My boyfriend has no money, do I have to choose to leave him

Updated on psychology 2024-05-23
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hehe, you decide for yourself, but you have to figure out a few things first:

    1. How do you define "no money", do you mean that you can't even support yourself, or do you say that you don't have a villa car? (If it is the former, I advise you to leave him, such a waste is only worthy of being beaten as a single; If you refer to the latter, then I will persuade him to leave you, such a woman, if you ask for it, you will only lose).

    2. When you decided to make him your boyfriend, did he have no money? (If so, you said you weren't interested in money, so why has that changed now?) Women are fickle, and this is a glimpse of this.

    If he had money at the beginning, and now he has no money, then you naturally have to analyze the reason, what is the reason why he has no money, if it is because he can only spend and not earn, then you can leave him, sooner or later, he will even "spend" you, if it is for other reasons, then you have to think carefully. )

    3. Is he not having money just for the time being, or have you seen that he will be rich for the rest of his life? (If he only has no money for a while, you don't have to rush to leave him, believe that he will make a fortune one day, in other words, even if you find someone rich now, there may be a day when you have no money.) If you see that he will have no money for the rest of his life, then you can go and see the face, hehe, then you will definitely make a lot of money.

    4. The last and most important one, does the foundation of love think it is "money"? (If yes, I have nothing to say, it is good for both of you for you to leave him, let it be for him; If you think it's not, then think again, don't give up on a relationship easily. )

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hehe,,If you have this idea, let's leave.,Sooner or later.。 In my opinion, it's one thing to have money or not, and it's another thing to be motivated or not, so take it yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My boss told me and said:"Little girl, if you are looking for a man in the future, you must have talent and wealth! "If you are young, you must be talented, and if you are over 30, you must have talent and wealth!

    Of course, if you love someone, you will be tolerant. However, if a man doesn't work hard for you, it means that he doesn't love you. If you don't love your man, you leave him! No matter how much I love him, leave him, Cheche!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No!! If you leave you are a bad woman, but depending on what your boyfriend has no money for, whether he doesn't work hard or for some other reason, you need to work together ...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No!! Is it true that you value his money when you are with him?

    If that's the case, you just value feelings more than money, don't you?

    Don't give up easily if you love, it's not easy to have a good relationship, you know?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your choice is correct, because the current social rhythm is too fast, no money, no capital, no capital, it means that you will always be poor, you can also find that the money is too difficult to make now, the more people with a strong economic foundation, the more opportunities to make money, the less the chance of the poor turning over, and you should not yearn for the naïve romantic and ethical cultural love played in the TV series, because the TV series is illusory and perfect, and life is practical, it does not tolerate the slightest hypocrisy, For example, if you run around all day for food and clothing, will you be happy, so you might as well choose a person with an economic foundation, so that you don't have to run for your first pot of gold, save time, as for the rich candidate or not, you have to look at yourself, I sincerely bless you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. This is not supposed to be said, your boyfriend gives you money is love, and it is your duty not to give you money. I don't have any money to get a little from my parents.

    Should my boyfriend give me money if I don't have a job.

    This is not supposed to be said, your boyfriend gives you money is love, and it is your duty not to give you money. I don't have any money to get a little from my parents.

    Or find a job yourself as soon as possible.

    Because of personal reasons, I haven't looked for a job yet, so my boyfriend asked me to go to his store to study, but I don't have any savings myself, I'm not sure if I want to go, if I go, I'm embarrassed to ask for money, and I haven't found a good job if I don't go.

    Well, you can tell your boyfriend about your situation and see what he says.

    He knows some of my situation, and he also knows that I still have arrears, and he has said that he will help solve it, but I personally don't want him to help me with this, after all, this is my personal debt, and I will be pressured to accept his help, after all, I am not married.

    The idea is right, don't mix feelings with money, it's easy to go wrong.

    But how should I tell him, and that finding a job is not something that can be found in a moment.

    He knows this, and it doesn't matter directly.

    He knew, I mentioned it to him, but he kept his own opinion, which was to go to his shop to learn how to do business, and it was possible that we would get married at the end of the year or next year, so it made me very distressed.

    If he really loves you, he will give for you, including money.

    I know this, but I personally have some axes, that is, I don't want to trouble him much, whether I have anything to do with him, but I am thin-skinned and don't want to get involved with him too early.

    This is understandable, but in addition to not bothering him, is there any other way to solve your problem, you can find a job on your own, it is also difficult.

    Without <>, it is not so easy to find a job now, and once you get married and work, you have to consider this time, and you don't need to change your job <> with energy

    I really don't know how to choose <>

    It's up to you to weigh the pros and cons.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Ah, yes, yes, let him go!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    must have broken up, he looks down on you at all, doesn't take you seriously, if you marry him, you are the one who suffers, break up early, you work hard, be a self-reliant woman, and when you are strong, you don't dare to look down on you when you find a boyfriend.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When your boyfriend says such things to you, he obviously looks down on you and thinks that you have the right to spend money if you don't earn money, so according to his theory, those mothers and housewives can't live, so I think such a man is not very reliable.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your boyfriend dislikes you for not being able to make money, and he also thinks that you are stupid, and this boyfriend is not good for you, and now he hates you like this, and he doesn't take you seriously when he gets married, so he can't break up with him and him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. That's right, breaking up is the best choice, there is no need to pay your love to people who look down on you.

    2. Love is equal, and you can't be superior to others or look up to others because of who has more money and who has less money.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How can a boyfriend talk about his girlfriend like this, it's so hurtful, no one can accept it.

    However, I also don't recommend that you break up immediately and put it aside for a while to see what happens.

    If he doesn't apologize and change in the future, it's not too late to break up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Breaking up is certain, but women must have their own financial **, otherwise they will definitely make men look down

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can't rely on anyone, so rely on yourself. In fact, language is the real violence, and I am most afraid of punishment. Without mutual respect and mutual understanding, feelings are really ridiculous!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your boyfriend has talked about this, do you want to make do with it again? Do you want to wronged yourself again? What about your self-esteem? Can you wait for a good ending if you don't break up? Wake up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, you're good for nothing in the eyes of this man, it's not your boyfriend. It's just a stranger.

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