If a man refuses to put a little effort into you, should he keep it or let it go?

In the past, we had nothing to talk about", there were many common experiences, and naturally there was a lot to talk about, and the things experienced by people who had been in contact with each other for too long were completely different, and each other's minds would even change a lot due to the different environments. Therefore, "now there will be a quarrel as soon as there is a dozen **", and if in order to avoid quarrels and minimize communication, it is tantamount to drinking water to quench thirst, so the psychological pressure of each exchange will be great, and the other party will feel that something is being concealed, without the initial calm relative, without tacit understanding, and without the strength to accompany each other.

We began to be unable to communicate" In fact, we have been in love for so long, and we both want to do our best for this relationship, but we are all missing a direction to work towards, and the more we love, the more confused we become.

Men's thoughts are actually very different from ours, their feelings are very deep, but they are stubborn about the so-called manly dignity and refuse to explain when they are misunderstood, maybe you can't see his heartbroken expression when he lights a cigarette after another argument between you, maybe you can't hear him whispering about you in his dreams, maybe he just doesn't know how to be romantic and not good at expressing it, but in your eyes that are increasingly obscured by sorrow, he becomes "he doesn't even want to pay a little attention to me". Love is a magical thing, it will develop in the direction we imagine, good or bad, if you doubt love in your heart first, love will eventually turn your back on you, if you give up love first, love will not be with you for too long. But if you believe that love will not disappoint you, and even he is already developing in a more terrible direction, as long as you care for him, he will definitely come back.

What's more, your relationship has been so long.

Bless you all!!

I want to put it but I can't bear it! If you're a realist, let it go! On the contrary, if you are an ideal lover, then give selflessly for the person you like! Love is priceless, and it is also "priceless" (worthless).

Maybe something is wrong with him at work! Be more concerned about him, such as send more text messages that care about him, and don't always quarrel with him lately. Find time to do it and talk about it calmly.

After talking about it, you should know how to do it.

Let's communicate well and try to redeem it as much as possible

If you can, go out for a trip and find out how you used to feel.

Why don't you give each other some time to be quiet and leave him for a while.

I think you should have a good talk with him, if it doesn't work, then break up as soon as possible, the long pain is better than the short pain.

The main thing is to figure out why he became like this, and only after knowing the reason can you know whether it is a division or a harmony.

The two of them sat down together and had a good talk, and if it didn't work, they would get divorced.

Your husband has changed, men are like this.

If you haven't met, you'd better fall in love once and make him nervous and nervous.

You deserve to know the answer.

Better a finger off than always aching.

When the man says don't spend his mind on liking him. In fact, what he meant was to ask you not to waste your time on him anymore. It means that this boy doesn't like you.

You shouldn't have any chances. A guy who likes you won't say that. So you really don't want to waste your time and affection on him anymore.

Otherwise, you'll sink deeper and deeper. Such wishful feelings. You will only feel pain.

Through your description, I would like to share my thoughts and opinions, I hope it will be helpful and inspiring to you, to solve the confusion in your heart, and to be able to look at this problem correctly.

First of all, if a man says not to pay attention to him, then it means that he has no hope for this relationship, or he does not have some sex. , that's why he refused so decisively.

On the other hand, men may feel that they are not worthy of the other party, and they will also say this, in general, the two people do not match, so they will have such thoughts, so that boys have such a desperate psychology.

Nothing is absolute, and there are some situations that can slowly change over time and the development of two people.

When a man says don't spend his mind on liking him, he is actually telling you that there is no need to waste time on him, he may already have a girlfriend or someone he likes, or he doesn't have that feeling for you, he doesn't like you, and he may not have much chance.

Probably not a chance, at least at this stage. If you are very concerned, you should find out the situation, whether he has a girlfriend, or the family's request is not suitable for you, or does not like you. Just treat different situations separately, let it be, and let it be!

Yes, I think so.

There is nothing but love between a woman and a man. When we love.

In the beginning, we will be attracted to our favorite opposite sex and taste the taste of love in the world for the first time. The love of the school days was simple and ignorant, but it was also full of a lot of greenery and beauty. As we gradually mature and enter society, the love in our hearts seems to change again, and it seems that there are many factors to consider, there is less simplicity and beauty between two people, but there is also more understanding and maturity.

Whenever you love, loving someone deeply is the same. If a man spends all his mind on you, with only these four manifestations, a woman will not get bored!

1.Always ask what you're doing.

If a man really loves a woman, then he cares about his woman very much, and whenever and wherever the traveler wants to know what she is doing, if she is living well, if she has anything unpleasant, etc. Therefore, when a man really loves a woman and puts all his thoughts into her, he will often take the initiative to ask what a woman is doing, hoping to know more about a woman. At this time, the woman should not get bored and must communicate with the man.

2.Go home early after work to be with you.

When a man has a woman in his heart, he will always miss her. No matter how busy he is, he will want to go home and spend a good night with a woman. Therefore, when a man rushes home to accompany you every time he gets off work, he has to put all his heart and soul into you.

He is a man who loves you deeply. Women must cherish him. Don't dismantle the cheating in happiness and don't know happiness, but miss his love.

3.Gifts are often carefully prepared for you.

Women love romance, and that's what all men know. Many men will do a lot of romantic things to please women to pursue their own women. For example, secretly collect women's ** and make calendars; Let the woman go to Happy Valley and set off a gorgeous firework for her at night; Men will go out of their way to go to distant women's cities to surprise her.

So, if a man often prepares gifts for you and prepares a lot of romantic scenes for you that will surprise you, then he must be a man who loves you deeply. When you meet such a man, hurry up and don't miss it and regret it!

4.Help you when you're struggling and give you a hug.

Sometimes a woman doesn't ask for much, she just wants a man who can accompany her through her life; Sometimes when a woman is vulnerable, she just wants a man to give her a comforting hug and tell her that it's okay and that no matter what happens, there is me. Therefore, if a man persists in the face of a woman's difficulties, hugs her tightly, helps her, and gets through it with her, and gets through it together. Such a man must devote all his thoughts to the woman.

He is a man to be trusted for a lifetime.

Generally, 80% of the time in your life will be spent on you, unwilling to let you down, unwilling to make you sad, will take the initiative to take you home to meet Hui Zai's family, and then will also meet his friends, and will also plan to filial piety in the future of the two people.

Men will take the initiative to chat with you, will have a very sense of ceremony, will prepare gifts for you when you are in the early stages of the holiday, will accompany you when you are sad and sad, and are willing to spend money on you.

I often ask about your situation, sometimes I am willing to prepare small gifts for you, I will go home early to accompany you, sometimes I am willing to spend money on you, and I am willing to spend time on you.

No, because I don't even want to spend the most of it, how can it last for a long time in the future? Such a man is not to be relied upon.

I don't think I'm going to be with him. This kind of man is more selfish. Or that you are not his true love.

Of course not. Such a man is not in you and does not love you, so there is no need for you to be with him.