My boyfriend s mom made me a promise, and who can tell me if I should say yes and what to do

Updated on society 2024-05-28
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can confess the agreement between your mom and you with your boyfriend, and discuss it together, maybe his mom is really worried about his dad's body, but it may also be his mother's deception and wants you to separate, so let's discuss, after all, if you break up rashly by concealing the inside story now, you must be sure that you will be reconciled again in a year?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Does your family love you, love, so does he have an opinion "Is it a special listen to my mother's words, no matter whether it is right or wrong" If not, you will love each other well, as long as this man loves you, you treat his mother well, he is not the kind of weak man, and slowly his mother sees that her son loves a woman so much, and it will not be anything, after all, his mother opposes you because she thinks you are not good, as long as you deal with everything well.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you hurt your boyfriend and you can't go back, his mother can actually hide it from his father, but no, what does it mean? Why didn't your boyfriend tell you this, and why? Why don't you ask your boyfriend to talk to you about a workaround?

    It feels like the agreement she told you was just a perfunctory for you to break up with her son.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't promise her, his mother is fooling you... Whining.. Ginger is still old and spicy、、、 alas.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course not, it's just a means of the older generation, but your boyfriend has you in his heart more than anything else, if you really have a deep affection between you, a year is nothing, depending on how long you and your boyfriend have been together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This question is really tangled, and if you agree, there may be problems with your boyfriend, and if you don't agree, your future is a little confused. So, you have to make the best choice between the two, I think, being together is a matter of two people, you can tell your boyfriend about it, but let him not tell his mother, let him make a choice, even if it is a year apart, so that he knows the reason, if he changes his mind when he knows the reason, it can only mean that he does not love deeply enough.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1.Heart disease is not well managed.

    2.It's rare for you to believe such a low-level deception.

    3.You don't know a man, and once you hurt him, it's hard to get him.

    4.How can there be such a mother.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I resolutely didn't agree!! How long is a year!! And if you mention breaking up, and your boyfriend doesn't know about it, you must have missed it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. This situation is really difficult, dear, I feel your headache and anxiety. Let's not panic yet, there are two directions that can be solved:

    1.Ask your mother why, if your mother's opinions and feelings are important to you, and her worries and considerations sound reasonable to you, then standing on her mother's side is a normal choice for a daughter. 2.

    If the mother agreed before and temporarily changed her unwillingness, then the mother may have a misunderstanding or other people's reasons, such as other people in the family are also opposed, and the mother is only representing their opinions, then your role here is very important, to coordinate in it, it is important to pay attention to the mother's opinion, and do not hurt the feelings of the mother and daughter because of this matter.

    My boyfriend's parents came to my house in the afternoon to discuss our marriage, and my mother didn't want them to come, but I shouted that I had already told my boyfriend that my mother had promised to let him come here.

    This situation is really difficult, dear, I feel your headache and anxiety. Let's not panic first, there are two directions that can be solved simply: 1

    Ask your mother why, if your mother's opinions and feelings are important to you, and her worries and considerations sound reasonable to you, then standing on her mother's side is a normal choice for a daughter. 2.If the mother agreed before and temporarily changed to say that she did not want to send a faction, then the mother may have a misunderstanding or other people's reasons, such as other people in the family are also opposed, and the mother is just representing their opinions, then your role here is very important, to coordinate in it, the important thing is to pay attention to the mother's opinion, and not to hurt the feelings of the mother and daughter because of this matter.

    It can be seen that the communication between you and your mother was not sufficient before, which may also be one of the reasons for your mother's worry, it is recommended to kiss or postpone today's Fuwan arrangement, and talk to your mother about your views and <>plans for this relationship

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