What should I do if my boyfriend hasn t been to work for half a year, but he dislikes my low salary?

Send you two words, break up! What are such unmotivated people doing together? As a man who is lazy and dislikes his girlfriend, this kind of man is a waste.

It's better for such a boyfriend to separate early, and he doesn't make money and dislikes your low salary, what kind of person is this, find a good boyfriend who loves you separately.

This kind of man has no ability, so he will pick on your thorns. Obviously for people who don't have responsibility. Willing to be poor, he didn't embarrass you, worked hard to give you a good life, and disliked you a lot.

You should stay away from this kind of man and stop the loss in time. If you really don't want to leave him, even if he doesn't support you and picks you to stab you, you can bear it, you just accept his shortcomings, and you have to accept the possibility of him getting worse. Think about it!

Of course, it's best if you can communicate well and let him work, and you can also improve your ability to find a job with a higher salary.

I don't think he dislikes your low salary, but he thinks that you can find a job with a higher salary with your ability, and he should recognize your ability. But now you have to look at the actual situation, if the economic foundation is still unstable, don't quit your job lightly for now, and wait for some money to save before thinking about it. If you have a better opportunity, you can give full play to your talents, and if you are competent, you can challenge it.

Your boyfriend hasn't been to work for half a year, what's the reason? Did you not find the right job or didn't look for one? You have to encourage him to find a job, it is more difficult for you to work alone, and you should work together together.

If your boyfriend is looking for a job, but he hasn't found a suitable job, you should encourage and comfort him, because he must be a little lost in his own heart, and he especially needs the care of the people around him at this time. There is nothing difficult in the world, as long as there are people who have a heart, I believe that you can work together and walk hand in hand, you can overcome difficulties and meet a better tomorrow.

When you go to your class, don't pay attention to him, and don't give him money to spend, to see how long he can be idle.

The scum of society like this. The moths of society. How can you still be with him? Not self-motivated at all. I think how far away he is.

Break up, this kind of boyfriend is not motivated at all, and he doesn't care about you, dislikes you, is not worth dating, and must understand each other and help each other.

Do you still need to ask, of course, it's a change of boyfriend, don't go to work for half a year, sleep every day, and you still want to support others after you get married.

Thank you for your question!

For such a man, the best way is to break up! Because, there are only two words in them - vanity! I can't be high or low, I'm idle, but I look down on the other party's work! Just ask, how can they laugh at others?

All the pickiness of others can only prove one thing, and that is their own incompetence!

The author believes that if you separate as soon as possible, you would rather live alone than wronged yourself. Thank you!

Your boyfriend doesn't go to work, and he dislikes your low salary, you don't break up with such a boyfriend and keep it for the New Year, men can earn less than women, but at least you have to support yourself, otherwise you won't be able to live long when you get married and eat at home in the future.

Boyfriend himself didn't go to work for half a year, but he dislikes your low salary, this kind of boyfriend is not responsible and responsible, big money can't be earned, small money can't be seen, your boyfriend is not unable to find a job, but afraid of hardship and tiredness, therefore, such a boyfriend is not worth entrusting for life, he is not married He dislikes your low salary, what else can your boyfriend give you after you get married, it is not possible to give you the happiness you want, it is estimated that he has not worked for half a year, and all he spends is your money, It's not worth it for you to endure hardships and raise a boyfriend who doesn't know how to be grateful, and you should make a new choice.

In this case, this man is a person with no sense of responsibility, he doesn't go to work, and he thinks your salary is low, this name is irresponsible, he is a pleasure type, and he has no ambition like this, or leave him.

Let him get out, what else do such people get along? There are many men all over the world. Even if you are a friend, you have to interact with someone who is with you, your so-called boyfriend, no matter whether you go to work or not, how much money you make, you can't dislike the object, this is the problem of character, not to mention that you haven't gone to work yet, two people are together, although money is an important factor, life is inseparable, but emotional love is too much more important than money, if you dislike each other because of money, money is more important than feelings, such two people will definitely not go long.

Your boyfriend hasn't been to work for half a year, it's all up to you to work, and he dislikes your low salary, as a man, you should take on the responsibility of supporting your family, you don't want to do anything else except play and sleep at home all day long, such a man advises you to leave him early, he can't give you the life you want, and he can't give you happiness.

I don't think your boyfriend thinks this way, it's disrespectful to you. Being a boyfriend should be up to the sky. Find yourself a good job.

Self-reliance. And think your salary is low. I feel like it's a bit unearned.

Not enterprising, not self-motivated. You have to persuade him to find a job. And think about it.

What is the relationship between you and your boyfriend? I don't think such people can be trusted, and they don't have a sense of responsibility and responsibility.

Do I think you're a fool? Do you need to ask such a simple question? This kind of scumbag doesn't do it himself, and he dislikes others, I think that a man who doesn't act personally is not a person at all, and you don't want to break up with him quickly. Are you waiting for this half of your life to suffer with him?

There's nothing strange about that, I think it means that the two of you are together, maybe the relationship has become something else. It will also cause two people to dislike each other. I think your feelings have reached a crisis.

If you can't tolerate and understand each other, you have to break up and the day of breakup is very close.

I think if your job is not particularly stable and the salary is not very high, then he wants you to find a more stable and higher salary, if it is from this starting point, I think the idea is very good, after all, he hopes that we can become better, so that it will be of great help to the future life. After all, people go high and water flows low, and no one doesn't want to be able to make a little more money, so life will be less stressful.

But if he just blindly hits you and asks you, then I think one of his starting points is very questionable. And I think he will hit you directly because of some other things in normal times? Then it's hard for me to imagine what a mode of getting along between you is, because I think as a person, you have your own right to judge, whether it's a lover or a friend, you can only give you a suggestion, and you can't directly decide what to decide.

I think you have to communicate well, and then if you really don't like to change jobs, and you like your current environment, then there is no need to force yourself, after all, everyone is an independent individual, our life should be decided by us, and we can't say that we listen to other people's arrangements. I think if he even has to interfere with you at work, then he will definitely interfere with your affairs often in life, and you need to do what he asks, then I think this is really tiring.

In fact, I think that whether it is a boy or a girl, you must be independent and have your own. The method must not be the same as others, and you must not deny yourself because others think you are so bad. If we have something bad we must correct, but if it is just because others don't like it, then there is no need to force it.

Because if we listen to others in everything, we will lose ourselves.

You can communicate well with your boyfriend, and you should also tell your boyfriend that you like your current job very much, so that he should not have such thoughts.

You should take a look at what your boyfriend's job really is, every job is not high or low, and every job is money that we have worked hard to earn. You don't need to change your job because of other people's opinions, as long as you like your job.

If this happens, you can break up with the other person because they are very unhappy with you, and it is also an excuse.

The salary gap between couples will affect the relationship and life of two people to a certain extent. It is mainly reflected in the following aspects:

1.Self-esteem is affected. Salary represents a certain level of ability and value, and the lower salary may have a sense of impaired self-esteem, while the other party may also have a certain sense of superiority as a result, which can affect the equality of feelings.

2.Lifestyle differences. Differing levels of salary mean that it is difficult to agree on lifestyles such as consumption, entertainment, and travel, which can become an obstacle to emotional communication and affect the common experience between the two people.

3.Tendency to economic dependence. The lower salary side may have a certain tendency to become financially dependent, while the higher paid side will also have a sense of dependence. This can also undermine the equality of the two in the relationship.

4.Uneven sharing of responsibilities. It is difficult for the two to reach a fair balance in the responsibility of family expenses and other financial responsibilities, which will cause certain grievances or complaints, and affect the harmony of life.

5.Divergent plans for the future. Salary represents a certain career development potential, and it is difficult for two people to agree on future career planning, further education, real estate investment, etc., which will lay hidden dangers for long-term development.

Of course, the relationship between couples does not change solely on the basis of salary. The stability of the relationship is mainly determined by the emotional foundation, trust, communication ability and problem-solving ability of both parties. The salary gap is only one of the more objective factors.

Therefore, the two need to make the necessary compromises and adjustments in terms of lifestyle, financial responsibility, and long-term planning. In particular, more efforts should be made in communication to promote understanding and prevent disparities from triggering bias. Only by doing so can the pay gap not become a real threat to feelings.

In short, the appropriate salary gap will not necessarily cause a relationship breakdown, but it will become a place where two people need more run-in in their lives and relationships. This requires the two sides to make adjustments in economic practice and ideological cognition, and in particular, to make greater efforts to enhance mutual understanding and understanding. Only then is it possible for the really important emotional factor to prevail.

Money is at most an external touchstone, and the depth of feelings depends on the heart.