Is such a boyfriend too cautious?

In fact. For love itself.

There's nothing wrong with you and him.

But. He was upset.

I want to find someone to talk to about all the distress in his heart.

The first thing that comes to his mind is you.

Just tell you every time.

Because he believes that you love you.

And you. Because of his confiding, he became irritated about his psychological factors.

So you refused to be told.

So he felt like a failure.

Because even the people closest to him don't want to listen to their bitterness.

So that's where we are now.

Suggestion. Communicate with him more.

He wanted someone to talk to.

Just listen patiently.

Help him share a little bit of his worries.

If. You're afraid that you really can't stand it yourself.

Then support him.

Don't listen to what he says.

Support as long as he wants.

But. If you want to re-opt.

It's also your own freedom.

After all, love is not just a person who gives.

If you have any questions, please continue to ask. Yes.

Personal opinion: He is indeed small-minded,,, but that word did hurt him. He is willing to show weakness in front of you, because you want to comfort him, to give him strength,,, and your words have shattered his self-esteem ...

It's easy to hurt him once, but it's hard to recover. Don't put it off any longer.,,Or there won't be an emotional crisis.。。 Slowly remove the fence that has been erected in his heart ...

Look for him ... Give him enough face... Hope I can help you...

The most important thing for two people to be together is to get along with each other, men are under a lot of pressure outside, and they can only complain with their closest people, so why don't they go outside? It should have hurt him, hurry up and communicate, don't leave regrets.

Or is it your problem, who are you impatient with him to confide in? It's not a matter of careful eye. Have the courage to admit your mistakes without shame and sincerely apologize.

You still cherish him, he cares about you very much and nags you. If you encounter problems in the future, you should help the other party analyze the problem and solve the problem!

It would be good to take the initiative to talk to him and make it clear.

It's a bit excessive, and the two of them together not only have to share joys and sorrows, but also share sorrows. He's not happy, he doesn't tell you who to say, you don't let him vent his emotions, he is always relieved, is he comfortable? You should encourage him more.

Also, find a time to apologize to him, don't be like this. Trust him to forgive you.

Two people have to share, but it's not just happy things, sometimes work doesn't go well, or other unhappy things, you also have to share with him, what you should do now is talk to him, talk about work, talk about heart, talk about it.

He thinks you don't care about him anymore.

Don't pay attention to his feelings, communicate with each other, and don't take everything to heart.

He is unhappy and complains to you because he hopes that you can comfort him and be kind to him - you say that, and I am not happy to change it.

You are the other party's reliance, who will pay attention to him if he doesn't ship it to you, and when such a situation happens, you should have more comfort, instead of running away from him and letting him get hurt again!

You're going to admit your mistake. If he complains to you, you have to share it with him. When two people are together, they are confessing to each other. If you say that about him, it will make him feel that he is not important to you.

It's almost Christmas, find a chance to sit down with him and have a good talk, and if you can get by, take a step back and apologize, and if he doesn't say anything, then look at it.

Last time, you were wrong, he always complained, you should help him regulate his mood. You can say sorry to him.

Because he is not going well, he needs someone to encourage him and share the burden with him, so you can help him well.

It's possible to be cautious, but it's more likely that he doesn't love you at all.

If you can't be together, just split up.