What to do if you have been ostracized since childhood

Updated on healthy 2024-05-29
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Friend. You must have had a lot of difficulties, but that's okay. That's in the past tense, and it's time for you to talk to your friends now.

    You must be nervous, nervous that you don't hear what others are saying, or you are nervous about saying bad things. Usually you may be very autistic and don't talk much. Later it can be appropriate.

    When you're with one or two friends, listen to what they have to say. And then speak your mind. You can say it slowly, for example, by beginning with something like this: "My thoughts are like this:

    Slower to speak. Say it sentence by sentence, don't mind what happens when others listen to your thoughts, just say what you think. This is the "gentleman who is harmonious but different" in the Analects, and he should find his true friends.

    A true partner will not laugh at his friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Live your own personality and don't care what others say.

    Don't let others reject you, you can't live.

    When others ignore you, you have to live out your personality.

    Personality... Thank you!!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    To be honest, my experience is similar to yours, and it can be said that we feel exactly the same, and it is our fate to meet in it, so be friends...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Believe me, as long as you work hard to live, something very good will happen!! If you don't believe we can bet on tomorrow!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Learn a lot. Read more books.

    In the ocean of knowledge you can find your way.

    It can improve oneself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm just like you, so I've always had low self-esteem!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    From childhood to adulthood, why are people always isolated and excluded?

    It should be due to many reasons, such as the quality of others, the exclusion of you is not because of your lack of strength, but because they maliciously exclude you and have the purpose of trying to isolate you. Of course, it may indeed be their own problem, and their own ability is really not enough, and they may be dragging others back. Another example is the reality of the situation, if they think that the current team is enough people, they may reject you.

    Why is the total spine defeat being sidelined? I've been excluded and have some loss and unbridled light.,I always feel like I'm a little redundant.,It's like I'm very incompetent or something.。 Don't think too much, in fact, you are not always excluded, you must also be accepted, but you are obsessed with those times when you are excluded, those moments of being accepted with kindness, you have forgotten.

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