I m a second year graduate girl Regarding mate selection, please give me some advice as a parent

It's hard. As you can see from your account, you are not a loyal person: since you have your first boyfriend, you should no longer be nice to other people, it is a matter of responsibility.

But you've already done this, and you've already thought about your choice, so I suggest you choose the second one. Because to be honest, the gap between male and female education is too big, and sooner or later there will be communication barriers.

What is the emotional experience of the second boyfriend, whether he is a man or not, and whether he has a woman complex determines his attitude towards the woman, which you need to communicate with him.

Since you're with your first boyfriend, you shouldn't be nice to anyone else, it's a matter of responsibility. Choosing the one you love the most is the best choice!

Choosing the one you love the most is the best choice! You must know that the person you want most in your heart now is your favorite, and you will be happy and happy when you choose the right one! If you choose one that doesn't change your choice, you will regret it for the rest of your life!

You must know that the shadow in your heart will not"Leave"Yours! Happiness is built by two people, not on affluence or matchmaking.

Have you ever watched "Holding Hands for Life"? The adaptation of real people and real events, after the finale, you will see the parties come out to talk to everyone! Moreover, the parties involved have been filming on the set all the time, so it is quite a real TV series!

After reading it, you will know how to choose! I don't know if this TV series adds me Although I am not a parent, the answer to this question is not about age or marital status! And my answer is very simple, just let you watch that TV series!

If you still can't choose, let's take it as a real person and real story in China in the last century!!

You shouldn't give up being self-motivated. And the boy who has been following you for many years. He must be a good man. If you choose the latter. Then I really despise you.

Let's choose the latter one.

Personal opinion.

You don't have to be so pretended, it's obvious that you like the new and hate the old in your heart, as for why you write this in your knowing, the ghost knows why, maybe you want to get rid of the burden in your heart, hmph, look down on people like you.

From a realistic point of view, choose the last one, from the perspective of dreaming, who you want to choose the first, the previous is just your dream, and you are still the real you after waking up from the dream.

I'm guessing your parents choose the rich ones

Look what kind of person you are!

I think since you're starting to be depressed, do you still have to choose a fold? Superfluous.

It's better to choose the first one! After all, you have already paid, self-examination is a very difficult thing, he has embarked on this road for you, so you have to be with him, two people love each other, not academic qualifications can stop it, the key is whether you really love each other! If you really fall in love with each other, you won't care about anything else, although it is the same education as you, after all, you haven't lived together for too long, and you don't know him too well!

I just want to say to you, cherish it!!

Choose the latter, if he loves you, he won't care about your past.

The former has a different upbringing, a different living environment, and different values, and he will feel that he has given up everything to come to you, and has paid a lot for you, and you have to carry this burden for the rest of your life. He will say at every turn that I left everything for you! And the latter is much simpler!

Why are you asking for trouble? Cut through the mess!

I think what you need to consider is whether your first boyfriend will be able to give you happiness in the future. What does he live on in Beijing? I think if you believe that he is capable, it is wiser to choose him.

Choose the latter, because marriage is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, etc., you and the first one will not be happy even if they get married, because the gap is too big. Love and marriage are two different things.

Silly girl, why don't you even understand love?! It's up to you to choose, and later you will meet a better one than the second one, and then you will meet a better one...

Do you understand? The most important thing in life is to learn to cherish and care!

Pick the first one, because he will be sincere to you, and that's enough.

Standards can change at any time, but parents all over the world have the same heart. Not only do you have to consider his parents' standards, but also how your parents have audited her. If the two of you really want to be together, everything else is secondary.

The premise is that you are good to her (including everything about her), and then your parents are good to her, and in the end it may be a matter of your personal appreciation space.

Economic conditions are not more important than anything else. Girls want people who love them deeply. As long as you love him, you will create a good life for him.

Isn't it. Filial piety, tolerance, a sense of responsibility, and economic acumen are all choices of parents. Marriage is for women.

But the number one thing in life is not sloppy.

Good people, filial piety to parents, good family conditions, a house and a car, and it is best to be super rich.

In your current situation, as long as you are sincere and considerate of their daughter. If you respect the old and love the young, there is basically no problem.

1 If you are good to your parents, you will naturally be good to you, this kind of man is impeccable. 2. The appearance is average, the image is good, the most important thing is not to be lazy, don't be smart like a goose, 3 As for whether it hurts you, don't worry, you will be filial to your parents and will naturally take care of you and love you... Hope it helps you ...

Find a love you love, find a marriage that loves you.

It's best to find someone you love and love you, and secondly, find someone who loves you, otherwise you have to find someone you love, but no matter what kind of relationship, it's best to talk to your family before starting, otherwise your parents' obstruction will make you tired.

It depends on whether you want to marry him or not, agree to go upstairs and say.

Everyone is different, after all, the current society is indeed realistic, but I think the most important thing is to get along with each other's personalities, to have feelings, life will be considerate of each other, care for each other, money, just get by, don't worry about what to eat at the next meal, hehe.

1。Can't be too handsome, it's best not to be too rich, don't like the second ancestor very much, of course, can't be too poor, what kind of love can you talk about if you can't eat enough?

2。It must have connotation, that is, personal charm, such as personality, ability ......3。Be good to your parents (if necessary) and be good to me.

4.Not too short, not too tall.

That's probably it, I'll tell you about it.

House has become the biggest problem in today's society, if a girl wants to start a family, want to get married instead of just falling in love, the first consideration must be the house, if you have a good character, stable, the house is especially important.

People are different, some girls value money very much, and some value feelings. It depends on your fate, and what you encounter is what it looks like. But in general, girls are much more realistic today than they used to be.

I am a married man, as a poor peasant class, I think the choice of a mate first depends on whether the other party is filial, I personally feel that this is an important embodiment of character, followed by whether the attitude towards life is positive, so that life can be vigorous after marriage, and finally it is to see whether the two parties can get along. With the foundation of the first two articles, basically there will be no contradictions that lead to the breakdown of the marriage within a certain period of time after marriage, of course, people will change, and no one can say what will happen in the future. After marriage, the family needs to be cared for by both parties, and there will definitely be problems of one kind or another, occasionally quarrels and fights, this is life.

The above is completely a personal opinion, and I am also idle, so come up and **.

Hehe, that's because you're not married yet, and when you get married, your experience can be deeper, what you said about care and sharing is the minimum, if you can't do it, then how can you call it a husband and wife.

I, female.

1. Honesty and kindness are very important.

2, the outlook on life and values are the same as mine, otherwise there will be a fight 3, the one who will not quarrel is the best, but it is difficult to find.

4. Just look normal.

5. Just spend enough money.

That's all.

The view of marriage is not too secure, so be honest and kind.

Old man: If you like kind girls, you must be filial first. It doesn't have to be pretty. She has to be empathetic, considerate, and single-minded (I want her to be single-minded even if she doesn't love me).

Views on marriage: unknown, longing, hope to live happily with a lover with his own children. I'm worried about divorce, I'm worried that I can't do my part, I'm worried that she will look down on me, I'm worried that she will say the word "regret".

I don't understand the definition of a husband and wife.

I hope that men will accept that women are very realistic, and that even if life is a fairy tale, happiness and joy are not enough

Peasant women, mountain springs, and a little field.

Views on marriage: The people inside want to come out, and the people outside want to go in, and the husband is the one who works every day to make money, and the one who supports the little wife and finally loses his kidney;

The wife is the one who does laundry and cooks every day, takes care of the children, and finally becomes a yellow-faced woman;