I graduated from college and he went to graduate school, should I be his girlfriend?

Of course, some people may feel that their academic qualifications are quite good and have a common language and a common circle of friends, but the people who get along are the two of you, as long as you think you can of course, good girl, don't be so pessimistic and inferior, he is a graduate student, but you must also have your advantages, or how can you attract him again? Besides, education can be improved hard, come on!

Is it because of academic qualifications? Don't think too low of yourself Love crosses any boundaries That's what the theory says.

As soon as I finished reading it, there was a sound of ** in my friend's notebook, so, Xingxing told me, understand him first, graduate student = perfect? When I was interviewing, I didn't know how many graduate students had flown off, and if I wasn't capable, I didn't have the ability, not even as good as a junior college student.

I think it's okay, I wish you happiness!

If you like him, be his girlfriend, is education important? It's not just like it, but you have to say it boldly.

You should choose to let go, the two of you think about the morning song are different, the other party's requirements for themselves are particularly high, if the other party Ying Ran really took the Lu Potato graduate school, the generation gap between the two of you will get bigger and bigger.

I think it depends on your own choice, if you let go, it's okay, you must feel uncomfortable in your own heart, but if you want to continue the joke, you also have to make yourself better, you can be worthy of the other party.

I don't think there's any need to break up, the most important thing is the following four points:

1. Judge first whether this person is the right person, whether you are willing to let you face the test of life with him, and whether you can accept the life he gives you and do your best to manage it;

2. Whether you are in tune in life, such as housework, eating, and similar to these small things, if the boy is a person who does not pay attention to details, the probability of you quarreling after living together will be smaller;

3. I don't know how to judge whether the three views are compatible, and I feel that when talking about some problems, especially when parents are short and work, and when dealing with people, if two people have the same opinion, they can get along.

4. If you can understand each other, it means that both people want to go on forever.

In our time, academic qualifications are no longer determined by values, but are largely determined by family economic conditions.

In most cases, the better the family conditions, the higher the education, now as long as you have money, you can study, as long as your parents can afford it, you are willing to provide, and your children are not willing to work as soon as possible to take on financial responsibilities, then you will continue to read, even if you read until you are 40 years old and postdoctoral degree, no one cares about you, and few people will envy you, and there will not be a few people who think that you are high to **.

Now is not the era of changing the fate because of academic qualifications, the probability of our generation changing the fate of academic qualifications is very small, of course, through the study of rural hukou into urban hukou, Chinese nationality changed to foreign nationality, it does exist, but this does not mean a change of fate, at best it can only be regarded as a change of residence, because it is difficult to change the social class in terms of academic qualifications alone, and the current era is that money determines the social class.

Huang Guangyu doesn't seem to have graduated from junior high school, but do you think he is lower than you? Last year, I saw that the express delivery company in Shanghai was recruiting couriers, with a basic salary of 6,000, basically foreigners were doing this work that was regarded as a blue-collar job, but at the same time, there were a large number of college graduates doing white-collar jobs but receiving a salary of less than 5,000, do you think a college degree is useful? You really don't take your current academic qualifications seriously, he does not represent values, nor does it represent social class, let alone ability, if you have a bachelor's degree, it means that you really just follow the trend step by step, and those who have a master's degree or above can only represent that your parents' economy is okay.

Of course, those students who have been admitted to prestigious American universities and received full scholarships are a different matter, they are a minority, and they are not within the scope of our ordinary people's discussion.

If you don't like it, break up and find one you like.

Education is just a label, you are looking for a husband is not looking for a label, the first is to consider whether you like it or not, and secondly, to consider whether the person is worth it.

I like my boyfriend a lot, and I feel like he can give me things that the boys around me can't give me, such as a sense of security, a sense of security that I feel comfortable with him even when he's not around me, and that he has me in every plan for the future.

I also feel that he deserves my love and trust, although his education is not high at present, but he has a self-motivated heart, and has a career he loves in his heart and is willing to work hard for it, and has a clear plan for the future and the present, which is more attractive to me than many boys around me who feel that they are admitted to 985 once and for all.

People are equal, why look down on your boyfriend, maybe your boyfriend just has no fate in learning, and he has strengths in other aspects.

If there is something in common between the two people's lifestyles and communication styles, there is no need to care too much about the diploma, but if you don't have a common language because of the diploma, you can consider separating.

If you have a problem with your brain, do you know that your boyfriend has a college diploma? Are all graduate students virtuous?

You can ask your boyfriend to take the exam for the college entrance exam, and you can help your boyfriend study. Supervise each other and learn from each other together.

I think the most important thing for two people to be together is whether they have a common topic or not, and the diploma is not so important.

Break up, he doesn't deserve you, he's just a college diploma, and you, an excellent graduate student.

It's a bit of a contempt for people, graduate students are not one level higher than others, maybe people are just not good at learning.

You're going to change your mind. If you still dislike it, then break up.

Let's break up. Since you don't think the other person's college degree is worthy of you, then you go find a boyfriend for graduate school.

How to say it, sometimes the development of feelings is a compromise between the two sides, if you love each other, you must be able to negotiate a mutually acceptable way to get along, falling in love for half a year is not too long, you can get to know each other again, the current problem is that your boyfriend can be said to think that you are the object of marriage, but you are not very sure about this, at least think that now is not the right time, you are not ready to enter the marriage, marriage sometimes needs to be 100% sure to get into, if he loves you enough you will give you time, But it can't be indefinite, so communicate with each other.

Your boyfriend is in a hurry to get married, it should be because you have too high an education.

This gave him a sense of crisis.

If you really love him, you can consider getting married and don't panic to have children first.

This will be a good way to appease him.

After half a year of getting along, your boyfriend proposes to get married, but you feel that you have just graduated and your job is not stable and you don't want to get married. My boyfriend said that he was a normal person and was just looking for someone to marry, and I don't know where your relationship has developed in half a year. The purpose of wanting to get married is to have a normal married life, second, the two don't have to worry about not being able to get together, and third, they are also of marriageable age.

He wants to marry you, but he doesn't agree to meet your parents, which is a normal procedure. It may be that he is worried that your parents will not approve of you together, that he is forcing marriage, or that he is a little unconfident or afraid that he will not be able to meet the requirements of other aspects of marriage. If you want to get married, you can get a license with him directly, which is probably what it means.

I'm afraid that you will run away, and I will squeeze you with words. You have a higher education than him, and your future income is likely to be higher. He already has signs of low self-esteem. I advise you to dump him. It will only be more sad and sad in the future.

150 Excuse me, I've been with my boyfriend for almost half a year, I graduated from graduate school this year, he has been working for a few years after graduating from junior college, he said he wanted to marry me, I just felt like I had just finished! Prove that the girl likes you very much, and secondly, when you are older, when your conditions are good, I am afraid that you will not get along with him, won't you have no sense of security!

You are a graduate student, he said that you are not a junior college student, you are not a level in terms of grade, because you are stronger than him, and he is not confident in his heart, he thinks that you don't look down on him, you don't want to marry him if you don't marry him, and women are too strong for men to have no status, and you have to understand this meaning, and whether you are just angry with you when you chat with others, whether you are suitable for marriage mainly depends on the person's personality, whether he will love you, if he has the ability and ability, if he has a small quarrel for three days after marriage, Every five days of fighting, do you feel that such a day can still be lived?

Normal love to marriage requires at least one year of understanding, like yours only half a year of contact is difficult to have a stable emotional foundation, and it is difficult to really understand each other, this stage of marriage is hasty. Besides, you have just graduated, you have not realized your own value, you have not found your ideal job goal, and you have hurriedly entered into marriage, do you feel that such a choice is mature?

It's better not to be anxious, in the matter of feelings, you must have your own rhythm and proportion, and you must have your own independent judgment and decision.

You must know him best, maybe you have a big cultural gap and he doesn't feel safe, if you keep dragging it out, it's estimated that you can only break up.

After graduating from graduate school, you are considered an older youth, and if you feel that your current boyfriend can be trusted for life, then marriage will not affect you. A man is responsible for a woman to give you marriage!

You need to understand that your boyfriend, everyone has their own ideas, he may feel that the two of you are talking about getting married is a matter of course, and wants to be with you. And if you want to wait for the job to stabilize, it will give him uneasy thoughts, after all, what will happen in the future is unknown. The two of them talked and discussed together, both took a step back, with how long the deadline was, you can try to get married first, and it is a bit hasty to get married in half a year, get along with each other, and see if the temper can match in terms of living habits, marriage is a big deal, and there is no harm in being cautious.

Personally, I feel that your boyfriend has no intention of breaking up, he just wants to use these words to make you marry him early, your education is higher than his, he has no sense of security if you drag it out and don't get married, he thinks that he will feel at ease only if you marry him!

Confident that your own conditions are not worthy of you but are reluctant to leave you, or the family conditions are afraid that you are not easy to accept, and are eager to get married, one.

He wanted to get results as soon as possible, because he had been working for a few years. He may be worried that you will not look down on him, so he wants to settle down early. Think about it yourself according to your feelings for him!

He has China without his strong dedication, you look at this situation again, his education is not big, look at his professionalism, may work ability, can you live in the future? You have to consider that you have just graduated and just entered the society, you might as well not understand the situation, you have to be cautious, don't want to get married, consider it, and then talk about it after understanding the situation, this is a lifelong event, not a matter of a while, friends are so simple, this is a girl's lifelong event, take a wrong step, lifelong regret, by the way, your lifelong happiness, listen to me, you have to seriously consider, it is better to add with the help of marriage, to strengthen understanding in all aspects, this is a lifelong event, not half a year only, if this choice is to choose the right, You will be happy for life, if you choose wrong, you will be honest and uncomfortable, this is the key, good friend.

He probably has low self-esteem, so he wants to marry you as soon as possible, so that he won't panic.

If you love him, you agree, if you don't love him, forget it, this boy likes you very much, because you have a high education, and I am afraid that you will fly, so I want to get married soon, you really like him and you have to grasp it.

It's better to work for a few years and then get married, and if your career is stable, your family will be stable.

It seems that you have already gone out of the modern ditch, and I still think he is unreliable.

In fact, you already have the answer in your heart, you are no longer suitable to be together.

Appearance determines whether it is possible to be together, personality determines whether it is suitable to be together, material determines whether they can be stable together, and trust determines whether they can be together for a long time.

Hopefully, you'll think through and make the right decision.

The title of your question is offensive, and it is nothing more than a person's style question when you were a student that made you have these thoughts.

What does your Q2 mean by "character, education, economic conditions, etc."? "Not to mention academic qualifications, can you be sure of the rest?

I want to say, what if it's a girl who didn't go to college?