I don t like to string relatives, can I avoid it?

Actually, I also hate visiting relatives and friends, if it's not a real relationship, it's also embarrassing to meet, but it's also connected to the blood relationship, just once a year, bear with it.

Anyway, like it or not, you can't change the existence of the relationship, and it's not so unacceptable to string relatives, just treat them as people who have nothing to do with you, and relocate them with feelings, like positioning your friends. When you get old, and you're going to return to your family, you'll feel that the relationship is actually good. Some people are worldly and materialistic, but you can see through, understand, put aside such relationships, and find family affection that is worth maintaining.

I'm afraid it's unavoidable if you want to continue your relationship with your relatives.

It's about saying bad things about disapproving of your friends, which is actually understandable and correctable.

As long as there is a heart of love and enthusiasm that warms others, it will also warm you.

Yes,,, you can use the Internet or play ** to chat occasionally.

I am a person who does not like to go to relatives, and I have never wanted to go to relatives' houses since I was a child. As I get older, and now that I am about to enter old age, I don't like to string relatives even more. I stayed at home by myself during the Spring Festival this year, and I didn't go to anyone's house, because I felt too tired to search for relatives, and it was not interesting to run around, so it was the best choice to enjoy the Spring Festival holiday alone.

First, it is because of my own personality, which causes me not to like to string relatives, because I have been an introvert since I was a child, and I don't like to talk to people. Because of this, when I was young, my siblings went to visit relatives' houses, and I was the only one who liked to stay at home, so almost none of my relatives in my family went. When I grew up, I still maintained this character and habits.

Second, I am very disgusted with the old traditional form of stringing relatives. Because nowadays, many times the string of relatives has become a mere formality, and there is no substance. During the Spring Festival, I took dim sum wine to a relative to stay for ten minutes, and left immediately, and couldn't say a few words, this kind of visit is not as good as not stringing, I still like the way of visiting relatives when I was a child, after going to the house, I ate there at noon, after eating, chatting with each other, reminiscing about the old days, talking about the situation of the year, such a string of relatives is still more meaningful.

Third, there is no extra time to visit relatives because I am already very tired during the Spring Festival. Especially those of us who are elderly, we have to do a lot of housework during the Spring Festival and don't have much time to rest. So if you have time, you want to take a good rest by yourself, you don't want to run around, bother to visit the door, and now the network is so developed, you can meet through **or**face-to-face New Year's greetings, you can say a few words, and meet in **.

So now our relatives have reached such a consensus, during the Chinese New Year, we will worship the New Year online, and then we will get together again after the Spring Festival holiday at other times, and I agree with this way. In this way, everyone can also get a good rest during the Spring Festival holiday.

Chinese New Year is the heaviest festival of the year. During the New Year, visiting relatives and friends to celebrate the New Year is a very happy and happy thing. But for some people, visiting relatives during the New Year has become a very distressing thing, and many people don't want to go to their relatives' homes to pay New Year's greetings and don't want to go to relatives.

The reason for such a situation is that there are not many contacts between relatives, the lack of communication between oneself and relatives, the topic is embarrassing, and one's relatives urge them to marry.

1. Because I usually don't have much contact with my relatives and am relatively unfamiliar, many people don't want to go to my relatives.

Relatives are the closest people to oneself and have a close relationship with oneself. But even so, the feelings between yourself and your relatives need to be communicated frequently. However, in daily life, we are busy with work and study, and we do not have a lot of contact with relatives, which makes us relatively unfamiliar with each other.

In this way, there will be little communication between relatives during the New Year, and they will feel uncomfortable, so there will be many people who do not want to leave relatives.

2. The lack of communication between myself and my relatives is embarrassing, so I don't want to go to my relatives.

Each of us has our own likes and concerns, but there are big differences between different people. Communication can be difficult when people with different concerns from each other are together. This situation will be more obvious once it appears when visiting relatives during the Chinese New Year.

Specifically, when you string relatives, you will lack the topic of communication because of each other's different concerns, so everyone is embarrassed, which makes many people reluctant to go to relatives from the bottom of their hearts.

3. Relatives urge themselves to marry, and they feel uncomfortable, so they don't want to leave relatives.

Relatives are very concerned about themselves, and this is a good thing for themselves. But in some cases, over-concern can be counterproductive. ......For example, when you go to visit relatives, your relatives ask too much about your personal affairs, and even urge you to get married, which will make you feel unhappy and don't want to stay at your relatives' house, and then you don't want to leave your relatives.

It is precisely because of the above reasons that some people feel uncomfortable when visiting relatives during the New Year, and then have the idea of not wanting to leave relatives.

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Here are some of the factors that may influence whether an individual wants to "go to relatives" or not:

Tight time and energy: If an individual has other important things to attend to, they may not want to spend time and energy "visiting relatives".

Distance issues: If relatives live far away, they may not want to spend a lot of time and money on visiting.

Relationship problems: If Da Bu Hongguo has a bad relationship with his relatives, he may not want to visit.

Health issues: If an individual is unwell, they may not want to go out to visit relatives.

Personal preferences: Individuals may have their own living habits and preferences, and do not like to "go to relatives".

The above are just some of the possible factors, and the actual situation varies from person to person.

Because I don't interact with them very often.