My boyfriend dislikes my parents

Your boyfriend's request at the beginning was a bit unreasonable, but because you just came back and said it, I have a strong feeling in my heart, and I can understand it, and he changed his mind at noon today and agreed to your parents to attend the banquet, which shows that your boyfriend did a reasonable job, and his worries are not unreasonable, even you yourself said so. Hehe, let's put it this way, your happiness is in your hands, the key is that you have to be good, the wealth, disease, poverty, nobility and so on of the fathers, we have no right to choose, so don't complain about your origin, now the questions raised by your parents are a little inappropriate, but the starting point is still for your good, you also have to understand, and I hope your boyfriend can understand, in this society, no money is absolutely impossible, sometimes you can't do things without a dollar, I hope you can do some work for your parents and boyfriend, they will be a family in the future, there is no need, the ancients said that they love the house and Wu, if they all love you, they should be able to understand you, understand you and support you.

Your parents still have to attend the banquet, and when the time comes, just pay attention to your words and deeds, and if you don't have your parents present at the wedding, it is estimated that you will not be happy, and it will be your lifelong regret.

As for going to their city to play, it shouldn't be a big problem, it's all a family, and you have to move around.

Hehe, I hope your boyfriend doesn't have a personal opinion, and if you love you, you should accept everything about you.

Hope you can handle it.

The banquet is like the two places upstairs that have opened a wine shop.

Hey, I think you should still communicate with both sides First of all, talk to your boyfriend Tell your parents to do this is also kind, maybe the method and ideas are a little biased, but the starting point is still hope that you are good, please forgive him, and then communicate with your parents, you have to be brave Don't be so cowardly, in the face of your own happiness, you can't let your parents' kindness ruin your happiness, explain it to your parents, but be tactful, don't talk too much when you get married, and give you some face, You should also firmly say that you are not with your boyfriend because of his family's economic conditions, so that parents don't always pay so much attention to that. Praise your boyfriend in front of your parents, and express your hardships and parents' hardships in front of your boyfriend. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will think about you, if he just thinks about himself, it also means that he is also very hypocritical, and before your parents meet your mother-in-law, you have to explain the characteristics of your parents to the old woman, tell not to take it to heart, but also have a psychological preparation, anyway, after marriage, you mainly live with your husband, this problem mainly depends on how you coordinate, and your boyfriend's sincerity to you.

Stupid, city A will hold a banquet, city B will hold a banquet, there is no need for two parents to run around (my family is like this), a marriage certificate, two wedding banquets on both sides of the relatives are invited separately. You and your boyfriend are in a similar situation to me and my girlfriend, my parents are both leaders, my girlfriend's parents are more than ten years older than my parents, and their careers before retirement are not very decent, that's how we discussed it (of course we got married early), and let the rest of the time to run in.

Everything can be communicated. There are some things that must be said to your face, don't leave them untold. Tell your mom and dad, tell your boyfriend, talk about your difficulties. Of course, you have to think carefully about how to say it, and don't say it but intensify the conflict.

Thank you for your interest.

Holding Tie Ruyi, he commanded everyone to drink in a chic manner, and the whole audience was amazed; The golden cups were full of wine, and they poured out and wet their clothes, and they said that they were not drunk in a thousand cups.

The words come out of Liu Han, a Wujin man in the Qing Dynasty, "Li Ke Yongzhi Wine and Liquor Tongfu" (see Xue Xianqian, ed. "Qing Jiaji First Edition" volume 5 at the end of the Qing Dynasty).

The original sentence of "Tie Ruyi" is "Jade Ruyi"; The original sentence of "upside down dripping" is "pouring dripping".Ruyi comes from India, and the original work is to scratch the rod (tickle) or to write down the text during the sermon for the purpose of forgetting. There are wood, bamboo, iron, about three feet long, the original door of the monk's house takes the auspiciousness of its name, made into the Ruyi inlaid with gold, silver or jade, the size is gradually smaller, the end is made of Ganoderma lucidum shape or heart shape, as a room decoration.

Conductor: Talk about planning, vision, and so on. Dignified:

Free and easy, uninhibited. Kimporo: A large, flat-shaped wine glass made of gold.

Dripping: The wine is full and overflows out of the glass. Oh, ho

They are all onomatopoeia that are added at the end of sentences when reading to strengthen the feelings of admiration. ......A trill, elongated tone, indicating a delay in the sound. These two sentences are Liu Han's description of Li Keyong in Tang Fan Town, dancing wildly, emptying wine glasses, practicing high-spirited, and forgetful scenes when he held a banquet in Tongtong, and the content has no merit.

The content of the gentleman's reading is punctuated, indicating that only the gentleman can read it, and the students will not be able to read it, which strongly proves that the school education is a dead book, and the students do not understand! Mr. Study, self-absorbed. "Tie Ruyi, the conductor is dignified, and he is shocked when he sits Kimporo, upside down and dripping, and a thousand cups are not drunk" from the Qing dynasty Liu Han's "Li Ke Yongjiu Sanzhui Gangfu" quotation The sound of the table fluctuates, and the continuous "噫", "ho" refers to the sound added at the end of the sentence when reading to strengthen the feelings, meaning:

Holding the iron Ruyi, commanding and gesturing, chic and free. Drink wine in a golden cup, dripping with pleasure, drinking a lot without getting drunk. However, the quoted sentence is slightly different from the original text:

Iron Ruyi" original "Jade Ruyi";"Upside down" original "pour". From here, we can see Mr. Shou Jingwu's self-reluctant emotions. He was so engrossed in his intoxication that he read the wrong words without realizing itJudging from the content, what is drunk by reading is not the so-called authentic poetry with elegant feelings, but the kind of modern poetry full of wild feelings.

From here, we can deeply feel the innocent character of Mr. Shou Jingwu who is an honest and honest intellectual who is devoted to Mongolian education and education, far away from officialdom. At the same time, according to the text, Mr. Shou "does not often use the precept ruler", "does not often have a rule of punishment for kneeling", and does not even have a tablet of Confucius, which also reflects his generosity, kindness and open-mindedness, and reflects his neglect and alienation from the "orthodox" feudal education to a certain extent. It also reflects the author, Mr. Lu Xun's understanding, criticism and emotion of the feudal education system.

Tie Ruyi, the commander is suave, and he is shocked when he sits down;Kimporo, upside down, a thousand cups of undrunk ......For the language, see Liu Han, a Wujin man of the Qing Dynasty, "Li Ke Yong Liquor Three Vertical Gang Fu", which is contained in the fifth volume of the "Qing Jiaji First Edition" edited by Wang Xianqian of the Qing Dynasty. "Tie Ruyi", the original text is "Jade Ruyi";"Upside down", the original text is "poured down". This Fu describes the situation of the warlord Li Keyong in the late Tang Dynasty who held a banquet to celebrate after conquering Xingzhou.

The meaning of these two sentences is: (Li Keyong) took the jade Ruyi, and commanded everyone to drink in a chic manner, and the whole audience was amazed;The golden cups were full of wine, and they poured out and wet their clothes, and they said that they were not drunk in a thousand cups. In the sentence, "what", "噫", and "ho" are the modal words added by Mr. when he reads it.

Indicates the tremor of the voice at the end of the gentleman's reading.

I'm just like you, too, 21

I didn't even go to college, let alone college.

Because I don't think that's going to work.

Well said.

Not satisfied with the status quo, and do you overestimate your own abilities?If you don't want to drive a taxi all your life, and you don't want to enter a state-owned unit, what do you have the conditions to learn and do? There is a kind of don't rely on your parents anymore, at most sell the taxi, use the money to start your own business as a small boss, do what you know most about the taxi business, for example, open a transportation company, or other industries, the capital is not enough and want to distinguish the law, is to test and prove that you have all the abilities you say, the ability is to have financial planning that knows how to do business, etc., another more insurance and parental care practice, you also sold a taxi, use the money to go to business with your parents, carry out various transactions, have their guidance, Direct and indirect support, and the so-called ability in your mouth, it should be easier to have results, of course, you really have the ability or do not need the support of your parents, as long as they serve as consultants, use their connections, etc., finally, I also hope that you will make up your mind as soon as possible to show your ability to your parents and our netizens, otherwise, we also feel sad and disappointed, 21-year-old man, should be encouraged and blessed?

Should you be self-aware? Is it time to accept that there is a possibility of failure?

After reading so much, I feel that you are an ambitious young man, and I feel that we both seem to have the same idea, and we both hope that we can do something that we think is good, instead of working under someone else!

I'm 22, a year older than you, and I've been working for 4 years. In the first year, I worked for someone else, and after working for a while, I may think that I have that ability, and I am going to go out and do something by myself.

But when I went out, I found that I was so small, although I did it myself, no one cared about it, but the real society is very dark, you will be swallowed up by the society casually, seize the opportunity now, I regret it now, It is right to have ideas, but it takes a lot of work, I hope you can choose your future path correctly!

Why are you so negative?

Life is not something that you can get tired of at all, and it just passes.

Little one, I have a few suggestions for you:

1.If you now have the capital and the certainty to make a move, give it a go.

But I don't recommend it. It's still young after all.

Isn't life a process of learning for the sake of living?

You're still young, it's normal for you to have this kind of thinking right now.

But you really fight.

Are you ready to go on your own?

Do you think you've really saved up your own capital for you to go out??

Do you think your experience of driving a taxi is enough for you to go out and break in??

I still support young people to go ahead.

But you alone ... To break through the capital.

ability, everyone has their own potential

You've been driving for so long, you've experienced a lot of things, you know a lot, don't underestimate yourself, do what you want to do

I support you

With an income of about 3,000 per month, his parents are in business, and his family conditions are good

After reading what you wrote, I guess you are still uneasy with the status quo, you want to go outside by yourself, you want to do a big career, it's good to have such an idea But if you look at people your age, there are a few who are only 21 years old and have a big career

It is recommended that you save money while driving by yourself and find a suitable project for yourself, and take your time to start small

3000 a month is not bad, hehe.

Come and do business, don't sell the car, ask someone at home to help you drive it, like Changsha Bai is collecting 180. Charge 120 yuan a day at night, and you have to work so your own.

Oh, it's good to do business, to Guangzhou, Shanghai all the way to sales, it's still quite good, or go abroad to see the situation first.

It's good to drive.

If you can get into a state unit, and you try to get a civil servant, then your salary will go up. Welfare is also good.

It's up to you, you're going to make a lot of money, and you feel like you don't know anything, how can you do it if you don't have some self-confidence??

A lot of people can enter the state unit to earn the company, but they can't get in. Work hard to make a good leadership relationship very quickly. I want to climb up.

I'm also 21 years old, and I'm doing sales now, and it's my first time in contact with this industry, but I don't think the only way out is to do business, maybe it's the influence you've been influenced by since childhood. It's perfectly fine to follow your parents' path, and it's not a good thing, and it's impossible to say that anyone is the boss of a big business all at once, unless his family is very rich.

According to what you think, get married at the age of 25, then you still have four years, and it is entirely possible to get married after the start of your career, there is no reason to think so much.

Everyone's life is different, the key depends on how you go, whether you have confidence in the future. If you feel that you are slim, then look for sunshine to go, don't give up because you will know less, no one will know everything from the beginning, there are opportunities.

It's normal to be confused in life. But believe that the way is made by man. How many years can you live in a lifetime, if you have the courage, just give it a fight!

If you win, then your life will be full of sunshine. It doesn't matter if you lose, you won't regret that you don't have courage when you're old. In fact, whether we win or lose, we can use courage to prove the meaning of our existence.

Personally, I'm also very confused and don't know how to tell you what I think.

good luck for you！

Keep an eye out for some small private businesses and work for private bosses, starting as a driver, you will learn a lot, and there may be unexpected opportunities for you to show.

Believe you'll have a drink?

Of course, after drinking, you have to take a taxi back.

Just drive! What's up! I'm driving!

Keep driving -- 25 year old with a child.

It seems that you are more annoying than me, you are over 20 years old, and you are still in the college entrance examination, and you are connected with the same disease.