Everybody help analyze and analyze, about my girlfriend, thank you. 20

You want to see if you can feel that she likes you. From your description, it seems to me that she doesn't care much about you, maybe she likes you, she just doesn't show it, maybe she really doesn't like you, and it's really hard to maintain a long-distance relationship.

Maybe it's a stronger girl (tsundere), maybe she doesn't have much experience and doesn't know how to love? Let's talk to her

Communicate. Thoroughly in-depth! Understanding is the last word.

It's been two years, I don't know what your usual relationship is when you're a person, but as far as your above words are concerned, I think you should be prepared to say something unpleasant, you two are in a different place, you don't know what she does every day, and people are more realistic now.

In fact, I really don't want to hit you, the success rate of college students falling in love and finally getting married will not exceed 8%, and it may be even lower now.

If you just want to fall in love, it doesn't matter, after all, learning is the most important thing, don't put the cart before the horse, put it appropriately, the way of civil and martial arts, a relaxation and a relaxation, Sun Tzu's Art of War also has it, luring the enemy deep. You put it aside appropriately and concentrate on studying, and she will take the initiative when she sees that you suddenly don't contact you.

Hey, you're still a student, I don't dare to teach you too much, you focus on your studies, and if you have a good job in the future, you'll have everything.

Long-distance relationship is like this, maybe her personality is like that, my boyfriend and I are also in a long-distance relationship, and we are also college students, you can still see each other once a month, we can only meet on vacation. We have all encountered these problems, which is normal, because we can't see each other's expressions, and we can't feel each other's emotions in time, so a lot of words and thoughts are our own conjectures, maybe the truth is not what you think. The only way is for the two to work together, have confidence, believe in each other, tolerate each other, even if you really feel that you can't continue, don't make a decision easily, you must communicate well, send a text message to say something that can't be said, then hit **, if you really find out in the end that it is not what you think, it is not too late to make a decision at that time.

I wish you all happiness!

First of all, I envy you! Young, who is not frivolous?

The story of the two has been experienced, and there is no distinction between right and wrong, right and wrong. Regarding the application for the college entrance examination, it can only be said that the girl's luck is slightly inferior.

Perhaps, you feel that your parents are obstructing the performance of not understanding the two, that they have not experienced your vigorous love, do not understand love, and do not know how to sacrifice for love.

Perhaps. Maybe your parents are more traditional and can't accept that their son fell in love without academic success, which is related to your local folk customs. The more traditional people are, the more afraid they are of gossip.

Perhaps, their previous attitude towards you was neither for nor against you, but one after another, seeing their sons give up their own better future for a girl [maybe in their eyes], so they rose to a certain height. That's why your parents are sad. At least in their eyes, you're kind of squandering your academic momentum for the sake of your feelings.

After all, if they give birth to you, raise you, and provide for you to go to school, if they really bury their youth here in the future, then they will feel very ashamed. In addition, even if they haven't experienced it personally, they must have heard and seen many negative examples of abandoning their studies because of falling in love, so they have defined your sex with a hammer.

If you really want to clear up misunderstandings, then please study hard after the school starts. If you have a good grasp of professional knowledge, you can get more scholarships or other things that can prove your ability. You subsidize your girlfriend's living expenses, as long as you are sincere, stick to it.

The power of love is limitless. If 3 years have passed, you love very steadily, you have achieved both in your studies, and your work is also going well. When the time comes, if they continue to be together, the two old people will be moved from the bottom of their hearts.

It's better than most people now, who have talked for many years, and many hurdles have passed, and it is better to reach the boss, and the families of both sides do not agree!

Work hard and persist for your own pursuit!

Bless you, lad!

Love is like that, and after a while your parents will be fine.

My husband and I are also in high school love, for this love my husband and I paid a lot for each other, at first the family was against it, it was very opposed, and then my husband and I went to college, until graduation, and slowly the family accepted it, now my husband and I are married, and both parents are also very satisfied, hehe, the difficulties will always pass!

Love your girlfriend well, keep your promises, and you must live a lifetime

Many loves face resistance from their families. Your parents blame you because they are afraid that you will delay your studies and affect your future. On the one hand, you have to be considerate of them.

On the other hand, I feel that your actions have hurt them. After all, people's words are terrible, and their parents can't hold their face. Now that they haven't accepted the relationship, prove to them that you can progress together.

The right time to formally introduce her to her parents.

Life is only right and wrong when you go through it, do what you like, your parents are also anxious for you for your future happiness, if you live really well, then they will gradually understand you.

At such a young age, be a little more open-minded and take a step back to open up the sky.

Since we decided to be together, we must insist because we love each other My girlfriend and I are in Liaoning, he is in Chongqing, we have been talking together for a long time, during which almost every summer and winter vacation is spent with him for a long time, just because we want to be together, we both have a better chance, but we choose a relatively poor school, but we don't regret it, since we want to be together, we must have a little sacrifice Brother I wish you happiness.

Your love is very touching, I really envy it!

The road is tortuous, but the future is bright.

A woman's stubborn temper is a taboo, which means that everything must depend on her, and if you don't rely on it, you will turn your face and quarrel, and in the long run, it will make you feel no home, and even disgusted with this feeling, and you will leave if you tie it off.

In addition, saying "I will have less contact with my parents and sisters in the future", whether it is a sincere idea or not, this behavior is so ignorant that I think you can consider breaking up.

Seriously, do you feel so happy? Facing your family for the sake of a woman? People, not like to be together, but also to see whether it is suitable, as the so-called single family pair, even if you write her name, after marriage is joint property, you get married and then go to buy a house, write anyone's name is the same.

Also, why is it written in her name, I am very puzzled, whether it is the money that loves you or the person who loves you, so worried that you will divorce her in the future, or that she values your money at all.

In fact, this is very normal, it is not a broken promise, don't pay too much attention to it. It's just that she got used to the fact that in the process of this relationship, you took the initiative to hit **. That is to say, she is used to waiting for your ** every day, and she is used to contacting her first every time she waits for you.

Maybe she thought of you first, but she hoped that you could call her.

To put it bluntly, it's habit.

Don't worry too much, after all, in the emotional world, no one pays more and pays less, only what is worth it and what is not worth it. When you feel that she is worth your pay, it is worth your pay, don't care about these little things, it's not a big deal if you play more, it's not a big deal if you apologize more, even if she is wrong first, as long as you think it's worth it. You should just do it.

What makes you feel weird is why do you think I have to contact her every time? Why does it feel like I'm paying more? Why doesn't she want to call me **?

There's nothing to worry about, your contribution is for yours her. Be generous, boys, you should be happy that you are willing to give, because you have found the one you love. Cherish your happiness.

I wish you all happiness and happiness.

You just ask him. It's because I have a phobia of beating **, and I'm especially afraid that someone will happen to have something to do in the past. She probably does too, but I don't know the specifics, so I'll have to ask him.

There must be something hidden that you don't want to say or something that is difficult to say, find an opportunity to chat, talk about your heart, understand each other, I hope it will help you.

This is normal, some people are just not good at expressing, talking and laughing outside, playing and making trouble, as soon as they meet love, they are over, they are embarrassed, they don't like to take the initiative, a lot of haha. I'm also a girl, I used to be like this when I first fell in love, sometimes I'm embarrassed, sometimes I'm waiting, anyway, I just don't like to fight**, I send text messages reluctantly, I am nervous to hit ** at that time, I know to fight when I get home, I haven't forgotten, I just can't hit it, I love my boyfriend very much, wait, some people just don't like to fight**, haha!

The first question I think has nothing to do with whether the family has money or not. For example, Jay's fans won't throw Jay's autograph no matter how rich they are Although you are not a fan and an idol, cherishing each other's things is a basic expression of cherishing. On the bright side, maybe she's a big swagger?

The second question is that what I feel has to do with how much I care. A lot of things you can't remember or have time to do just because they're not as important as anything else. Sometimes, it is also possible that the wish is good, and it is said on impulse at the time.

Almost everyone knows how to talk without words, depending on how often it happens.

The third question, it's normal for girls to be petty, your girlfriend, who do you not coax? However, I don't feel like your girlfriend cares about you very much. Love is an art of compromise, there must always be one party in a weak position, there must be more compromises, but it is always a person who compromises and is not harmonious.

If you don't want to always clean up the mess, then don't blindly compromise, which will indulge her willfulness.

At least, your girlfriend doesn't love you as much as you love her. Some of my words may be a bit sharp, but I just analyzed what you said, and I don't mean anything else. Specific problems are analyzed, and your girlfriend you know best. I wish you happiness

Most families who want only children are like that! If you can't solve it, if you don't want to leave, just endure it! When she can't do without you, she will know your important pull.

This shows that you are not her favorite, just a passerby in her life, if two people who really love each other will not be in this situation, this is not a question of whether there is money or not, but the depth of the feelings, the degree of true love or not!

I read your question and understand your feelings. But your question and other people's answers have one thing in common, that is, they are all blaming your girlfriend and doing external attributions. Of course, you can't think that everything your girlfriend does is right, but what I want to say is don't try to change your her, a person is not so easy to change, you will be disappointed or even desperate because of this, love her and love her now.

And remember the phrase "Treat others as you would like them to be treated to you."

It shows that she doesn't love you wholeheartedly in her heart.

Sometimes a small gesture or an unintentional glance can tell the whole story.

The eldest lady is temperamental, pampered, and pampered, but she doesn't love you, this is called personality!

First, rich girls have a lot of things since they were young, and they always change them vigorously and don't know how to cherish them, which is understandable. Second, as the saying goes, boys are poor, girls are rich, and generally girls will be coaxed to do something wrong or something, and their families will only let him talk about it, and they won't really let him do it, and he will develop this problem. Third, there are some willful girls are like this, girls are thin-skinned, and they don't like to admit mistakes.

I think this kind of girl is very abrasive, tests your mental endurance, and in the end I still want you to be happy.

Maybe he really doesn't want to be with you anymore. If that's the case, it's better to leave her resolutely, you know: sometimes letting go is also a kind of love.

It's still a hair together in a different place. All you have to do is find a new one right away, and she'll be back on her own.

If you dare to love, you must be prepared to leave, and if you can't keep it, you will learn to give up.

What your girlfriend means: I know you're good to me, and I used to look forward to these good things. Simple, pure love, this kind of love is only related to romance, only to happiness, only to sweetness, only to dream, only to be young and pure, only to give without asking for anything in return.

Because of my kind heart, I know that you are good to me, but I don't know what to repay your kindness, although I still love you.

In the past, maybe I was a very simple person, thinking that people who loved each other would break through the resistance of the world or something else would eventually be together. That's what I've thought about too. Love is just love, and it has nothing to do with material things, suffering, and the trivialities of life.

But now I realize that I can't.

Love is not the true meaning pursued by social people, and some people may marry and live with people they don't love for a better material life. And there may be such examples around me, maybe my family wants me to find someone with better conditions to marry for my happiness, or even has helped me find it. And although I don't particularly like it, I may not be disgusted, and it is possible to believe that after marriage, I can cultivate a relationship, which is also what most people think.

I may hope for a famous brand, I may compare myself with other sisters, I am afraid of being ridiculed by others. I feel that on my own terms, there may be someone better for me.

I want to leave, leave you to find other happiness.

I want to break up with you.

The above is a personal idea, as a girl, I don't know if this idea is her idea, but I think a little too much, and I really feel like filming a TV series. My gut feeling is that she still loves you, but maybe even if she does, she will break up. Or if you don't break up, there will be estrangement.

You have to work harder and try to save this relationship.

To be honest, from a personal point of view, maybe you won't give her what she wants at the age of thirty, but you have to have the ability to "let's be together, when others are still worried about love, I still love you, so that you can have ordinary happiness, the kind for a lifetime." ”