How do I ask a friend why they don t reply to messages?

You can ask this question according to the actual situation, but no matter how you get the answer to this question, one thing you have to do is to be tactful, even if it is your best friend.

You also have to pay attention to the way to deal with this problem, the reason why the other party does not respond to your message you have to consider what the reason is, if you really have something important to find the other party, then the message does not reply to choose to call ** to solve.

If you don't reply to your messages, it may be because you are busy with things in your work and life, and you are ready to reply to your messages when things are over; It may be because I saw your message at the time, was delayed by an incident, and then forgot to reply to you.

It is possible that the other party thinks that the question you asked or that you are looking for him (her) has nothing important, and he (she) thinks that 2 does not matter, and there is no need to reply to you, and then he does not reply to your message; Or maybe it's because you don't think well, the other party just doesn't want to reply to your messages, and feels that chatting with you is very difficult and hurts their brain cells.

Just ignore you.

But no matter what, in response to this problem, you must want to know the reason, why the other party did not reply to your message, at this time you can choose a more tactful way to ask the other party, this will test your emotional intelligence, you can neither make others feel disgusted, but also can not make others feel as if you are questioning him.

You can first ask the other party if there is something busy, if there is something to do, please reply to my message when the time is over, or to ask the other party if there is something he has not done well or some other reason not to reply to the message, no matter what, what you need to do is to be tactful, not too straightforward.

Well, I think this incident is one of the more embarrassing things in our daily lives, because we often encounter this kind of thing, and we want to know the reason but don't know how to say it. Sometimes it hurts.

Staring at the phone and waiting for a reply).

Sometimes, when chatting, the other party will suddenly not reply to you, obviously just chatted well, one thing has not been said completely, the other party has disappeared before the result of the discussion has not been released, to be honest, this feeling is very bad, uncomfortable, as if there is a feeling of being ignored and not valued,. Then after this kind of thing happens, we will make up our own crazy brains, thinking about why the other party doesn't reply to us, whether it is intentional or not, whether the other party doesn't like to chat with us, and even, if the other party is someone you care about very much, you will also reflect on whether you just said something that shouldn't be said to make the other party angry, and then he ignores you, but this kind of thing often ends up thinking too much about yourself, don't be too fragile.

Staring at the phone and waiting for a reply).

If you ask, I don't think it's too straightforward. My own words,I will often encounter this situation.,But generally the other party doesn't reply to me for a period of time.,I'll reply with an expression.,Similar to someone there?,This can be compared (as follows)A good way to resolve the embarrassment.,Because if the other party forgets to reply to you, it's also possible.,My friend often forgets to press send after the dialog box is finished and thinks he's back.,Just do something else.,I myself sometimes will.,So this method I said is a good method.。

In addition, you can ask appropriately after the other party comes back: "What did you do just now" with a little more tone words, don't make yourself very serious because of a little thing. Everyone is a friend, and it's nothing to say.

Finally, don't go crazy and make up some things that don't exist, it's better to ask yourself.

Anyway, I really hate this feeling of sending messages to others and not replying. It's better if you simply don't reply, but if you don't reply to the message, but you have a new dynamic, send a circle of friends or QQ, it's a bit too much. I care a lot about this, your attitude towards me, then I can only respond to you with this attitude.

As for how to ask him why, do you want me to say that it is necessary to ask? It's okay if he says it nicely, but if he doesn't say it well and doesn't care about your feelings, it's not boring. <>

I've had times when people didn't reply to my messages. I chatted with a friend of mine who had a particularly good relationship with WeChat.,He didn't pay attention to me when I talked to him.,I don't know what he's doing.,I really thought he was doing something.,Later,I found out that he just published a dynamic in the QQ space.,And it's ** some irrelevant dynamics.,Therefore,I'm sure he must have played with his mobile phone during this time.,But I just didn't pay attention to it.。 I don't know exactly why, and I don't want to know.

If you have to ask why you don't reply to messages, I think it's better to just ask, just tell him directly, why don't you reply to my messages? Didn't see what I said? And then depending on what he says, if he says he's really busy and doesn't bother looking at his phone, that's understandable, of course, but if he says he has too many messages and can't reply or something, it's a bit of a stretch.

Therefore, since this person is a friend, then there is no need to move some useless thoughts, it is the best way to directly and calmly relate to each other, just ask directly if you want to know something, and you don't need to use some indirect methods, which will also seem very awkward.

In today's era, communication is very developed, chatting with friends is a matter of minutes, as long as friends are willing to tell us their WeChat or QQ number can contact each other, there is no need to communicate face-to-face with friends, communication makes our contact with the close home, at this time we will have a lot of people through such convenience to find us, we are bored when we chat with friends is also a common thing, but embarrassing things will always happen, It's that friends don't reply to our messages, although we know that friends may just haven't read WeChat for a while, we still can't help but want to ask our friends why they don't reply to their messages, what should we do at this time?

There are two situations in which friends won't message, the first is that they were busy at the time and didn't have time to reply, and the second is that they can't reply to their friends at all. Let's talk about the first situation first, this kind of situation can only happen to very good friends, this kind of friend is the person we often contact, we also know that friends need to work, and they don't look at their phones all the time, and it is understandable that friends don't reply to our WeChat at that time, and we can understand the reason why friends won't message.

The second situation is that the friend doesn't want to reply to him at all, so how do we know why the friend doesn't reply? Friends don't reply maybe we did something to make our friends angry and cause friends not to reply, then we can ask the reason through friends who also know friends, because friends have ignored us, and it's not good to continue to bother, we can only know the reason from the side, and after knowing the reason, we will understand why our friends don't reply to our messages.

But for this problem, I really don't know how to go, although I don't have a lot of friends, but I haven't encountered a situation where a friend suddenly doesn't reply to the message! Although there may be many possibilities, but if it is said that it is suddenly not to reply to the message, it should mainly lie in us, maybe your joke will poke the other party's heart, maybe you think it is just a joke, but the speaker has no intention of listening to the intention, so that others will not reply to the message!

If it's a good friend and doesn't reply to the message occasionally, it may be that you are busy with other things, or the network is not good, if you are in a hurry, you can call ** greetings. If you don't answer the message and don't reply to the message, you will ask others if something is wrong! Ha ha!

The next time we meet, ask directly, it's also a way.

I never take the initiative to send messages to others, an independent person is not so dependent on others, if you have to ask why others don't reply to you, you might as well ask yourself why others don't reply to you. Why did I get back to you? I'm like this, no matter my brothers and friends, the kind of people who haven't been in touch for a while, they come to me and ask for a ** number, what nonsense that the phone is broken without your number, I won't pay attention to it, because you deleted me, don't want to come back, play ** and chat WeChat, you WeChat has nothing to talk to me, I** I don't want to tell you, if you have the ability, let me take the initiative to find you.

When a person's mobile phone is broken, there are usually several situations, one, clockwork dynamics, saying that the mobile phone is broken. Second, clockwork dynamics, bought a new phone. Third, now the number is usually stored on the WeChat business card, or in the mobile phone card.

Once, I suddenly called ** to a friend, and he asked me later, are you using this number? Until one time, he called, I said Mandarin, Fei, you speak Mandarin to me? I said well, get used to it.

In this way, we are not around each other, and when we see each other, we will shush and ask for warmth, and then we will leave. You don't save my number, you don't value me, I deleted your number, I gave up on you, when you call ** to have something, it has nothing to do with me. In life, details and abilities determine your success or failure, when you are weak, you will be on the side of others, when you are strong, keep your bottom line.

The other party doesn't reply to you, and in my opinion, she definitely didn't mean to.

Since they are friends, such a trivial matter is not a trivial matter.

Don't be cranky, maybe it's because your friend is busy that he didn't reply to your message.

You're just not doing it well because you don't see your teeth properly.

There is no conflict of interest, and there is no question of friends ignoring him.

Wait, I think my friend will get back to you.

Sometimes it's really expensive to think too much.

Close friends, then you can directly call ** to ask if something happened. Friends with average relationships, if it's not a very important thing, you have to rest assured, everyone has their own things to do, just calm down.

Let's see it later, do you think that's okay?

Ask why you are so serious [left covering face].

Friend if he doesn't reply to the message. It's possible that they didn't see your message. It's also possible that you don't want to reply to your messages.

First, you have to figure out why your girlfriend is so slow to reply to your messages. The reason why she refuses to reply to your messages is very important because she is angry with you. You must have accidentally her off and upset her.

She's playing tricks. She's testing you. She deliberately didn't reply to your message to see if you could calm down.

If it's your fault, then you should take the initiative to admit your mistake to your girlfriend in a timely manner. Your attitude of admitting your mistakes must be sincere. You have to make sure that your girlfriend can forgive you.

Secondly, if your girlfriend still refuses to reply to your messages after you apologize seriously, what should you do? Instead of sitting back and waiting for death, you should take the initiative to find her. You can ask her family, ask her girlfriends, ask her colleagues.

Ask the people around her and let them tell you what she's hiding. There are some questions that you may not be able to communicate in the message or **. Only by finding a way to find her and communicate with her face-to-face can your problems be solved.

You might as well calm down for a while. Since she's angry, don't keep pushing her to reply to your messages or asking her for an answer. You can wait until she's angry, and then you can go back to her.

Some things are impatient.

Look at something. If it's really all important, you can play again. But there is a problem, if you don't reply often, I think it's better to send fewer messages in the future.

If your friend doesn't reply to your message, it may be that he is busy at this time, she doesn't have time to read the message, and he will definitely reply to your message when he is free, if he doesn't reply to your message after a long time, then you call ** to ask her, what's wrong?

Without her, she may be very busy with things, busy with some more important things, and did not notice this little thing, which affected the development of this matter, only in this case, understand and understand the development of this matter is like this.

It's only one day, after all, some people are really busy, so don't worry too much about this situation, maybe you are more sensitive, and you think that he may be deliberately not replying to you, in fact, sometimes there is really something to not reply, just want to open a little.

Could it be that she's busy? Or maybe something else is delayed. Or maybe she expects to go with you but you release the pigeons, a little angry. Of course, it's all speculation, so you might as well contact us and ask.

This situation is generally inconvenient for the other party to reply to the message, if this is not the case, it depends on whether something unpleasant happens between you.