My girlfriend and I are about to break up, how can I get it back?

I think if you still love your girlfriend and want to continue the relationship, then it is necessary to redeem it, but I think it is also necessary to do your best.

If you just quarrel, it's actually very simple, there is no couple who doesn't quarrel, but the quarrel is serious enough to break up, then it means that the contradiction between you is quite big, so if you don't completely solve the contradiction, the problem between you will only get bigger and bigger, then the breakup is also a doomed ending.

So be sure to solve the contradiction between you, you can not quarrel first, both of you calm down and think about the contradiction of the quarrel, see if it can be resolved peacefully, if you can analyze who is right and who is wrong, then communicate well, admit your mistake, if it is your fault, you must apologize, and show your sincerity, after all, you must have quarreled very fiercely before, it will inevitably affect some feelings, so at this time, you need to double your sincerity, double your apology, to try to redeem it. If it's your girlfriend's fault, reason with her and see if you can solve the problem.

But if neither of the two people's problems is willing to take a step back and really can't solve it, then even if you love her again, I don't think it's better to continue, because this will only exhaust all the last love, because it really can't be talked about, and in the end it will still collapse, so it's better to let go early and get rid of it as soon as possible.

All in all, I think we can be together when we can be together, understand and tolerate each other, if you can't, don't get along reluctantly, this will only be endless quarrels, and in the end it will be difficult to escape the end of breaking up!

Also as a boy, who can not have such an experience, it must be inevitable to make trouble, and it will be a more frequent thing, if it is said that it is irretrievable because of a little awkwardness, and finally leads to the separation of two people, in my opinion, it is really undeserved, and it is also because you are too intolerant. It's not easy for the two to be together, it's not that they have to live in silence because of this, they can only say that they hope that the reasons for the final breakup of the two people can be reasonable, and it should be some big things that can't be solved that can't be explained. <>

When I was a freshman, the two of us had just returned home from school after the May Day holiday. Originally, I thought it was very good at the beginning, and the arrangement was good. However, I didn't expect that there would be so many people during the peak return period on May Day, and there were no more people standing in the compound of our passenger station there, so even if it was our turn to queue, we would be mistaken.

So, we had to change our strategy.

At this time, I met a junior high school classmate of mine, who was also a girl, and then our parents discussed whether it would be okay to go to Didi, my parents and the parents of that classmate agreed, thinking that my girlfriend also had no opinion, who thought that she not only disagreed, but gave me sex in front of my sister and lost her temper. I couldn't stand it anymore and almost broke up.

There are many, many situations like this, and there have been several times when we were about to break up, but because we missed the old relationship and couldn't bear to say the breakup, the two of us persevered until now, and the feeling now is still the same as at the beginning, and it has not changed because of the awkwardness. Therefore, don't say the breakup easily, otherwise it will be too late to regret it in the end.

You should look for a suitable opportunity, communicate and exchange well, find the root of the conflict, and then solve the problem, it is not easy for two people to come together, you must cherish this relationship, and do not break up as a last resort.

Find a time to sit down with your girlfriend and have a good talk. Since the two have been together for so many years, they must have deep feelings, and there is no need to break up on impulse. You can also buy a thing that your girlfriend likes and give it to her.

Then you sit together and ** life. You should also pay attention to it, don't do things that your girlfriend doesn't like, and don't play games or do other things often, and spend more time with your girlfriend.

Then the two of them sit down calmly and have a good talk, find the problem, and if they can solve it, they will be together, if not, they will get together and disperse!

You should be humble, you should be generous as a man, and don't always embarrass a woman.