As a leftover woman, do you feel God?

As an older leftover girl, the main feeling is the contradiction, and the main contradiction is the contradiction between long-term love and love at first sight! I thought for a while, getting older and older, and having children is becoming more and more dangerous, and I may not be able to meet a better one, or I will just take it, and get used to it together in the future, it will be pleasing to the eye, and I may fall in love for a long time. After a while, I thought that maybe in the next second I would meet someone I liked, fall in love at first sight, and tie the knot.

This is like two people on the rocker, one will have the upper hand, and the other will have the upper hand, day and night entanglement, and it is difficult to sleep!

I think it's really annoying to be a leftover girl. I was nagged by my parents every day, and I was also ridiculed by my relatives and friends. It's a headache.

I feel that as a saint, my feeling is that I am single by virtue of my ability, and there is nothing wrong with it.

In the West, it is called single, and there is no leftover, and similar may be Japan and South Korea. The tradition of our country's agrarian society is to encourage marriage, and family inheritance has been embedded in the traditional concept of most people, so the male should marry, and the female should marry. At present, the whole society is evolving towards urbanization, gradually moving away from a society dominated by an agricultural economy and becoming an industrial and commercial society.

Traditional culture will be out of date, for example, the concept of marriage will be adjusted, and more will become a personal matter, and the social significance of the traditional will be diluted. At present, the high cost of marriage and the cost of living after marriage are also the main reasons for the surplus of men and women, as well as the imbalance in the ratio of men and women, the increase in income gap, the strengthening of the sense of independence, and the requirement of happiness, all of which exacerbate the phenomenon of surplus men and women.

I'm unmarried for 82 years, let's be honest, what I say doesn't matter in my mouth, but I'm also anxious! It's not that I care about other people's words, but in a few years, maybe I'm in my 40s, and I may face menstrual decisions in all aspects, do I not like seeing children at this age? Even the insomnia is severe, and the appetite is average.

I hope someone who understands will accompany me through the journey of life! It's not in vain.

As a leftover girl, it is really uncomfortable, and the urging of the family to marry will make me particularly stressed.

As a leftover girl, I think love may still be on the way, and it is possible that my fate is a little later. But I still believe in love.

As a leftover girl, I feel that the world has deep malice towards me. I'm going to be a girl myself. What's the problem, sorry for everyone alike.

As an older leftover woman, it is the kind of feeling that her future does not know where to go, and there is no direction to look for.

As a leftover girl, I feel very anxious, I don't have anything in my heart, but my family is very anxious, and I can't avoid it.

I think there are really a lot of leftover women now. It doesn't matter anymore, after all, there are a lot of singleness.

If I were a saint, I felt like I was superfluous. I feel very old, very old, and I have no confidence to go out.

I think it's good to be a leftover girl, I can spend my salary alone, I live in my own house, and I can do whatever I want.

I was driven crazy, regretting that I had hesitated to miss him, and I was also worried that I would not meet someone who loved me so much in the future.

I think it's okay, there are no good men anyway, so take your time.

I'm a forty-four-year-old leftover girl, and that's fine.

I'm single by virtue of my ability! Facing all kinds of marriage urgings every day, the pressure is so great, and some people feel that life is boring.

I'm 42 years old, but men often say they like it, right? Send red envelopes and see your sincerity! If you really have a hair, keep it as a friend, pick and choose, and see if you really love me and are willing to take care of me.

My biggest feeling is that I think too much and put all reality into a world of confusion.

As an older young man, when he went home, he was under all kinds of pressure from his family, and he couldn't bear it and was anxious, but as soon as he came out of work, he immediately felt that everything was a floating cloud, how to live like this, maybe only a few days after the New Year would be anxious about his girlfriend!

I'm not ready to be a leftover woman, but I'm already moving in the direction of being a leftover girl.

The absence of regular marital life for men and women can affect physical and mental health. So it's not good to be single.

92 years of singleness, has not been in a relationship.

What age can you do anything, just be a layman!

I'm going crazy completely, and I'm urging it at home. I am Wukong, and I recite the mantra every day.

I think it's okay, but I just put my family and relatives and friends to death (88 years).

Have faith in your heart, and endure even if you are lonely. I'm not a woman though.

Five topics to talk about, there are still people to pick up.

Male, 87 years old, Shandong, older single, good character, are there any girls who are interested in knowing?

Many leftover women boast that they are very high-quality, and they will become leftover women, mainly for these reasons.

The first reason is that I don't want to fall in love too early, I want to talk about it when I am good enough, and I missed the ** stage of 22 to 28 years old. In addition, he is short-sighted, and only looks at high-quality men and does not look at potential stocks. The high-quality men who are optimistic are all over 30 years old, rich and status, but they are either married, or others want to find younger girls, so older women of the same age are not considered.

The second reason is that when a person has improved his status and overall strength to a considerable extent through his own efforts, he will naturally hope to find a partner who is equal to himself. Because when two people have the same or similar views and opinions in all aspects, it is easier to identify with each other, and each other's emotions will go longer, which is fundamentally not wrong and normal. But the reality is often cruel, you are very good, but not necessarily everyone else is as good as you.

And in order to find someone who is consistent with their three views or equally good, many women have become leftover women in the mouths of everyone, but from a personal point of view, they are using their own way to adhere to the bottom line and principles they think.

The third reason is that it is not appropriate to pick and choose, and before you know it, you are getting older, and there are fewer and fewer peers, and there are fewer and fewer opportunities to choose from. At this time, those who marry at the end of the same age are often leftovers, and there are very few excellent ones, and too ordinary men and girls can't look down on them, so it is difficult for leftover women to marry. If you understand that no one is perfect, good character, and no other major problems, so that girls generally do not lack objects.

The fourth reason is that the few remaining female classmates around me are all excellent. I had a girlfriend who complained to me, I remember what I said at the time, who called you so beautiful, you have money and a good job, and there are few men of the same age who have better conditions than you.

Because these girls themselves are very good, their requirements for the other half are very high, and they never choose to settle when looking for the other half, so they will become leftover women.

It may be that the conditions are too high, or it may be that you pay great attention to your family or career in life, so you don't have the heart to go to the object, or it may be because of a single-parent family.

Because their vision is too high, they have their own ideas and goals, and they will not settle.

Leftover women are generally older (usually over 30 years old) unmarried women, and their mentality is diverse, because each of them has different life experiences and values, and it is impossible to generalize. However, most women face some pressures and confusions related to marriage, which include but are not limited to:

1.Social pressure: There is a certain stereotype of women's concept of marriage and Qianlingming's expectations in society, which leads some women to stress and anxiety, worrying that they will be excluded from mainstream society.

2.Self-doubt: Being single for a long time makes some women wonder if they have problems, such as appearance or personality, which affects their self-confidence and self-evaluation.

3.Desire for marriage: While not all women aspire to marriage, for some, marriage is still an expectation for their future.

When they are not married, they may have a flame of longing buried in their hearts, and the long wait can produce psychological torment and frustration.

4.The pressure of choice: When entering the age of 30, the choice and adjustment of life and work are becoming more and more important, which also makes some women feel pressured to choose between marriage and career.

Despite a lot of stress and confusion, many women are still able to face their lives and marital status positively. They are also actively looking for opportunities to connect themselves and others through various channels, and find their own happiness in life.