Xue Baochai is not convinced, why is Lin Daiyu only allowed to fall in love with Jia Baoyu?

I don't think it is said that Xue Baochai is not allowed to fall in love with Jia Baoyu, only Daiyu is allowed to fall in love with Baoyu, just because Daiyu's love for Baoyu is pure, her love is love, and there is no other purpose, but Baochai's feelings for Baoyu are not pure enough, and a large part of his good or expressed love for Baoyu is that she wants to be Baoyu's second grandmother.

Lin Daiyu's love for Jia Baoyu is obvious to all, and it is an indisputable fact. So does Xue Baochai love Jia Baoyu? Anyway, I don't believe it, I personally think that Xue Baochai is not looking for love, but looking for a marriage partner, she only wants to marry Baoyu because after the failure to enter the palace, the result of the balance of forces of all parties is forced to make a living.

If the Jia family did not have gold and food, and did not have prominent power, I am afraid that Xue Baochai would not marry Jia Baoyu if he was killed; And Daiyu is different, Daiyu wants to marry Baoyu, it is a product of love, rich is also Baoyu, poor is also Baoyu.

It is impossible for Xue Baochai to really fall in love with Jia Baoyu, he is not the same kind of person. Only a domineering president-like man can hold Xue Baochai, Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu will only torture each other together, so helplessly, Jia Baoyu is pessimistic and misanthropic.

Because the two of them had a fate in their previous lives, they will continue their relationship in their previous lives in this life.

The key is that Baoyu Daiyu is really in love, what is Baochai doing with a kick? Baoyu doesn't love Baochai, she has to try her best to break up others. So big.

Daiyu should love Xue Pan.

Unrequited love has always been sad, so the problem is that throughout their lives, some people just don't like it, they come to the world lonely, and they go lonely, just like me now, I can't get what I like, and I don't like it, I hope everyone can better grasp love, don't come in vain.

Reason one, Lin Daiyu.

Be considerate. Baoyu is very arrogant, especially doesn't like to study, so his father always beats him, Daiyu feels sorry for Baoyu, and often secretly helps Baoyu make up for it. These are what Daiyu herself has experienced. No one told her to help Baoyu, which was a manifestation of her deep and restrained love.

The second reason is that Baoyu and Daiyu were originally a match made in heaven. When they first met, Baoyu fell in love with Daiyu, as if they were familiar at first sight. That's the wonderful fate. This fate seems to be destined by God, and the two have a sense of déjà vu when they first meet.

Daiyu is very important in Baoyu's heart. Because Daiyu doesn't have jade, Baoyu can smash the jade that is as important as her own life. In the future, Baoyu thinks about Daiyu in her heart, there are good things, and there are sorrows and doubts in her heart, the first thing that comes to mind is Daiyu, offering treasures to Daiyu, and giving them to Daiyu; Or confide in Daiyu.

Baoyu's preference for Daiyu is mostly because that person is unique in his heart, and he will miss and covet every minute of time with her.

The third reason is that Daiyu understands Baoyu better. Baoyu who is with Daiyu is the Baoyu that Baoyu wants to become, doing what she likes to do, loving the people she likes, and the limited time is full of meaning.

Daiyu is undoubtedly excellent and dazzling, she has an outstanding temperament, Lan Xinhui, beautiful appearance, outstanding talent, and more importantly, she and Baoyu cherish each other, the two are confidants, childhood sweethearts, they grew up with each other, and occupy an important position in each other's lives. More importantly, they are the Grand View Garden.

They all have their own independent spirit, ignoring the world's expectations and requirements for them.

Clause. 1. Judging from the dressing style, Xue Baochai is too old-fashioned, not at all like a teenager. As for Sister Lin, she is full of youth and makes people feel a girlish atmosphere.

Second: From the perspective of personality, Baochai is calm and generous, virtuous and family-oriented, gentle and sensible; Daiyu is sincere and funny, sentimental, weak and crying, and it is said that a coquettish woman is better to make a woman too sensible in her relationship, so she will not be able to mobilize men's desire to protect, and she will not be able to arouse men's emotions and love.

Third: From the perspective of values, Baoyu does not like fame and fortune, disgusted with officialdom and Bagu articles, Daiyu never persuaded Baoyu to take the test for fame, she and Baoyu both have rebellion against the world, and both yearn for spiritual freedom.

Fourth: From the perspective of the level of needs, Daiyu represents high-level spiritualism, when men have surpassed the primary survival needs, they will pursue something outside the world, in front of Baoyu, what attracts him is Daiyu's true temperament and transcendent spiritual pursuit.

The two met in their past lives and in this life, fell in love at first sight, and they were childhood sweethearts who were each other's bosom friends, so the two fell in love with each other.

In the article, Jia Baoyu blurted out when she saw Lin Daiyu for the first time: "I have seen this sister before." Perhaps it was the guidance of fate in their previous lives, and the two had this fateful familiarity from the moment they met. The two may still be young, and they can't say that this is love, but their affection for each other is certain.

Then there is the ear and sideburns of the two getting along day and night, and the relationship between the two is much deeper than that of others under the relationship between them and their hearts and minds. Lin Daiyu, who is growing up, is outstanding, and her appearance is very much in line with Baoyu's aesthetics, Baoyu likes to discuss poetry with Daiyu, drink and bury flowers together, Daiyu is straightforward, clever and interesting, and Baoyu is always happy with her.

What's more, Baoyu and Daiyu refer to each other as confidants. Baoyu doesn't like sage books and looks down on officialdom, but except for Sister Lin, everyone else will persuade him to study hard and become famous. In the eyes of outsiders, Daiyu generally thinks that she has a bad personality, loves to be petty, and even a little snarky, but Baoyu has always felt that this is Sister Lin's cuteness, and helps Daiyu get along with others.

Both of them have a rebellious spirit in their bones and understand each other, so Sister Lin only has Baoyu in her eyes, and Baoyu loves only Daiyu in her heart.

Lin Daiyu will not persuade Baoyu to gain fame, the two have a common hobby, the three views are similar, Daiyu is straightforward, what to say, never hide, and explain the words.

Many things are not transferred by human will, and there is a providence in the dark.

Because of love at sight, there is fate, and the feelings are deep, and they are childhood sweethearts.