I feel very sad to see my parents not being filial

It's quite touching to see you say that.

They say that if parents are not filial, children are not filial, but it seems that this is not the case.

There are many people, especially middle-aged people, who feel that they have experienced more and seen more thoroughly, and they will become more and more selfish.

The only thing they care about is the relationship between themselves and their children, friends, relatives and even parents.

They all look very lightly, and they turn their faces for the sake of money.

Such people are mortals, laymen, realists and egoists who have turned their backs on ideals, and who often speak.

Arrogant, self-righteous, and thinks everyone else is a kind fool.

I'm sorry, but I'm not saying that your father was such a person, but I felt it.

But a father is a father, and you have to love him; Sometimes love can educate people, not-for-tat accusations.

1.Tell your parents that they are your role models, and that when they are old, you will do the same to them, because you learned from them.

2.Quarrels and scolding can't solve the problem, the fate between relatives is only once in a lifetime, and you can't see each other in the next life, you can go to see your grandparents when you have time, which can be regarded as making up for the lack of your parents.

3.You are very human and know filial piety. Attaboy.

In fact, many families are like this now, interests are in the first place, but people still have their kindest side, no matter how to make their kindest side so that they have a clear conscience, after all, filial piety comes first.

1. There are not a few things that children contradict their parents, starting from the beginning of the child learning to speak, basically every child has been against the parents, some children are because of grievances or anger, and some children are against the parents and feel very happy to contradict the parents, this kind of child is likely to be unfilial when he grows up.

2. Children who know how to respect their parents and speak politely to their parents will be filial to their parents when they grow up, but they don't even have the least respect for their parents, and such children are likely to have a "white-eyed wolf" when they grow up.

3. Children only know to be cared for and cared for since they were young, but they never know to care about others, they never only see what they need, but they don't care about others, and they don't care about their parents.

4. I will provide for my parents, but I will never be filial.

5. The health of the elderly and the happiness of their children; Children are not filial, the sky will repay you!

6. The silver threads gradually dyed the sideburns white, and wrinkles crept up to the forehead. Mother! Unfilial I am the creator of your gray hair.

7. In my life, I have looked up to heaven and earth, kings and even the people, but the only one I am sorry for is my biological mother.

8. I thought that people who don't honor their parents will not be sincerely good to their friends, and later I learned that people who are not good to their friends will also be people who are not filial to their parents.

I don't think about my parents' feelings, I just enjoy it alone, I often contradict my parents, my parents are older, I won't help, and my parents are often impatient when they talk. These are all manifestations of unfilial piety to our parents, and we must get rid of our bad habits.

The first is that they will not help their parents when they encounter any difficulties. The second is that they often quarrel with their parents; The third is that when I go to work in other places, I won't often call my parents, which is a manifestation of unfilial piety.

1.Will quarrel with them, and have different opinions on many things, will become particularly impatient. 2.Do everything with yourself as the main thing, and do not consider the feelings of your parents.

The elderly in rural areas should pay attention to the fact that most of the children who are not filial to their parents have these three manifestations, which are too accurate.

The first is to lose his temper with his parents, the second is that he doesn't know how to understand their difficulties, and the third is that he doesn't consult them about things, and he always acts arbitrarily. The fourth is just blindly giving, not knowing how to make them happy and coquettish. Fifth, I don't know how to take the initiative to share things.

I think I have a good understanding of this problem. I think a person is filial to the way of the family. It has a lot to do with family factors.

Just like me, my mother always said that I don't call the family, and I don't tell the family anything about it, I feel like I'm already out of the family, and I feel that everything in the family has nothing to do with me.

But in my own opinion, this is not the case, I feel that I have taken care of everything at home, I just understand it in my own heart and do not say it.

This family environment is very related, and when I was young, I felt that my parents were there to give me money. When I need money, I ask them for money, and they don't usually take care of my mood too much, maybe because they are busy, they may ignore me.

So when I grew up, I only felt filial piety to them, but I didn't have the feeling that others were friends with my parents. What do I feel like doing? As long as I don't let them be sad, I don't let them worry, that's the biggest contribution I can make.

In fact, I feel that I have worked very hard, but I don't know why in my mother's mind, she always feels that raising children is useless, because she has seen many abandoned old people, and there are many realistic examples, so she always tells me that she wants to save enough money and go to a nursing home by herself, and we don't have to worry about it.

In fact, every time she says this, I am very sad, I feel that I am your child, why do you say such things to me. I felt my parents' denial of me, and I felt that they didn't believe me. In my understanding, honoring one's parents is a child's obligation and responsibility, and it cannot be escaped.

Once my mother told me, look at your classmate, people are very sensible, and they are very good to their own family, you see that you don't do anything every day, and you just let your family worry about it every day. I was very angry and I said don't want me, you want someone to be good, and later, I found out that my mother had been sad for a long time because of this matter, saying that she just wanted to motivate me through this incident and make me do better, and I didn't say it, I just didn't like me.

In fact, I later felt that your parents are not filial, and they are just talking, they just want you to have more time to spend with them, not money, but spiritually. In ordinary life, a greeting is what they crave the most.

First, talk to your parents and listen to your parents explain the reasons why you are not filial. Understand what your parents are not doing well enough about you, so that you can correct it in the future. Instead of ignoring your parents because you have been wronged, or arguing with your parents, the result will only get worse.

So, control your emotions, don't feel wronged or quarrel with your parents because they don't understand, find a suitable time to have a good chat with your parents, listen to your parents' thoughts, and tell them what you think. In this way, we will understand each other, and I believe that my parents will no longer say that they are not filial.

Second, reflect on yourself and why your parents say this about you. I didn't do well enough. Reflect on whether you have not accompanied your parents well, and what parents need most when they are older is the company of their children.

Is it that I only know that I am busy with my own work, and I usually don't go back to accompany my parents, nor do I say a ** greeting to my parents? When parents are older, what do they really need? Have we really reflected?

Have you not considered their feelings, and if you have a particularly bad attitude towards them? Therefore, we need to reflect on ourselves, only in this way can we effectively solve the problem.

We already knew that it was really not easy for our parents, and filial piety to our parents was also what we should do as children.

If you really feel wronged, you can tell them, don't hold it back, there are problems that still need to be solved.

Many parents may take such a phrase as a mantra, that is, unfilial piety, which sometimes becomes a habit. We may not think about it so much, or we may think about our children, so we need to have an understanding of whether we are filial or not. Maybe we ourselves feel that we are already very filial, but our parents feel that we are not doing enough.

Because some parents are indeed too strict, or too stubborn, a little thing such as their children refuted with themselves, or if there is a thing that is not in line with their minds, they will say that we are not filial, maybe we do something wrong, but it is not necessarily unfilial, so, first of all, you have to have a judgment on what you do, and you must understand whether what you are doing is right and whether it is filial, after all, parents will also make mistakes.

And I believe that there are very few parents who are too strict, and most parents are still more reasonable, so if they really like to say this. If you really don't know what you're doing wrong, you can ask your parents and communicate directly with them is the best way to solve the problem. 201 possibility is that they have really come to the point of making a mantra to make you feel unhappy and make you feel wronged, if this is the case, you should make it clear to your parents and show your feelings, I believe that your parents will understand you and correct it for you.

Therefore, there is nothing that cannot be discussed, and there is no contradiction that cannot be resolved, so if you have grievances, you can discuss them with your parents, and holding them in your heart will not have a good effect on both parties.

I was filial to my parents and wanted to be nice to them, but they scolded me and scolded me, and now I rarely communicate with them, and I am quite indifferent to them, and a little selfish.

It may be because of what you did not make your parents feel your filial piety, you can often chat with your parents, talk about their hearts, discuss topics they like, and buy them things they like.

If your parents say that you are not filial and you feel very sad, do you think they are wrong? Then you have to look for the problem from yourself to see if you are really doing what you are not doing well.

You should do something that you can appreciate and be careful about to make them change their minds about you.

Generally, I feel very filial to my parents, and my parents still feel that my hands are not filial, it may be that my parents are old, a little confused, no matter what the children do, the parents are picky and feel that they are not filial to them, and their parents don't care about anything, just do their filial piety, do not have a conscience, and be filial to your parents, after all, it is not easy for parents to work hard to pull you up.

Parents are the most important family members, and filial piety is a traditional virtue, so there are many children who should be filial to their parents, but recently many parents are not filial. Here's a possible reason for this:

First, there are more and more immigrants, and children regard their parents as "no love", which affects their feelings of filial piety to their parents.

The second is that parents' careers are becoming more and more complex, they devote themselves to their careers and do not have enough time and energy to educate their children, and their education model has also changed, resulting in parents not being valued by their children.

The third is some family economic reasons, such as family poverty, which leads to parents not being able to give enough care to their children, which affects their children's greater filial piety to their parents.

Fourth, the influence of social phenomena, such as quality education has become fashionable, parents are more inclined to let their children receive a rational and reasonable education, in order to stimulate their potential more effectively, which also affects the degree of filial piety of children to their parents.

Finally, the development of new technology has caused children to get lost in the virtual world, and they can't even feel real love and care, and naturally they can't appreciate the value of filial piety to their parents.

To sum up, many parents are not filial nowadays, and there may be many reasons for immigration, parents' heavy work, family economic factors, the impact of current social phenomena and new technologies, resulting in children's lack of respect and filial piety to their parents. Therefore, only when parents re-correct their educational concepts, carefully choose valuable educators, and re-feel the value of filial piety to their parents, can this phenomenon be alleviated.