Why don t people nowadays understand the meaning of affection? Just focus on money, to be specific?

On the surface, the two cannot be compared, or even compared.

However, they have deep commonalities.

First of all, what is money?

Money is an accumulation of resources, right?

The accumulation of resources is actually the accumulation of time.

Bicycles can take you around the world with less effort, saving you a lot of time on foot and shortening the distance of space.

Besides, what is affection?

Affection is a socialization skill that people rely on to survive, and it is also a storage of time resources.

It takes you a month to build a house on your own, and if you get two buddies who have helped you in the past, you can do it in ten days.

Just as money does not fall from the sky, love does not come in vain.

Since it's all the accumulation of time, whoever is fast will use whomever is fast.

Or maybe the two can be compared and measured.

Affection is not innate, nor is it eternal, it needs to be nurtured constantly, and it will be consumed from time to time.

In this way, no one understands the meaning of today's industrialized and even information-based society?

Love is blue chips, and money is **.

For people to have a long road, both are needed, and they complement each other's strengths.

You know that society is evolving at a rapid pace, and people need to do things in the moment, so money is relatively more immediate.

It wasn't until people got old that they found that love was more worth cherishing, because only memories remained.

Because love cannot be eaten as food.

First of all, there is such a saying, "It is not that there are more friends, the road is easy to walk, and the road is good, there are more friends", no matter what the moment, we should not pin our hopes on others. Except for your own parents, no one wants you to live better than him, this is human nature.

Secondly, this is the case with social reality, Darwin's theory of evolution also said that "natural selection, survival of the fittest" The rule of nature is survival of the fittest, and the same is true of our society. Value exchange is the premise of getting along with people. Couples are together to provide warmth to each other and relieve loneliness.

Friends get along with each other in order to eat hot pot one day not alone.

Finally, as we get older, we gradually see through human nature. Only by constantly learning and constantly improving oneself is the truth.

If you bloom, the breeze will come.

Facing the sea, spring flowers are blooming.

The sun is always shining after the storm.

Nowadays, people only value interests, do not pay attention to affection, because you are in the circle does not pay attention to affection, maybe in your circle, everyone is more concerned about interests, this view is more short-sighted, and when you jump out of your circle, you will find that among successful people they attach importance to friendship, because any transaction is based on the other party has a relationship and the other party's character to pass the case, will cooperate with the other party.

Because this is the way society is now, money does account for a large part of our lives now, and it is really difficult to move without money, so now people are becoming more and more snobbish. In this case, friendship is not so important, but I think people who have feelings and righteousness still deserve respect.

Nowadays, people are more materialistic. Because people nowadays are comparing themselves with each other, and vanity is particularly strong. People tend to care about material things and put emotional things aside.

Feelings can be hurt for the sake of profit. This is the lack of positive energy in society and the degradation of morality. Therefore, with the development of society, people can no longer return to the society where feelings are paramount.

Because traditional morality has fallen, there is a lack of faith and a lack of spiritual support. The primitive nature of chasing power and money is highlighted.

Nowadays, people only pay attention to interests, and the reason why they do not value love and righteousness is that people's thinking has changed. In the eyes or hearts of people nowadays, material things are the most important. I feel that it is useless to emphasize affection and righteousness, so they only focus on interests and do not pay attention to affection.

Why do people nowadays only pay attention to interests and do not pay attention to feelings?

That's not entirely true. Because it is now a material society, we need money wherever we go and when we go to **. So it's normal for people to chase money and focus on profits.

This does not mean that people do not pay attention to affection, generally speaking, we still pay attention to affection between families and relatives.

Because the fundamental point of human triggering is snobbery, because human nature is more selfish, so the angle of his trigger is generally in line with his own interests, if it is not in your own interests, you will not do this kind of thing, so the interests between the two seem to be more and more heavy, and then those feelings are becoming more and more weak.

In a word, divide people.

Not all people nowadays only focus on profits, and do not attach importance to affection and righteousness.

People who only pay attention to interests and do not attach importance to love and righteousness are not only now, but have existed in ancient and modern times at home and abroad.

It can only be said that everyone's values are different, and their views on feelings and interests are different.

Why do people nowadays pay attention to interests and don't pay attention to affection, that's because the friends you make pay attention to interests, and you don't make friends who value affection, and you have to be righteous and affectionate in your own dealings with others, otherwise how can you use this to ask others.

Because people are under great pressure in their lives nowadays, they need money for mortgages and car loans, so they only focus on interests rather than affection.

Created by the climate of today's society, because only money is everything, and only money is more important than anything else.

You can't have both. There is no right or wrong between the two, the key is what do you want? Each choice implies a certain degree of loss and gain.

Personally, I am more emotional, but when we are emotional, we distinguish the object and grasp that degree. Sincere dedication is often more likely to be injured, but we can't protect ourselves tightly and stop paying in order to avoid injury. Sticking to the true heart of self-purity and goodness in interpersonal communication is a kind of cultivation.

In this materialistic situation, if he does not have his own interests, then he will not be able to gain a foothold in this society, so if you want to succeed, you must learn to think about yourself.

Because now money is omnipotent, love is not worth mentioning in front of the front, money can do thousands of things, and love can only do part of it.

The strategy of interest makes people less affectionate and righteous. And I feel that reality makes people know how to be good to themselves and think about themselves more in the first place, and friendship is just a very ordinary interaction! No need to give much!

Because now society always has money and power to do things, and everyone gradually attaches more importance to interests.

The main thing is that the current society is too impetuous. So many people will only focus on immediate benefits.

Nowadays, people pay attention to interests and do not pay attention to affection, because the pressure of society has led to the concept of money becoming more and more important.

Because the current society is very realistic, if you have money, you will be affectionate, and if you don't have money, you will only have interests, and it is the current society that has changed too many people.

Modern people are independent in thought and economy, and they don't ask for him, only in front of money, in front of people who have obtained monetary benefits, and ask for help from others, can they make themselves grow stronger.

It can only be said that everyone's thoughts are different, after all, some people are very selfish, in their eyes, they only focus on interests, not affection, so they have such thoughts.

Because people nowadays pay more attention to themselves, and they think less about others.

Because of the current economic pressure, the relationship between people is also affected by money, and no one wants to be poorer than others.

The people who really value affection are actually a sentence, and they never put friendship in their mouths, but in the bottom of their hearts

People who value affection and righteousness, their mouth can be used to maintain friendship, but it is definitely not used to show off and tout. And the mouths of those who are hypocritical are just to flatter themselves, to raise their own worth, and to hypocritically attach importance to friendship.

And to maintain friendship, the most important thing is to lead by example, and the words are just for the icing on the cake. There are even many times when there is no need to mention that the other party will naturally know everything you do, and will naturally establish a real friendship with you and unswervingly believe it.

People who really value affection, they are like a raincoat, even if you ignore them on a sunny day, they will come out to accompany you when you need it on a rainy day; They are like a coarse cloth, even if they don't have too many ornate decorations, they can protect you from the wind and cold when you need it most; They are like an old padded jacket, even if they are too old, they can still protect the warmth of your heart.

Sentences about affection

1. In addition to a true friend, there is no medicine that can be heart-to-heart, brothers are together, and their benefits are gold, and our brotherly friendship will not be slowly estranged because of spatial distance.

2. Affection, but never ungrateful. Good acting, but never deceiving yourself.

3. My brother was like a bright light in my past life, illuminating my soul and giving my existence a little brilliance.

4. Brother is the palm of the hand and the back of the hand: when you touch the honor and feel the warmth, give it to the younger brother; When it comes to resisting the cold and meeting the challenge, there is the protection of the elder brother.

Whether you are poor or rich, he has never been far away, sharing blessings and difficulties, willing to face reality and life with you, if you really value affection, he will tell you what a real good brother is by your side.

jThe true meaning of affection is; You are miserable; Brother, I'll slap you in the face; Ask if you are still in pain; If you don't fight back, 'this is' love; And thank you that I am; Righteousness.

To put it simply, affection is made, not spoken.

There is a saying that money can make a ghost grind, and you can see how easy it is to win over a person

Money is very practical, it's in your hands, you can spend it however you want, and the most people will say about you

But there's no way to take you Isn't there a word: deep pockets? You can be very arrogant and say: you can squander like me and tell me the word waste

Money is good, I never deny it, filling your stomach is the first thing, isn't it?

Money, power, and power are all three things that men value very much

They've all become status symbols

However, that doesn't mean that money is everything, it's just useful

And friendship, family affection, is what you care about

Some people value money because they have been emotionally hurt

Besides, this society is a bit of a hot and cold world, isn't it? There is a crisis of confidence everywhere

Feelings betray, money not

Money is either lost or possessed only materially enough to meet the needs of life, vanity or something

As for feelings, friends and quarrels give people all mental harm Doesn't it say: Those who can hurt us are all the people we love?

Money is important, but so is family and friendship

Aren't some people now using so-called connections to climb to high positions?

Therefore, the operation of this world has begun to become profitable

Human nature is sometimes very powerless

Hmm, it's a mess, and I don't know if it helps you

I hope you can get some inspiration from reading these words o( o

Affection, people living in the world can not do a good job, so that there are more friends, friends are rare, encountering bad will only make themselves more depraved, meeting good will make themselves better.

Money: Life and death are not carried, you can meet the material life!

Friendship: Life and death can meet spiritual needs!

Some people think that money is friendship, but when you leave the world, money will not remember you.

Some people think that friendship is money, because when you leave the world, people will think of you because of love!

There are also some people who think that money = friendship, in fact, some people think that money is more important than you in their eyes, and some people think that you are more important than money, but you are fascinated and can't understand other people's hearts!

I think money is money, friendship is friendship, and true friendship does not appreciate or depreciate with money. It really doesn't need money to sustain it.

Oh, that's not a problem, people choose money when money is greater than friendship, people choose friendship when friendship is greater than money, it depends on whether your friendship is deep or not, the world needs idealism, but no one can ignore the reality, it's really up to you.

If you are a hero, affection is more important; If you're a bear, money is more important.

I think it's still important to have love, if you have friends, you can help yourself more, but you can't do it without money in this world, so you can't miss both.