Between me and my boyfriend, is he sincere?

You lack understanding, that's for sure.

I think the head of state is busy, and he will also give his wife a ** every day, busy is not a reason, a ** does not need a few hours!

There is a big difference between falling in love at school and falling in love in society, and the boyfriend and girlfriend you meet after work often think more about practical things, many people who fall in love after work say"I feel that the other party can't figure it out".

Waiting for you in the heavy rain, saving money to buy you a birthday gift with a hungry stomach, and picking up your happy place in a circle regardless of the eyes of the people around you, such love will not be found after graduation.

My sister is an older girl, and the boyfriends she met after work always didn't give her the full side of honesty. I know this kind of person very well.

To put it bluntly: your boyfriend doesn't give you the initiative to call **, which means that he doesn't care about you so much, and he denies that he doesn't like you, because he still wants to get along with you, in order to continue to understand you. Keep your distance, not far :

He has no choice without you, not close: in order to not be too difficult to break up once the long-term relationship is not suitable.

You don't like or dislike this situation, it's a kind of commercial love, or don't blame him, maybe his long-term living environment has created his habits, for you must have thought it through and followed his rules? Or is it a reflection of your own personality? Hehe, take it for yourself, sometimes it's better to make a decision than to wait.

The two get along very happily and dangerously, love is a double-edged knife!

There is a lot of competition in society these days, especially for men. Give him space, let him break in, when he is tired and injured, you are his safe haven. If you want too much time, things will be reversed, you need to understand, you can't fly, if the two love is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight!

Rest assured! He loves you, a career-minded man is the loveliest and safest, love him with your love! He will feel it, your love will be reciprocated, go for it! Firm faith!

Actually, don't deliberately try to verify anything.

If he really loves you.

will care about you in particular.

If he doesn't like you. It won't be with you.

There may be another reason.

Observe him from a distance first, see his reaction, if he is a little irritable, it means that he cares about you, if he is calm, this kind of person is gone. Why fall in love with someone who doesn't love you?

Don't be separated for too long, really, it's easy to break up.

If you say that he is reluctant to break up, it is probably sincere.

Send you a few words:

Be careful with the 10,000-year-old ship.

Summary. Hello dear, he means he has a lot of facets. It's just that it's different from what you show in front of you, and it's not quite the same as someone else's.

It's possible that his heart isn't on your side. Instead, he hides his heart in the depths and doesn't show it to you, maybe you haven't reached the point where he likes it very much, so he doesn't dare to show you his true self, show you for fear that you will leave him, and afraid that your feelings will not be able to withstand the torture. That's why he's going to say it.

My boyfriend said that he who was with me was not his true self.

Hello dear, he means he has a lot of facets. It's just that it's different from what you show in front of you, and it's not quite the same as someone else's. It's possible that his heart isn't on your side.

Instead, he hides his heart in the depths and doesn't show it to you, maybe you haven't reached the point where he likes it very much, so he doesn't dare to show you his true self, show you for fear that you will leave him, and afraid that your feelings will not be able to withstand the torture. That's why he's going to say it.

We've known each other for 10 years.

It's been 10 years, so are you living together? If they can't show his true side together, it means that he has other thoughts in his heart now.

He was a man with a family.

Knowing for ten years is not talking about ten years? He also has a family. If he doesn't show you his true side, then it won't be interesting for us to continue to spend time with him.

I want him to be well, even if the people around him are not me.

You show him your side and let him see your heart, so that the world is clear to him? Good natural and man-made disasters are unavoidable. If he can't think about it, then we can't help him.

He has a family and I don't want to embarrass him. And I don't want to be wronged like this until I get old, so I want to leave.

Since you have decided, give up.

Even when I see him using my heart for me, I feel sorry when I see him sad and sad.

Man, if he really cares about you, he will leave his family and marry you, so you don't need to see him sad now. He just hasn't resigned himself to your tenderness yet, so he's sad now.

The child is small, and he loves the child, I understand.

This man is really lucky enough to meet a woman who loves him so much. It's a pity that the meeting was not timely. He's married, but you're coming.

What about being sad, this is what he should have when he falls in love with you.

Summary. Dear, my boyfriend said that being with you is not my true self, then I will think about it from two aspects, first, he may care about your feelings very much, and then he will cover up his true thoughts in order to cater to you The second I think he is still because he attaches more importance to you, and then he lets you see the perfect performance of covering up the truth, in fact, each of us is not perfect, in the relationship we all present our most complete side, be the original self, be the most comfortable self, what do you say<>

My boyfriend said that he who was with me was not his true self.

Dear, my boyfriend said that being with you is not the real self, then I will think from two aspects, first, he may care about your feelings, and then he will cover up his true thoughts in order to cater to you True expression The second I think he is still because he attaches more importance to your limbs, and then he lets you see the perfect performance of covering up the truth, in fact, each of us is not perfect, in the relationship we all present our most complete side, be the original self, be the most comfortable self, what do you say<>

Yes, he was too tired to speak.

Dear, can you give two specific examples from your life? I'll help you look at the guess chain, and if your conversation is almost over, we can continue to <> you

Everything had to be done the way I wanted it to be, and he wasn't satisfied.

Dear, in fact, your Suiyu's boyfriend still loves you a lot, even if he is very wronged, he is trying his best to protect your feelings, but guess Oak Duan is that we don't want to see a boyfriend who hides his inner life like a dry heart, right?

1. The girl's so-called "using the way boys spend money for themselves to measure how much the man loves him" is actually just an excuse to satisfy her vanity.

2. The most taboo thing for men and women to interact with is to get money, after money, the relationship will be very complicated, and it will also add a lot of unnecessary trouble in the future.

3. If you are in financial difficulties, you should take the initiative to ask your parents or other relatives for help, not your man, after all, you are just lovers, not relatives, and the relationship is not so close.

4. Your boyfriend is completely right.

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Is it necessary for you to have to associate the 1,000 yuan with your feelings?

Since you didn't take the initiative to borrow it, he took the initiative to give it to you, and you have no reason to be dissatisfied, don't you?

Even if it is a lover, I think that when it comes to money, this kind of thing, it is love to give you, and it is common sense not to give it to you.

You can't be dissatisfied just because you didn't give it all to you.

At all times, a woman's economic status determines a psychological advantage.

Why can't you borrow it from your friend, why do you have to fight with yourself in your heart, and he has to pay you the whole amount?

I don't necessarily have to say "independent" at this time

But your idea, at present, really does not have the characteristics of independence.

Again, I can understand what you mean.

But I don't think there's anything wrong with what he's doing.

You said it yourself, you've only been dating for half a year.

Even if you've all met your parents.

Even if his income is okay.

He is also not obligated to help you pay all the quarterly rent when you get married.

Because, you are the one who has a job.

He believes that you have the ability to pay the rent of the other half.

As you said at the beginning, he's very money-saving.

I think you should at least have a sense of gratitude.

Instead of taking care of yourself, drill the horns.

You have to conclude that he doesn't love you enough.

Your mindset is just not good enough.

It's true. Let's start by examining ourselves.

Here's a small example.

Probably not very relevant.

For example, if you want to buy a house.

You know that your parents have 100,000, and you plan to borrow them all.

As a result, your parents only lent you 50,000 yuan, and they didn't intend to ask you to pay it back.

Are you upset that they are your parents and they don't lend you everything?

No way. Because you will immediately think that they may have other uses for that 5w, they may be afraid that I will have other places where I need money urgently in the future, so they will leave half of it to help me in the future.

They could be.

You will naturally help your parents explain.

Then to this person who is ready to talk about marriage with you.

Why are you so dissatisfied?

It's also a very close person, but you think that he doesn't love you enough.

That's the difference.

Your understanding of love needs to be improved.

Above. --Second update ---

Your emotional intelligence is really not average.

You don't even realize that your attitude towards money is already better than his attitude towards money.

More than that.

So, since it's so easy for you to compete with money, you get to the bottom of the bull's horns.

You'd better not get married.

And, read between the lines from the last addition you made.

I feel that you have a lot of dissatisfaction with him.

Such two people are not suitable to enter the marriage hall.

At least in the words you're described.

Your current understanding of love really needs to be perfected.

Your outlook on love and values are very problematic.

So, even if you update again, I won't anymore.

Because, for a person who desperately drills the horns of the bull.

It is really not appropriate to persuade too much.

I don't think a man is willing to spend money on you.

Not to see how much he gives you, but to see how much he has, and then how much he gives you.

And I don't think it's necessary for two people to divide the money so clearly together.

A person's personality is hard to change.

Maybe you're important to him.

But he may not be willing to spend money, you had better think about whether this kind of character is suitable for you.

I wish you happiness My mother-in-law and my grandfather have been arguing about money since they were young.

Just because my mother-in-law didn't take care of my grandfather's money when she was young.

I'm really speechless right now.

Both have retirement salaries.

My mother-in-law is not doing well.

So you have to think about it huh.

My girlfriend refuses to ask for my money, saying that she doesn't want to spend a man's money, and she has difficulties either looking for family or good sisters, and she doesn't ask for me!

Your boyfriend is a rational person. He should have you in his heart. But not very deep. In fact, there are very few men who are really emotionally invested now. You have to learn to cherish.

I think if your boyfriend is really struggling...That's right....But....That proves that he still has doubts about you.

Whether or not to spend money is not necessarily related to the depth of feelings. You don't have to judge how much he loves you from the money, you have to weigh it in many ways.

Support your boyfriend's approach. It's not because I'm a man. Rationally, your boyfriend is doing the right thing.

First, long-distance lovers must copy

To believe in the other party, a sense of du

Love is not easy. My boyfriend and I are also in a long-distance relationship, and we had this kind of confusion at the beginning, but then we opened up to each other, and now we don't have such confusion anymore. We have a good relationship.

I wondered, since you chose him, should you trust the other party? Men don't like to talk about the past, and instead of doubting, they choose to believe. A girlfriend who fully trusts herself is more likely to win back a man's heart.

Second, it's normal for men to have needs, but if you keep mentioning it, isn't it too disrespectful to your girlfriend? (That's how I see it, anyway, because I don't want my boyfriend to keep talking.) ）

Third, I think you'd better calm down now. You have to figure out whether you really love him and whether he really loves you before you decide. I don't know what he said to you, but I don't think there's any need for you to insist on a man if he wants to say that.

Chill to chill, as a woman, you must be strong and protect yourself, so that you can love yourself, and a woman will only be happy if she loves herself.

The above is just my personal opinion, I hope it will be helpful to you.