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Being friendly to others is cultivation, and being alone is character. "
I usually don't like to have conflicts with people, try to avoid unnecessary disputes, make money with harmony, and value harmony is the way of life that I have always adhered to.
Even if the other party deliberately picks right and wrong, I try to refrain from doing so, unless it touches my bottom line.
When I say I'm alone, it's because I have so much to do, endless books, movies, and a lot of social activities to attend.
People who have nothing to do with me, there is no need or energy to idle with them.
But what can be done is that when social communication is needed, quickly switch states and enter the outgoing Kan Dashan mode. You see I'm a loner, there's a good chance I'm just not talking to you, and there's a good chance I'm having fun with another group of friends, but you're not in my circle of friends. Psychologically, extroverts like to be in a crowd and enjoy being the center of attention.
When they are alone, they often get bored or restless.
Introverts prefer to be alone or only prefer to spend time with one or a small group of other people.
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This kind of person is straightforward and fast-talking, and may speak and do things more thoughtlessly, but there is nothing bad about it, what you want to say, happy is happy, and you will not force yourself to laugh if you are unhappy, and do whatever you want.
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Very willful, sometimes when you are in a good mood to do things, you will do very well, and if you are in a bad mood, you will do not do well or even not do it, very willful.
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There is no city. Being a casual person is more casual, and it's not good to be too casual, and it's annoying. There must be a degree to everything.
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People with a particularly strong sense of subjectivity.
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Of course, a very shrewd person can do this, but a very honest person can't do this.
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Living in this world, how to behave for people and how to deal with things may be a difficult problem for many friends, because whether it is work or life, all kinds of interpersonal communication are indispensable for dealing with people, what kind of person you want to be, what kind of person you want to socialize, what people can interact, what people can't interact, you must have a clear judgment, it is best to be like a mirror in your own heart, how to treat the people around you, and you must also have your own guidelines and bottom line, but no matter what, you should abide by a few principles, and don't say it, I know in my heart that I should be a low-key person and be cautious.
Be a humble and cautious person, whether you are proud or frustrated, you must always be vigilant, don't get carried away when you are proud, be more careful when you speak and do things, don't let those who envy and envy you, catch your Shi Li Ze handle, don't show pride, prevent your own talkers from unintentionally listening to the heart, and the clan disturbs the skill.
If your words offend some people, it is too undeserved.
And when you are frustrated, you must be more cautious, because when you are frustrated and painful, you often don't pay attention to your words and deeds, and even have the psychology of breaking the jar and falling, feeling that it is already like this anyway, so it is very relaxed and indulgent, it seems to be very cool at the time, but just like drunkenness, after sobering up, it is often regretful, and it is too late to regret, so you are cautious in your words and deeds, and it is also your own way to protect yourself.
In fact, when you go out, many times it depends on the relationship, maybe the ability is really important, but you also have to admit that sometimes the relationship is the admission ticket, if you don't let you in, you won't even be given the opportunity to go on the stage, and then you have the ability but you can't get the show, so it doesn't matter if others are cold to you, or they are enthusiastic about you, it doesn't matter, what is relevant is that while you practice your internal skills, you should also pay attention to the coordination of interpersonal relationships, have a team spirit, and can't rely on yourself. is very high-profile and flamboyant, such a character will not be welcomed by everyone, so you still have to know how to be humble.
There will always be all kinds of people in life, some people do things fairly, but some people do things are not easy to say, but as the saying goes, see through or not through, or good friends, in fact, sometimes in the face of other people's little tricks, it is good to see through the mega key, just guard yourself, there is no need to debunk, make everyone very embarrassed, and can not end, so if you really encounter such a scene, you don't have to say anything, just understand it in your heart, in fact, you may also have some caution, maybe, It's just that others haven't said it thoroughly, so you don't have to play too much scheming in life, be careful of being smart and be smart, usually more sincere, work and life may be less troublesome, usually maintain good interpersonal relationships, there will be fewer people who will fall into the well in the future, and your life path will be smoother, life is not easy, you can also make three points, you have to be forgiving and forgiving, and your life will be more and more smooth.
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Introversion is not like to talk to others, likes to be alone, even if there are friends, there are only a few close friends, and it is easy to blush when talking to others, and the voice is very small.
Greet each other with smiling eyes and hospitable warmth, and never look at each other with disdain. Otherwise, it will be difficult to close the deal.
I don't know that kind of solemn way of communicating.
But the popular people are cheerful, so you should make yourself a little more cheerful. Shrinking can easily make the atmosphere awkward, and if it is large, it will feel contrived. Now to explain, if you're talking to a very good friend and someone is not familiar with you, and they have a good time talking and you are left to dry, you should first join according to their topic, even if they say something you don't know, you should at least use a little bit of modality, such as: >>>More
Maybe this society is too impetuous.