What do you think it s like to reach middle age?

It's hard to accept, think about the fact that the former self no longer exists, and the current self is just an ordinary middle-aged person. Fortunately, I have a certain amount of savings and can plan for my future. I think people are the most melancholy when they reach middle age, with old parents on top and children on the small side.

It is necessary to pay attention to the healthy life of the elderly, and also worry about the career and marriage of children. Some time ago, my son just got married, and it was on my mind. Only parents can understand the difficulty of raising a child, and the hard work and tears paid to give him a child.

Sometimes I think that this person is like a candle, constantly burning itself, and when the oil runs out and the lamp dries up, it is the time for oneself to be freed.

Middle age is a person's hurdle, and it's good to step on it, but it's really painful before you lift your feet. I feel that the money I have earned in my life is not enough, looking at my children who are waiting to be fed, and parents who are in need of help, I sometimes feel powerless, but there is no way, since I am alive, I have to grit my teeth and move forward. It's good to get through it.

In the family, middle-aged people have parents and children, and they enjoy the joy of family in the world, and the mood is very happy. Every day when I return home, the family gathers together to eat, chat, and have fun! At this time, I only hope that the parents will be healthy, the children will grow up happily, and the family will be harmonious.

The mood at this time is very happy and pleasant.

I think middle-aged people are very good, in their careers, they have experienced the baptism of youth, middle-aged people are more stable and mature, and they have accumulated enough experience in their careers and have a certain economic foundation. At work, he will be the mainstay of the unit or a technical elite; or starting their own business has also achieved certain success. Receiving people and things is also calm and calm, less manic and impulsive of young people.

These make middle-aged people have a sense of accomplishment and work harder to start a business, although it is hard, but it is very fulfilling and satisfying.

I think middle age is a stable age. I can make myself a cup of tea, sit down for a while, watch the news, and listen to the radio. Go to work will not be so fixed, three points and one line, and come back from work to do something you like.

It's actually pretty good. There isn't so much sentimentality, don't ask too many things, just be calm.

With the passage of time, the hair is thinning day by day, the gray hair is increasing, and the grade lines are also climbing on the forehead, and he suddenly enters middle age. Time is like an arrow, the sun and the moon are like a shuttle, the years are ruthless, just entering middle age, old and young, and their bodies are also going downhill, I really feel a little overwhelmed and lost. It is often said that when people reach middle age, everything is off, and it is really a bit sad.

But at the same time, middle-aged people should have a positive attitude to face life, such as the ancient poem: since ancient times, autumn is sad and lonely, I say that autumn is better than spring. As soon as the cranes line the clouds in the clear sky, it will lead poetry to the blue sky.

Face life bravely, live happily, work hard, maintain a good attitude, and be the best version of yourself.

It's a mixed feeling. I am 53 years old, so I can say that I have entered old age. I am in pain from the estrangement with my children.

Seeing myself helpless because of some of my incomprehension, I was actually sad. When I was young, I took her hand and talked to her, and she always listened carefully. And now hardly listen.

The good old days of youth are now gone. My life now is to be cautious, peaceful, and try not to cause trouble to my children. That's probably why I'm getting dumber and less able to communicate.

The weather in September, everything is still the same as summer, but the wind that blows is autumn. Like the thirties of life, everything is still young, but there are traps of time everywhere, which catches people off guard. When I was in September last year, I felt the mid-life crisis for the first time, maybe we are all unconsciously pushed by time, when the years remind us in its way, in fact, we have already gone for a long time, so we will always sigh, young is good, yesterday is good, but never forget, today, at this moment, is the youngest day in the rest of your life, all middle-aged, old age, but the definition of years, your heart, your courage, your action, your body, can always be young, To be alive is to be moving, not to be limited by too many things.

When you reach middle age, you will feel that your physical condition is getting worse and worse, and you are no longer as full of vigor and youthful vitality as when you were young, and you often feel powerless to do things. If you encounter an elderly person in your family who is sick all year round and needs to go to the hospital often, you will sigh that life is really too short. Isn't it a bit sad to get old without doing anything?

But there are also a lot of good feelings. You will often recall funny things from your childhood, the stupid things you did when you were rebellious in your teens. The decades-long friendship between colleagues at work is a huge wealth that you have accumulated in middle age, which should be a good feeling for middle age.

Stressed, confused, lonely. When I was young, I only knew how to struggle, and when I reached middle age, everyone already had their own career, and the middle-aged people of Tachibana were the backbone of the company, with experience and ability, but they were also under tremendous pressure. The competition of peers, the young waves are eyeing each other, and their own energy is declining, is the career reaching the ceiling?

It's the biggest pressure for middle-aged people**.

Middle-aged people, who have experienced the ups and downs of life, have seen the prosperity and loneliness of the world, the simple and beautiful imagination of youth has long been ruthlessly shattered, and the life values in their hearts have long been full of holes.

Middle-aged people are busy with work, entertainment, parents, children, and lovers, but they lack time to face themselves. It's hard to imagine how lonely a middle-aged person who is busy with their career and family every day can feel lonely. The reason why some people are busy is that they are afraid that they will be idle, so that they will fill their time with frequent socializing and trivial daily routines, so that they will not have time to face their hearts alone.

I like to be stupid and say goodbye to the pink, with Hongming.

Uncle 75 years. There are the following feelings:1:

I feel that when I am about 30 years old, I feel the happiest at my best. The income is enough to cope with life, love is nourished, and there are surprises and new discoveries everywhere you go. Don't let yourself down, don't live up to the time.

2: The 15 years between 25 and 40 years old is the time period when you have to do your best in life. Set a goal that is slightly beyond what you can achieve and push yourself to work hard.

Without a goal, it is easy for people to slack off and forgive themselves. Mastering the method and continuous learning to improve yourself is the most important thing. Time is not to be disappointed!

3: Family affection is irreplaceable. Accompany the growth of his wife and children, and make himself happy with every bit of progress of his children.

Get together with your parents, have a drink with your dad, and reminisce about the past. The affection and sense of responsibility for the family are so thick and warm! 4:

Financially free, not much pressure. But I continue to make progress at work, and I feel more and more that work is a kind of cultivation. The book "Dry Law" had a great influence on me.

5: Gradually pay attention to social issues, such as housing prices, educational equity, religion and ethnicity. Do what you can to influence these issues for the better.

6: I am still angry in my heart, but I look at problems more rationally and deeply.

I'm 29 years old this year, an age that doesn't seem to be relevant to this answer. In fact, I am also a father of two children, and the son of aging parents. I feel that the first 29 years of life have come over in this way, and some relatives of the previous generation have left this world one after another in recent years, because I worked and lived in other places and did not return to my hometown to attend their funerals, so I am always aware of the passage of life and time.

When I was a child, they could drink and eat meat, and they could play cards and chat all night. Now some of them are faltering, and some of them have been buried in the ground for a long time. Time is cruel, and even if I deny it, I'm following their path little by little towards the place where everyone is going.

I hope that time will slow down, so that I can still be the little son in the eyes of my parents, a young man in the eyes of my colleagues in the company, and a teenager in my own eyes.

There are still two months to 31 years old, and today there is a sudden feeling that a person is middle-aged. A baby, two suites, 2w4 monthly repayment from next month, 150w in foreign debt, new house in renovation, expected 20w, electric car number expires at the end of the year, you have to buy a car. These are okay, stressful, but bearable.

Today, I took my mother to have a physical examination with my unit, and I happened to be in it when I did breast ultrasound, and I heard the doctor say that there was a mass, the boundary was not clear, and the burr sign was signed, and then I was told that I wanted to go to the hospital for a reexamination. I quickly contacted the experts of the cancer hospital and went for an examination next Wednesday, expecting a false alarm. I feel that I am a little anxious to buy a school district house (the child is 2 years old), the leverage is a bit large, the family's ability to resist risks is poor, and I deeply feel the powerlessness of people in middle age.

In another three months I will be thirty and feel like an adult at this moment. In his twenties, who had experienced chaos, he knew what he wanted and what he didn't want. Single, unmarried, and childless, very free.

You can learn whatever you want, you can travel if you want, you don't have to think about anything at all, you want to be the person you want to be, and you want to want to keep learning. When I was in my twenties, I felt that I was going to get married and have children, this is the perfect life. I feel like there are many ways to live now, and indeed, I like who I am now.

Middle-aged, never felt. I don't care about age, I just want to have a good day.

In the past, a bucket of pure water was carried to the fifth floor in one breath without taking a breath, but now the body can no longer hold it when it is carried to the first floor.

As the old saying goes, I didn't understand it until I reached thirty in a trance, and I didn't understand that standing at thirty does not mean that people "stand" when they reach thirty, but that people have to stand when they reach thirty. When he was twenty years old, he was in love, talking about ideals, and feeling that the world was his own every day. It's really in the thirties that there are old and young, the career is not up or down, and the family is busy and chaotic, so I feel that people are difficult in middle age.

My wife is irritable at work, the baby is unwell, the boss has a new idea, my wife and wife are unhappy again, and so on, and so on, when I was young, I disdain trivial things, and now everything gives me a headache. Ask me what is the experience of middle age? The experience may be to endure loneliness and loneliness.

When you feel aggrieved, go with it, laugh a few times when you're happy, that's all.

When people reach middle age, many people have their own crises. I'm 31 years old, I've been working for 8 years, and I feel like I'm still a very young kid, and my colleagues around me are also very young. But I entered a midlife crisis and didn't want to go home, I didn't want to go home.

What do you do back home? I always feel lonely, I don't know who to say to have something to say, some things to say, and some things in my heart. It's loneliness!

Loneliness in the heart!

It will become greasy, lose hair, face baldness, grow a beer belly, dull the brain, and develop in a direction that you didn't like at the beginning.

I just turned 30, and when I graduated with a master's degree, I really felt that I could be fierce forever and nothing could hammer me, as Wang Xiaobo said. After that, slowly get hammered and slowly understand life and yourself. Now, seven years later, working hard, changing houses and having babies, and improving the quality of family life Before improving my own quality of life, I have gradually stopped playing football after 20 years, and I exercise in the most time-saving way:

Jogging. To sum up the middle-aged experience, it is:1

No longer live for yourself, but for the whole family. 2.For people with ordinary families, they should stay in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen.

3.There is nothing that cannot be solved by 10 km, and if there is, then 20 km. 4.

No hurry, no fear, no shame.

** of the loess are buried.

The feeling of middle age is the eternal state of mind, and people who are middle age often wake up suddenly and do something they originally wanted to do but didn't have time to do. Only when people are middle-aged can they truly know themselves, own themselves, appreciate themselves, and accept themselves. It is only in middle age that people learn to seek peace of mind and pleasure from religion.

Know how to comfort yourself and light a lamp of hope for yourself. When people are middle-aged, they understand that what they want to change in their lives is not anything else, but themselves. The things that have been pursued all my life are like natural flowing water, so my heart is as calm as water, quiet and far-reaching.

When people live in middle age, they begin to understand that aging does not begin in middle age, but begins with boredom with life. ‍‍

It is particularly calm and calm, and it is also the stage with the strongest sense of happiness. Although there are not many materials, contentment is always happy. When the children are older, they have their own space, they can pick up the hobbies of their youth, have time to travel with friends, and relax.

At this stage, it is basically the mainstay of the unit, and the business tends to be basically stable. There are not many ambitions left, I won't put much pressure on myself anymore, do what I need to do well, don't force it, and do my best. When people reach middle age, various minor physical problems appear, and they begin to pay attention to health preservation and health. ‍‍