My mom and I are very clear about money?

I am afraid of poverty, I have no bottom in my heart, and I have no certain economic income. You are the only one she relies on, without your support and giving, her old life will be even more lonely and unbearable. Subconsciously, she is afraid, afraid that no one will take care of her when she is old, and she will have no money to spend, so when she is with you, she will make more money if she can, and she will take advantage of you more, because she is also afraid of some bad changes, and she will have some money in her hand and some bottom in her heart.

The worst is that his son is unreliable, and he has a little money to cross the river.

Maybe because of what she has experienced, he is particularly insecure, so she will constantly want to make money, so that he will feel safe, you, as his son, should care more about her, take care of her more, and don't worry about him.

I think your mother should be very insecure in life, take more money, he will have a sense of security, and he will give you the question of pension, in fact, he is afraid that your experience in your youth will cause you to be unwilling to support her old age.

Most mothers instill the concept of raising children to prevent old age in their sons, and they have not been together for many years, and poor emotional communication is a common thing. The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is common around us, most of them are not really because of money problems, but the son's parents think that everything should be paid for by the son, and even the daughter-in-law should pay for herself, while the daughter's parents are mostly thinking that they can still do something for their daughter or even son-in-law. Not all of them are like this, there can be a lot of such things, they are all ordinary people, and my daughter is naturally unbalanced.

The son himself has such strong feelings, I'm afraid he belongs to this type.

Your mother and you are very clear in terms of money, which shows that he is a person who can carry it, he doesn't want to blindly give money to his children, and hopes that his children can be independent.

It's sometimes a good thing to be able to figure it out, and it's not easy to have conflicts.

Alas......There are no ...... in the worldAll kinds of people exist.

How so? Be more indifferent, little brother! ok？

Since you know your mother's pay, you should take more, and it is normal for the elderly to be able to calculate clearly in terms of money, and people feel secure when they are old. So you don't care, as long as you are filial, the money will be yours in the future.

Don't worry about your own mother, pay more into your ability, and don't be like her when comparing your own mother.

My mother said that she could use her own 120,000 yuan for demolition and relocation as she wanted. When I heard this, I immediately replied: "What kind of thing is that?" That money must be kept for me. ”

Most of the land and houses in our village have been expropriated, and my mother has a deposit of about 120,000 yuan, which belongs entirely to her.

The moment she got the money, my mother was very excited, the old lady had been busy for most of her life, and she had never gotten so much money, do you think she could not be happy?

My mom proudly said that she has so much money that she can use it however she wants!

As soon as I heard it, I felt that this was not right, she could use it however she wanted, so what a line! It's all spent by her, so what will she do if she will care for the elderly in the future and see a doctor?

I replied to my mom that I had to keep the money for her. I gave her 300 yuan a month for living expenses.

Although my mother is in her 70s, she still cultivates some vegetables elsewhere, and the old man has been busy all his life and can't be idle. I don't have to buy side dishes at home, and they are delivered to my house every day. At most, buy some fish, meat, or something.

In this way, my mother's 300 yuan a month is more than enough for her to live alone, isn't it?

My mom used to mumble in front of me, saying she didn't have enough money. The old lady thinks that she has put my money here, right?

This is the story of my colleague.

He saved the old lady's money, saying that he kept it for her, so that the old lady would not spend it indiscriminately and lose it.

He gave his mother 300 yuan a month, and according to his own algorithm, 300 yuan was enough to live.

Even if you grow your own vegetables, don't you need money for rice oil, soy sauce and vinegar? There are also elderly people who usually want to buy some meat or snacks, which need money. What should I do if I come across something I want to buy? Just 300 yuan, is it okay?

The old man has a bad memory, you can save money for her and keep it, but giving 300 yuan a month seems to be a bit little.

The 120,000 yuan is the old lady's own, if there is no money, my colleague will not have to support the elderly! Could it be that the old lady has no money, so he doesn't care?

My colleague's idea is not wrong, that is, he should add a little bit to his mother's money every month, after all, the old man has worked hard to raise himself, and when he is old, he uses his own money, is there still a restriction?