My boyfriend s mother dislikes my parents divorce and is out of town and doesn t have a regular job

First of all, you can be sure that your boyfriend's mother is very prejudiced against you, so first determine whether your boyfriend loves you, and then you explain the truth to your boyfriend, so that he can explain the reason to his mother, you are adding practical actions to eliminate the estrangement, after all, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very important! Wishing happiness!

Then you fix your job first.

Look at whether your boyfriend is very determined, and let the boyfriend subtly influence his mother, I think marrying a wife is just marrying this person, not a family.

Divorce is not your fault, and of course it is not your parents' fault, it's just that fate has arranged it this way, who gets married for the sake of divorce, and besides, divorce is just for the pursuit of happiness.

I'm also a person with little experience.

I always feel like my mind is more open.

I don't know what will happen in a few years

Kicked him, he's really not a thing. Whether she marries you, or your parents. So you tell him directly that he is married to you.

We can't change our family. That's always the truth, if this man is doing this to you now. He's definitely not a good thing.

The days won't last long, and the feelings aren't real. If he can accept you, he can accept all of you.

This is going to be bs by the old woman for a lifetime, it's like being imprinted on you, and there's nothing to do.

If you can influence the elderly, you will continue to develop, and if you can't, separate as soon as possible.

That's to judge whether he has potential.

If you are a hard-working, motivated person who persuades your family to give him a chance (he will be happy in the future), on the contrary, if he is a person who talks big and does not do practical things (no dreams, no goals), then it is better for you to listen to the advice of your family.

The key depends on your boyfriend's attitude.

What he thinks.

You have to know that the future is after all living with your boyfriend.

But harmony in family relationships is also very important to you.

Especially the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

See how you make a choice.

Good luck.

Isn't that a great opportunity to test your boyfriend? If he can't even pass such a simple test, then I have every reason to believe that he just likes you, and it's still far from love.

I feel that it is, because you are divorced, so the family will not be so good, and your parents are also thinking about you, thinking that marriage will not make you too happy.

Because your parents want the man's family to be a complete family, and they should not have an incomplete family, which causes you to be unhappy.

Because your parents are worried that your boyfriend will have some psychological problems because of the divorce of his parents, and they are afraid that he will not be able to face the marriage properly and then hurt you.

Many parents have a prejudice against children from single-parent families, thinking that the relationship between children in families with divorced parents will have certain defects, so your parents are worried about you, but if you are unwilling to leave your boyfriend, you still have to talk to your parents.

This question is very easy to handle, whether you like it or not, from the bottom of your heart, if you still want to continue dating, try to communicate with your mother.

Tell my mother that people from poor families will work harder, because they have no support, they will be independent earlier, and the children of poor families will be in charge of the house early, and look at each other's advantages more.

Mom dislikes her boyfriend, and her mother likes the other party's family background, because the family background is not good, you will veto your boyfriend, then you will try to keep your distance from your boyfriend, but you can create an opportunity for your mother to meet and get along with your boyfriend, take your mother to your boyfriend's house, and after a period of getting along, see if your mother can slowly accept her boyfriend and see if your boyfriend can really date.

Your boyfriend should also work hard at work, at least let you see that he is motivated and a person who can be relied on for a lifetime.

In the end, it is the husband who lives with us, if you really want to live with him for a lifetime, you have to let your boyfriend try to be better to your mother, the family situation is not good, there is no way to change it, and some are just working hard in the future, see if you have such determination.

You can also tell your mother that this road will be very difficult, but it is not that you will be happy if you marry a rich man, and it has always been an eternal truth, and the future road of life is still to rely on yourself, rely on men, and rely on family background are unrealistic, the only thing is your own efforts, when you work hard to do your best, there will naturally be hope.

The boyfriend's character is what really needs to be considered, just imagine, if the boyfriend is lazy all day long, then even if the family background is good, it is nothing.

Men and women in love only see each other's advantages, if the boyfriend is really not so good, I suggest you still have to listen to your mother, because after all, your mother has experienced more life than us, and she knows how to distinguish between good people and bad people.

In this world, the vast majority of parents are concerned about the good of their children. Mom dislikes her boyfriend's bad family background and won't let you continue dating. Have you talked to your mother, is it really because your boyfriend has a bad family background that the reason why your mother won't let you continue dating your boyfriend?

If this is really the reason, then why would your mother not let you date because of your boyfriend's poor family background?

In fact, in many cases, the real reason for the so-called "dislike of the poor and love the rich" of parents is not simply to dislike the other party for not having money, and hope that their children will marry rich or marry rich. And because parents are afraid that their children will be wronged. They all say that they should "be the right person", and they all say that "poor and lowly couples mourn everything", which also has a certain truth for him.

Your boyfriend's family is not good, and your mother won't let you be with her, in fact, most of the reasons are because you are afraid that your boyfriend will not be able to give you a stable life.

If you want your mother to accept your boyfriend, in addition to letting your mother know that you really love each other, you must also reassure your mother that with him, you will not suffer, and you will still live a happy life. Or even if it's a little harder now, but your boyfriend has a plan and works hard to change his family situation, hoping to make you live a good life.

Please rest assured that with him, you will not be wronged, this is what your mother wants to see.

Hold on, no matter what my mother says, we just don't compromise, my mother is a typical embodiment of disliking the poor and loving the rich, how can you bow to this dark force, and in this current society, it is really not easy to find someone you like, and you like yourself, it is really not easy, it is not easy to find it, is it because your mother does not agree, you have to miss the person who may be with you for a lifetime!

You'd better unite with your boyfriend first, otherwise your mother will go to him again and let you break up, which is not good, so first talk to your boyfriend about this matter, and agree with each other not to break up, and then you can talk to your mother about this and tell your mother what you think, you think money, family background and other things are not important, the important thing is that you feel happy.

Mom is just leading your life with her own ideas, but you still need to make your own decisions in your own life, you must clearly know what you want in your heart, if you break up with your boyfriend now, you will definitely regret it in the future, you must not hold on, we will not break up!

I don't think this question can be asked in such a general way, first of all, who does your mother want you to date? What is your mother's standard for you to have a boyfriend? Is it the person who watches your boyfriend or your boyfriend's home? All three of these questions boil down to one question, people!

So the boyfriend is reassuring, if the two of you really love each other, you can talk to your mother, I believe she will listen to your happiness, your mother does not agree with your relationship, I don't want you to have a bad time in the future, if you think that your boyfriend's character is not questioned, you can sit together and talk about it.

I have to believe that my parents' life experience is clearer than that of you and me, and I must believe that if we can cultivate such an excellent, honest and hard-working child, the parents' conduct will not be bad, so even if my boyfriend's family background is not good now, it will not continue like this.

But the mother is afraid that her child will not know people clearly and be deceived. A friend of mine once told me that his friend's boyfriend was from a bad family, but because his daughter liked it, his parents had no choice but to agree to the engagement.

On the occasion of getting married, one day when the woman's father passed by her boyfriend's house, he was told by her boyfriend's neighbors that his fruit stall business was not good because he was often short of catties and taels, and the customers who went to buy every day were outsiders passing by in other places.

Therefore, if your boyfriend's character is beyond doubt, even if your mother still insists on disagreeing because of her poor family background, I believe that with the spirit of true love and perseverance between the two of you, you will definitely impress your mother.

In fact, it is not very far, more than 20 kilometers to the man's house, and they think that the man is not very good, and they are not allowed to marry him.