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When I got married, I didn't give my wife's family money, the situation is the same as yours, the key is how to communicate with your parents, what every old man wants is the happiness of his children, which is a promise. However, if you are not an only child (the younger brother who is not married below), then it is estimated that your parents have some ideas, give them a promise, and when your brother gets married, you will be generous if you have enough money, after all, it is a relative!
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This phenomenon is very common in the countryside, explain it to your husband clearly, he will understand. Solve your husband's problem first, don't make the family unhappy again because of this. Your husband is a filial person, your father and your mother will slowly find out, and on holidays, you will go with your husband two more times, and the neighbors will say Oh, find a good son-in-law or something, and it would be good for the old couple to have face on their faces.
I think I might still feel like this without face.
Don't argue with the old man about this, there is no right or wrong in this matter, but it is more reasonable!
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Hehe, Chinese marriage is like this, face is greater than everything, and many people are in debt after marriage, just for the sake of decency in marriage! This is indeed a bad habit, a tradition that has been passed down for thousands of years, and now there are many new ways to get married, travel marriage, naked marriage....For you, there is nothing wrong with it, and your parents' actions are understandable, the best way is to go back to your parents' house often, buy some items for your parents, take your time, everything will be fine! When the conditions are good, I wish your father a big birthday.
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After the caili bride price is given to your mother, your mother will not give it to you! What kind of logic is that. The bride price is for the woman, not for the wife's maiden family.
You give him your fake passbook and say that it has 500,000 yuan, and then return it to you, what kind of consciousness do you have to make a face? My mom and dad figured it out!
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After getting married, women do not bring the bride price back to their in-laws, and their in-laws have a very big opinion of women, and husbands do not help their wives. In such a situation, women should consider divorcing their husbands in time, after all, they are not respected in their in-laws' family, which can prove that their parents-in-law do not like such girls at all. For many women, the root of the problem will be attributed to the fact that the bride price was not brought back to the in-laws when they got married, but this is not necessarily the case, especially for some in-laws, there will be a phenomenon of dogs looking down on people.
In married life, when many women are facing marriage, the woman's parents will claim that they will continue to let the girl bring the bride price back to her in-laws' house. However, because the bride price is not brought back, it will attract the opposition of the parents-in-law, who think that the girl's mother's words do not count. In fact, the reason why the girl's mother's family confiscated the bride price may also be out of consideration to leave a guarantee for the daughter.
Therefore, he did not choose to let his daughter take the bride price back to her in-law's house directly after she got married, but chose to keep her daughter's bride price money in a safe way.
If the in-laws have an obvious misunderstanding of the daughter-in-law just because of such a thing, in such a situation, the daughter-in-law must have an explanation. If you realize that there is still affection for your husband, you must learn to help your wife speak together in such a situation, so that her can better live in such a family. If you make trouble with each other just because of money, you can also look down on the character of the family because of money in such a situation.
In married life, women are most afraid of marrying a mother-in-law, especially when faced with a quarrel with their parents-in-law, they will find that their husbands are not willing to help his wife talk at all. There is even a situation of silence, for women when they encounter such a situation, they must say divorce to their husbands in time, only divorce can reduce the harm to women.
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In such a situation, I think you should break up with the other party, because you can see that the other party doesn't really love you, so it will make you so embarrassed, and there is no need to be soft-hearted.
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I think I can choose to divorce, because my husband's behavior is obviously not in love with you, and he is also because of money, so there is such a problem.
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I feel that I can choose to divorce such a husband, because it will cause you more harm and there will be no happiness at all.
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Legal analysis: You can sue the court to demand the return of the mother's family. Where a party requests the return of a bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that it falls under the following circumstances:
1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; (2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together; (3) Payments made before marriage and causing hardship to the payor. The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.
Legal basis: Article 1042 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China prohibits arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage.
Bigamy is prohibited. It is forbidden for a spouse to cohabit with another person. Domestic violence is prohibited.
Abuse and abandonment between family members are prohibited.
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Summary. Hello, if the negotiation fails, the prosecution will be handled, 1. Civil indictment. (2 copies for 1 defendant, 3 copies for 2 defendants, and so on, all must be signed or sealed by the plaintiff) 2. Catalogue and photocopies of the main evidence materials.
2 copies for 1 defendant, 3 copies for 2 defendants, and so on) 3. 1 copy of the plaintiff's ID card and the original copy for inspection. If the statutory (designated) person sues on his behalf, he or she shall submit a copy of his or her ID card and a copy of the supporting materials of the relationship with the plaintiff, and at the same time provide the original for inspection. If you do not have an ID card, you should provide other identification materials.
4. If you entrust another person to litigate, you must also submit a power of attorney with clear authorization and a copy of the trustee's ID card, and provide the original for inspection. 5. If a lawyer is entrusted to litigate, a power of attorney with clear authorization and a copy of the law firm's acceptance of the entrustment, the letter and the lawyer's certificate must be submitted. 6. If the defendant is a unit, provide the defendant's basic industrial and commercial information.
If an individual is prosecuted, some courts require additional information on the identity of the accused).
After marriage, how to deal with the mother-in-law's arrears of bride price.
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Hello, you can still get it back if you have an IOU. Although there is no legislative provision on bride price, your kind of court should be able to support it. Generally, the court divorce is mediated first, and the divorce will be decided if it is invalid.
If you want to get a divorce as soon as possible, you have to go to court and file a lawsuit. Also, it is advisable to hire a good lawyer. Although it will cost a little, it will save you a lot of time and energy.
Hello, if the negotiation fails, the prosecution will be handled, 1. Civil indictment. (2 copies for 1 defendant, 3 copies for 2 defendants, and so on, all must be signed or sealed by the plaintiff) 2. Catalogue and photocopies of the main evidence materials. 2 copies for 1 defendant, 3 copies for 2 defendants, and so on) 3. 1 copy of the plaintiff's ID card and the original copy for inspection.
If the statutory (designated) person sues on his behalf, he or she shall submit a copy of his or her ID card and a copy of the supporting materials of the relationship with the plaintiff, and at the same time provide the original for inspection. If you do not have an ID card, you should provide other identification materials. 4. If you entrust another person to litigate, you must also submit a power of attorney with clear authorization and a copy of the trustee's ID card, and provide the original for inspection.
5. If a lawyer is entrusted to litigate, a power of attorney with clear authorization and a copy of the law firm's acceptance of the entrustment, the letter and the lawyer's certificate must be submitted. 6. If the defendant is a unit, provide the defendant's basic industrial and commercial information. If an individual is prosecuted, some courts require additional information on the identity of the accused).
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1.What should I do if the bride price that the man asks for after the marriage is not given by the woman?
Legally, the divorce bride price cannot be returned
1. They have registered their marriage and are living together. In this case, the bride price does not need to be returned after the divorce.
2. Where a man and a woman have not gone through the marriage registration formalities and have lived together for a long time, they shall generally have children born for more than two years or during the period of cohabitation, and the bride price does not need to be returned after divorce.
3. Where a man and a woman live together without completing marriage registration formalities, and the bride price received has indeed been used for living together, the bride price does not need to be returned after divorce. The definition of common living is mainly limited to the actual expenses of family members due to their living and production needs, such as the expenses of illness of one or both men and women, joint business investment, etc.
4. In the event of the death of the parties to the marriage contract during the existence of the marriage contract, the bride price does not need to be returned after the divorce. However, this is not the case if a lawsuit has been filed before death.
In addition to the above four points, the bride price can be returned, you can compare it.
2.What should I do if the married woman asks for a gift but does not give a dowry.
It's really troublesome to get married these days.
In fact, according to the convention, as long as the man gives the gift money, the woman will marry! This should be common to the whole country. That's how you watch TV dramas.
But it is not excluded that some women are not kind and just want to earn a handful of men. That's a lot, too.
Normal and reasonable people, as long as the man gives money, the woman will bring the money you give back when she marries, or use the gift money you give to buy dowries such as electrical appliances and furniture.
Now that they're all college graduates, a lot of them don't care about that anymore. As long as the two people are good, these customs can be ignored.
My mother said that his family does not give gift money, and my family does not marry. If he gives it, we will also accompany it, and we will not take advantage of it.
In fact, in the general concept, the man should give gift money. The woman's dowry is not necessary.
In fact, your family bought a house because they had no money, and if your wife's family was reasonable, they wouldn't ask you for 30,000.
But some old people pay great attention to etiquette, and think that people have tens of thousands of daughters to marry, why don't I? Sometimes the meaning of necessity is also necessary. You can give 10,000, which means one out of a thousand.
In fact, it's nothing if you don't give it, and many young people nowadays don't understand these etiquette and don't care much. It's mainly the instigation of parents.
My boyfriend and I are from Jiangsu, however, I guess he won't give me gift money. My parents won't care, and if they don't give it, they won't accompany them. I will accompany you as much as you give.
My cousin got married last year and is in Yangzhou. It's just no gift money, no dowry.
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Legal Analysis: The court, because it depends on the court to impose a suspended sentence, the prosecutor's office can recommend a suspended sentence to the court, but the final decision is up to the court. The announcement of a suspended sentence may be based on the circumstances of the crime, and at the same time prohibit criminals from engaging in specific activities, entering specific areas or venues, or contacting specific persons during the probationary period of the suspended sentence.
Legal basis: Article 72 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China: Suspended sentences may be announced for criminals sentenced to short-term detention or up to three years imprisonment if they meet the following conditions at the same time, and suspended sentences shall be announced for persons under the age of 18, pregnant women, and persons who have reached the age of 75: (1) the circumstances of the crime are relatively minor; (2) Showing remorse; (3) There is no risk of recidivism; (4) The suspended sentence is declared to have no major adverse impact on the community in which they reside.
The announcement of a suspended sentence may be based on the circumstances of the crime, and at the same time prohibit criminals from engaging in specific activities, entering specific areas or venues, or contacting specific persons during the probationary period of the suspended sentence. If a criminal who has been given a suspended sentence is sentenced to a supplementary sentence, the additional sentence must still be enforced.
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Summary. If your mother-in-law can't get the bride price, you can consider pooling money with your husband.
What should I do if my mother-in-law's family can't get the bride price?
If your mother-in-law can't get the bride price, you can consider pooling money with your husband.
You can also communicate with your parents to save the bride price, and now there are many people who don't want the bride price.
Basically, no one wants a bride price.
People are priceless, and so are feelings. You marry because of love, and only because of love, if it is mixed with other things, don't get married, otherwise, you won't be happy!
The bride price is also a basic guarantee.
I think I can give less, but I can't give it with.
What is the guarantee of the bride price?
In your eyes, what is the guarantee of the bride price?
Actually, it's up to the two of you.
Your parents can't control you.
If you want a bride price.
You just tell your boyfriend.
Let him figure it out for himself.
In fact, it has to be said that it is indeed necessary for the man's bride price, and the man's financial resources are indeed necessary, it is undeniable that the family is indeed wealthy, and the woman has a lot of material expenses, so it needs to be compensated. On the other hand, if a man makes a compromise on the bride price, it will also test the man's true ability and attitude towards feelings, so in some respects, it can indeed ensure the quality of life and love quality of the woman after marriage
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