No one can see through me, understand me, how can no one understand me

I like fools like you.

yes, that's how I used to shake hands, ......Now, I call it pain, because no one can understand the pain of loss, the pain of the body, and I realized that I didn't cherish it before, forgive the people who hurt you, think they are pitiful, they are poor in heart......A true friend needs your sincere dedication Don't blindly ask for it You have to know how to give Then you have a clear conscience I have also been deceived by my friend and stabbed with a knife But with the passage of time, it will slowly fade into oblivion When he knows that he is not worth mentioning in your heart at all, he will also feel very defeated Fools have stupid blessings People like you have more friends You will make good friends and don't make deep friends if you are not worth it I never easily make deep friendships Until now there are only a few who are good with me And very good.

No, sincerely, you will have a good life, don't deceive yourself, it's true to look forward, you think you're much better than those people in Yushu, at least food and clothing are solved, live a good life.

It's about the same as me

Me too, I have a lot of friends, but I don't have good friends since the second year of junior high school. I've been reflecting on what went wrong with me.

I know I'm not the center of the world, and there's no need for everyone to revolve around me. Ha, talk about your problem.

No one is going to take the initiative to get to know someone, unless there is a need or interest in you, or the other person is too bored to do anything.

I read an article that said that people make friends with a certain purpose, some for spiritual communication, some for profit, and so on.

Who else says you get as much as you give? The world itself is unfair.

Making friends doesn't mean that I want to make friends, you can make friends, making friends is interactive, you are willing, the other party is not willing to do it, and then a random "friend", I'm afraid it may not be suitable for you, don't be too anxious, real friends (that is, you say that people who understand you, who are really good to you, suitable) are difficult to meet, it is as difficult as a girl to find her true destiny. Take your time to find out that don't be too casual, it's also responsible for yourself

From the phrase "everyone thinks I'm a carefree person", you can know that you don't really understand your friend.

Do you want others to understand?

Did you let it go yourself?

You don't have to force others to see through you and understand you, knowing people and knowing faces is not knowing your heart, if others see through you, it's very bad for you, you know? Learn to hide. It would be nice to have one or two good friends

In the past, I was also very stupid, every time I was so serious about giving my heart to others, but later I received more hurt and got used to hiding my heart! In fact, people who really like you and want to understand you, he will definitely be very attentive to understand you, confidants are hard to find, this kind of thing is fate, you can't ask for it, forget everything unhappy, just be yourself, be happy, find a way to make yourself happy, even if you are hurt, don't be afraid, be strong, I have also come step by step, from simplicity to indifference is how tired it is. I'd love to hear if you want a listener, so send me an email if you want to talk!

Hehe. Think about the benefits of everything, now I am also hurt and don't want to open my heart to anyone, society is such a reality! There is no way, you can't change it, you can only adapt!

Self-pity and self-pity, people get along with each other from knowing and understanding, and they all need a process. And your feelings are based on others to be good to you, not at all because you want to help others, this is hypocrisy, maybe you don't feel it, in fact, you yourself don't open your heart to others, you blindly lock your heart, you don't go out, others come and you subconsciously refuse, but look at people from the window of the heart, naturally no one understands you, if you want others to understand you, you must first open the door, you don't need the help of others, you just need to open the door, really accept others, understand others.

In fact, the person who really understands you is yourself. For that persistence, that stiff staring at the tomb. In the process of growing up, we also learned a lot of knowledge, there is no end to learning, there is too much knowledge, we can't finish learning, so we have that follow, I want to know more, I want to learn more, that is also happiness.

Knowledge always enriches our lives, and only it can bring us satisfaction that we have never had, like a child who gets candy. We have our ideals, we have a bright time worthy of our grasp, and we are not lonely.

Don't worry, you haven't met anyone who understands you, and your Prince Charming hasn't appeared yet.

In fact, sometimes we can make others understand us, but we just don't want others to understand.

Tell me what kind of person you are......I also feel the same way......

It's good to know what's right.

Because you don't understand yourself, you don't know what you need.

Seeing that the upstairs is very enthusiastic about a lot of truths, I think sometimes it really doesn't need to be so complicated. As long as you put yourself in each other's shoes, many complex problems can be solved. What I mean by this is not to simulate other people's ways of thinking, but to figure out their own way of thinking, of course, we can't fully understand everyone, so we have to admit this, that is to say, we can't and don't need to know everyone's thoughts, which is normal before the shot.

If you have something to do, you won't think about it.

So I went shopping, ate desserts, and talked about inconsequential jokes along the way, and I couldn't put other thoughts in my head.

So why go to any coffee shop.

When there is nothing else to do but chat, I can't think of any easy topics. It's like writing a predetermined title on clean manuscript paper, but you can't put pen to paper.

So my friend sat opposite and played the game obsessively in the touch, I was in a daze, and I didn't know what to fix on **.

In the end, it's just that, and it's all your own problem in the end.

But even if you can't understand it, at least I hope others can try to understand it.

It's easy to say. "Sometimes I really don't understand you, and who really understands yourself. ”

She shouldn't be blamed for ignoring my half-confessional, half-cathartic expressions, and even less for their inaccessible comfort. Because even if I feel so sad that I want to cry uncontrollably, I will never show too much frustration in front of any "friends".

Is it to replace the word "friend", and the only one who accompanies you is always yourself.

I thought I was fighting for something like a dream or a future; I thought it was a very happy state to review all day and have only one thing in my head; I thought it was a brave choice to give up two months of professional courses; I thought that if I bravely chose to face reality, I would definitely see the future; I thought I was really enduring hardships, working hard, and improving; I thought there would always be some encouragement to prove myself to others; I thought that even if it wasn't an equal conversion, it would at least replace my 10 points of effort with 7 points of gain; I thought there was nothing I couldn't get by; I thought I could wait until tomorrow without even thinking about it; I thought everything I thought would come true; I thought I was stronger than I thought I was.

It turns out that a lot of things are paid and there is no gain at all; It turns out that what struggles and what efforts are trying to convince is only yourself; It turned out that my so-called brave choice in the past two months was only exchanged for hurtful regrets; It turned out that those expectations were more out of reach than I thought; It turned out to be as dull as I finally began to doubt my choice; It turns out that I have always been unable to hold it; It turns out that I can't let go more than I used to; It turns out that I love it so much, I just mess up the words in my heart, and I don't know how to express it.

The previous New Oriental teacher said that you can scold Lao Mei as a pig or asshole, but never say that he is a loser, the consequences are very serious. Thinking about it, the word is really subtle, a little more euphemistic than a loser, and a little more helpless than a frustrated person. It's a true portrayal of sure now.

At 11g, I took it as an 800-meter test, and I had to try another 400-meter. But this time, I was thinking that maybe I wasn't suitable for long-distance running at all, and I was a stupid person with little perseverance.

It turned out that I endured the tears and forgot about them, which is amazing.

People who really understand themselves succeed.

Hehe, it will get better slowly, and there is another adaptation period!

Only when you really see through yourself can you understand others.

We always think that we can know everything about a person, but in fact we can't even see through ourselves.

We always complain that no one can understand us, but who do we really understand? If you want to truly understand others, you must first see yourself thoroughly.

Although people are unique, human nature is often the same, joys and sorrows, deception, jealousy, suspicion, complaining, liking, fear, pain, love and hate, etc., you have feelings, others also have, only by fully seeing through yourself, can you understand others deeply. There is no real empathy in the world, but only when you really see through yourself can you look at people in the same situation with your own feelings and experience the state of mind of others

Self-esteem is not harmful to everyone, you are afraid that your own self-esteem will be hurt, in the same way, do not hurt the self-esteem of others;

If a person sees his own shortcomings and deficiencies clearly, he should compare his heart with his heart and do not underestimate the defects of others;

If you hate others for deceiving you, don't deceive others;

You hate others discussing your rights and wrongs behind your back, and don't point fingers at others behind your back.

If you want someone to forgive you when you make a mistake, you should forgive someone when they don't want to do it.

Every relationship needs to be managed with care. Many times, we obviously love each other very much, but we have frequent contradictions, because we can't even see through ourselves, and even impose what we think on each other, and once the other person's performance does not conform to our inner thoughts, there will be conflicts. In the process of getting along, it is customary to say it"I think.

You should. However, we ignore that in our hearts, we all hate that people speak in such a tone.

People are not only communicating with words and eyes, but also with heart, many times, we are in continuous self-reflection to see the real self, only really see through ourselves, in order to understand others.

This sentence was said by Guiguzi, only by understanding yourself first can you see through others. Knowing the other is the truth, and a hundred battles will not be defeated.