. Evolutionary scientists and psychologists have long proven that what the human brain judges to be of the ordinary type is much better than the unusual. A face that is perfectly symmetrical from left to right may look unnatural, but a high degree of symmetry can make a face look more attractive.

Because people will feel some fear, fear and even not understand some unfamiliar things.