What should I do if I meet a girl I like, but I find that I have nothing to talk about?

Probably not, if you really like it, you won't have nothing to talk about.

Really, you can talk to people you don't know or don't like, and it's not the kind of embarrassing chat, but when you meet something you like, you don't know what to say, and you're afraid that you'll say the wrong thing.

In fact, this problem is encountered by many boys, because not everyone is so talkative, but there is no need to worry about this, as long as you learn a little by yourself. Here are a few ways you can find a common language to talk to girls:

Clause. First, you need to understand the interests of the girl you like, so that you can find a common language. For example, if the person you like likes a certain star, then you can get to know the star, such as what he likes, what songs he has sang, what TV series he has acted in, and then you can discuss the TV episodes you see with the people you like, so that you can have a topic to talk about with her.

Clause. Second, you can discuss with her about learning or work, and if you are a student, then you can discuss with her about the knowledge in books; If you're already working, you can talk to her about the problems you face at work or how to excel in a competitive workplace.

Clause. 3. You can share with her your previous travel experience, and then guide her to share her own travel experience with you. You can also ask her in the chat if she can travel with you and experience the customs of other places together.

Clause. Fourth, you can talk about other people's privacy, which requires you to have a common acquaintance, if not, then it will not work. However, it is still not advisable for you to talk about other people's privacy, because it is not very ethical.

Clause. Fifth, you can talk to her about clothes or cosmetics, because girls like these more, but it is more difficult for boys, because boys don't know about these at all, but for the sake of the beloved girl, you can fight!

When you like each other, your heart must be irrepressible excitement, no matter what aspects you are thinking about these problems, in fact, your ultimate goal is to be able to get a better feeling, then you should let yourself be in a more tactful and subtle angle to think about this problem, in order to really communicate with the other party, when you have been very recognized by the other party, you will definitely be more optimistic, then let yourself feel the best way in the lack of experience, So you can put yourself in the best possible position to chat with each other.

When you usually feel that there is nothing to say, it may be that your own personality is too shy or you don't know how to start with **, then let yourself calm down, you can express this emotion with actions, and at some times you can also make the other party friendly to you, so that you will feel happy. You can give gifts to the other party, maybe you don't have to say too much, but if you can impress the other party with your actions, you can make the other party recognize you to a large extent, at least notice you, and then you continue to get the other party's approval, and in the end you can always make the other party feel more moved.

If you have nothing to talk about, in fact, it may be that you don't know each other well enough, and the other party is in a passive state, so naturally they will not take the initiative to talk to you, then you should start by understanding each other, after knowing each other's preferences, personality and taboo things, you will have a topic to talk to each other, and can have a lot of common feelings, so that each other can really talk freely, when you reach a consensus, you will understand that each other's minds are very sufficient.

1. Short communication time

I don't have a topic to talk about with my girlfriend, largely because the two of them have been dating for too short a time and don't know each other. Or maybe the two haven't really let go. If you say something you shouldn't say, you don't know what type the other person likes, and you're afraid that if you say too much, it will make the other party disgusted, etc.

It has affected the relationship between two people, and after a long time of dating, it will naturally be more topical when you get to know each other better.

2. Boys should take the initiative and be more attentive

When chatting, as a boy, you naturally have to take the initiative. Say a ** greeting every day, care about your girlfriend, so that if you hit ** more times, you will naturally find a topic for chatting, and you can't wait for the girl to take the initiative to chat.

Also, when chatting, you should be attentive and attentive, and when you chat, you are chatting. It's best not to do other things in the chat, you will be disrespectful to the other party, the same reply to the message is slow or you don't pay attention, etc., there will be a cold situation. After a lot of times, I feel that chatting is not interesting, and two people can't talk together, so I naturally feel that there is no topic to talk about.

3. Talk about daily life

In fact, when two people are chatting together, how can there be so many topics to talk about, all of which are about some daily life situations. Three meals a day, how you feel in the day, what you see every day, unhappy things, etc., these are the main topics of conversation.

4. Talk about each other's work

If both of you have a job, the most talked about topic is how each other are working. Talk about your performance at work, various things you encounter in the unit, happy things, and troubled things. However, most of the conversations are about troubles, getting along with colleagues, and difficulties at work, and so on, just to get the other person's care and support.

5. Go on more dates, watch movies, and cook

If there is no topic to talk about, go find a topic to talk about. Usually two people date more, spend more time together, go to watch more movies if they have nothing to do, and the relationship between the two people is very familiar, so naturally they have nothing to talk about. If we usually meet once a month or two, then naturally there is no topic to talk about.