What does it mean to besiege all the world ? Who can explain it accurately?

Let's first take a look at what a siege is.

Is the siege a dilemma?

Guangzhou used to be a besieged city, and many ancient cities were also once besieged cities, from the city to the outside of the city, from the outside of the city to the city, in the past, it was necessary to go through procedures or need to pass through the city gate, each city has its own characteristics and different lifestyles from other cities.

Home is a besieged city, school is a besieged city, work is a besieged city, marriage is a besieged city, and we just go from one city to another.

Is a siege not free? Is the siege a dilemma?

Neighboring countries look at each other, chickens and dogs hear each other, and people do not interact with each other until they are old and dead. - Tao Te Ching

Isn't it good to live in peace and settle in your own place? Isn't it nice to accept mutual respect and not envy each other?

Of course, we don't have to trap ourselves in a city, each city has the beautiful scenery of each city, and we should go**, each with its own benefits.

Everyone is facing a siege, dissatisfied with what is in the siege, looking forward to the outside world, trying to break free. But when I really got out of the siege, I found that I had entered another siege.

It means: from birth to death, people are in a dilemma all the time. In fact, this is a human contradiction in the real world, and it has been the case from ancient times to the present.

borrowed a poem by Yang Wanli, an outstanding poet of the Southern Song Dynasty:

Mo Yan has no difficulty going down the ridge, and he earns the love of pedestrians.

is entering the circle of ten thousand mountains, and a mountain lets go of a mountain block.

Life, if you can't understand it, it's a city, and if you understand it, it's a sky.

It is to face all kinds of difficulties in life that are difficult to solve, or to face too many desires in life that are difficult to realize!

Life is a besieged city, in the city.

People want to go out, people outside the city want to come in, and the desire of life is probably like this. walked into marriage, personally tasted the sweetness of marriage, and admired Qian Zhongshu for having such a deep understanding of life. Facing my in-laws and facing my husband, I can't help but open my eyes and ask myself in the middle of every quiet night, what do I want, why do I feel so depressed, why is it so suffocating, and in the end I am in **.

Everything I did and everything I said seemed to be waiting for someone to refute me, tired and tired, and I felt that I couldn't find myself anymore ......And I still have to smile and face everything, life is like this, I just hope to have a space of my own, which can allow me to calm down and think about it, so that my soul can be completely baptized, I think I will find my coordinates. I hope I don't have no thoughts of my own because of marriage, this is my only wish, I just want to be my true ......I walked into one walled city after another that I painted, marriage, career, family, parents, lovers, sisters, and in such relationships, I went in and out like this, never stopping ......

The constant pursuit and the consequent unwillingness to pursue the success of the pursuit

Satisfaction and boredom, the contradiction and reversal between the two, the hope and disappointment, joy and pain, attachment and vacillation—all these constitute everything in life. The "siege" dilemma tells us that the result of our life pursuit is likely to be vain, which seems to be a bit pessimistic, but in the bones it is a serious pursuit, and enthusiasm is buried deep in calmness, just like Qian Zhongshu's own life. He has exposed the vanity of pursuing the ultimate ideal and the ultimate goal, which makes it possible to make the process of pursuit no longer just a means, but to recognize and recognize its own important significance, so that we can understand the endless pursuit and hope without hesitation, and no longer fall into nothingness.

People in the ivory tower seem to think that marriage is still far away, but in fact, the consciousness of consciousness is open and open, regardless of age. There are many people who have not yet arrived in the twenty years but have been soaked in the big dye vat of society for a long time, and there are many people who are nearly half a hundred years old but still do not understand the world and expect a miracle to come suddenly. The age of twenty-something may be just right, some are distressed, some are confused, and after a frustrating night, a little resentment turns into an expectation in the early morning of the next day, which is temporarily counted as a privilege of young people, and there is always a 50% chance of luck in the unknown, so I often have a smile on my face in the morning, and I am tolerant in my heart, so that I can maintain a positive and energetic appearance.

"The Siege" is not only about love and marriage, it depicts more subtle relationships between people, different personalities and different destinies, and the greatness of great works lies in its ability to reveal in detail the relationships behind those ordinary trivial things that we ignore. Fang Hongjian is finally with Miss Sun, before the age of twenty, I will definitely sigh, I will definitely scold Fang Hongjian for cowardice and hesitation, and I must feel sorry for Miss Tang's hard mouth and soft heart, as if only he and Tang Xiaofu are together, sincere and warm emotions can be sustenance. But what is life?

Life is a dull return to the dull firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and occasionally bursts out of romance and hustle and bustle. Although I don't like the role of Miss Sun, I always feel that the comparison between before and after makes people have a big psychological gap, and the quarrel is too mean. But thinking about Hong's attitude towards dealing with the conflict between husband and wife is not very appropriate, he often plays with the temper of a child when he encounters something unsatisfactory, and he may also feel embarrassed in front of Miss Sun's relatives.

But this is probably the epitome of most families, and I have to sigh at the depth of Qian Lao's pen power, and outline the ordinary family conflicts so realistically.

Besiege the city, the people outside want to go in, the people inside want to come out, how is life not a siege after a siege? The siege of the city was opened in one fell swoop, and the other side was belonging, but on the other hand, it became a shackle. I don't think anyone can escape this siege after siege, as Monroe's "Escape" wrote:

Escape, perhaps the end of the old, or the beginning of the new. ”