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Speak in a gentle, low tone about your difficulties. Many people think that they are very good, and they speak loudly, as if the other party has requirements for you, and you can't stand it, so you use a loud voice to intimidate and refuse. It's rude to people.
On the contrary, talking about your difficulties in a gentle and low tone will achieve unexpected results, and perhaps, the other party will be moved by your sincerity and will not blame you, which is also possible.
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Explain your reasons. The mantra of many young people is: too lazy to explain.
The consequence of laziness to explain is to create necessary misunderstandings. Refusing bluntly will only make people misunderstand, and it is possible that in the future, 2 very good friends will become strangers in the future. So, an explanation is absolutely necessary, and whether he listens or not is another matter.
If you explain it, you will have a clear conscience and you will not regret it later.
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You can go something like: "I'm sorry, I don't have any money with me, so you might as well find someone else to take a look." Although this is a lie, it does not hurt the self-esteem of the beggar. It is impossible for a person not to lie in this life, but some white lies are still necessary to tell.
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Rejection does not necessarily have to be clearly expressed, if we feel that the words of rejection cannot be spoken, we can also choose to be silent, not to express our position is also an attitude, and it is a clear attitude, that is, without consent, the other party should not force it again.
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If you encounter a little girl begging for you, don't hesitate to take out your mobile phone and dial 110, because no parent will let their child come out to beg. If you see people sitting on the side of the road begging for their trades, walk around them when you see them.
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If you encounter a deaf-mute begging or charity sale in the subway, compare yourself with her, and tell the crew after the next stop, I heard that many unscrupulous people force the deaf and dumb to beg, and one of your good deeds may help them get out of the sea of suffering.
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For those who are stubborn and ask for money, give some food, and the real beggar doesn't mind what you give, they also buy food when they ask for money, and give some money for those who want to eat, maybe he is really a beggar.
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We need to know which of those people like us begging are real beggars, and which ones are **, if there are really very pitiful ones, we will give them a little charity, this money is nothing to us, but for them it is a full meal.
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