I m so good, why don t women like me?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
45 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm a girl, and if it were me, I wouldn't necessarily choose you, and that might be my personal problem.

    Not to mention the character, I don't like handsome, because I don't think I have the ability to hold on to him, it will make me feel insecure, so I don't think about it in the first place, and I won't like it anymore, I don't know if other girls have the same idea as me, because I don't know, so I don't know about other aspects.

    Maybe the girl who belongs to you hasn't appeared yet, don't be too pessimistic, wait slowly, but if there is something you like, you must work hard to pursue it, girls like this feeling, I hope you find your love soon

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    We have to find our own problems, because we are not familiar with you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I haven't chased girls seriously! It's not that you're there waiting for a woman to like you, you have to take the initiative, you have to understand the woman's mind, try to date the woman you talk to, and slowly a woman likes you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Are you a picker? If not, it's best to ask someone you know. I don't know you either, so I don't know willing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because you're not the same traveler as most women. If you can't talk about going together, God will give you the other half, you have to find it slowly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you're a perfect person with a bit of modesty ... Sometimes narcissism is not good ...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I guess you think too highly of yourself, in your opinion, women are not high, and you are waiting for others to chase you? Unless you're handsome, the basic department maybe

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because you talk mother, mother, tone, they think you are "the same." Chi".

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Women are thin-skinned, why don't you take the initiative.

    When you see what you like in the future, you will chase it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are definitely girls who like you. It's just that you don't know.

    Maybe you have a high vision. The girl you like is too good to look down on you.

    Good or bad conditions. How? Everyone sees things differently. For some people, you're in a very good condition. But for some, your conditions are not enough.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You're looking too high.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is definitely a problem with your character!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Didn't come across the right one.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because you're a woman, too!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Material blessings are needed in a relationship, but if you meet a girl with better conditions than you, you should feel lucky. You should treat each other better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think you care about the conditions, if you like a girl, then you go for her, but you also need to improve your ability to be able to support this girl.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You should work hard to improve your abilities, find a better job, and make yourself better.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is a very interesting phenomenon that the better the conditions, the more people like them, this is also because people with bad conditions are easier to find love, and some people do not have a too detailed understanding of themselves because of bad conditions, many people are difficult to establish an intimate relationship with others, so there is no way to give a stranger a chance to enter themselves, so it is very difficult to meet the right person. And people with better conditions, they will be clearer in dealing with people and things, and many times they seem to be very cold. And people with good conditions will have a higher self-esteem and higher requirements, so it is naturally very difficult to find a partner, and from the boy's point of view, the main reason is that they are afraid of being disliked and despised by people with good conditions, which also makes it very difficult for girls with better conditions to find a partner.

    Some girls with good conditions are thinking about something.

    Some girls with good conditions, in fact, those who are more contradictory about finding a partner, sometimes they feel that they are very good, and they hope to find someone who can be worthy of themselves, but when it is difficult to meet such a person in life, it is easy to form a sense of gap. This is also the consequence of overconfidence and blind confidence in themselves, and they will not feel bad at all, thinking that they have the capital to pick, even if some people of the opposite sex have a good impression of themselves, and show some feelings of wanting to pursue themselves, they will not feel very concerned.

    Which girls are particularly difficult to chase.

    There are some girls who are actually very difficult, that is, like the kind of people who are particularly assertive, they are very clear in looking at feelings, know what they want, and with the growth of age and experience, their self-awareness will gradually awaken, not that boys can attract them by simply saying a few sweet words, they hope that they are surrounded by a person of the opposite sex who can coexist with their three views.

    In the end, for most honest boys, some girls with very good conditions are afraid to pursue, so for these girls, if they don't take the initiative, there are very few options they can choose.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Such girls are more excellent, so the requirements for the other half are higher, and after the boy stays with such a girl, he will feel that he is particularly inferior, and he will not be able to raise his head, and then the relationship between the two will become worse and worse.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't have a particularly good temper, I am particularly willful in life, I don't think about other people's feelings at all, I only put my own thoughts in the first place, and I'm particularly selfish.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Such a girl has very high requirements for the other half, and the opposite sex feels particularly inferior in front of such a girl, so she will deliberately dislike such a girl.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello, this is not necessarily. Some girls will like you for the sake of material things and money. Some girls just do it for that simple love. Like you because liking you has no other purpose.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Girls don't like you because of bad conditions, but mainly because of you. There is no common language. There's nothing fun about being together, and that's it. I don't love each other, that's why I don't like you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Not necessarily, in fact, girls are more focused on sensuality, and boys are more focused on rationality. If your conditions are not good and you are rejected by girls, the first consideration is that you lack self-confidence and are affected by your own conditions.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This varies from person to person, many girls are very realistic now, the material foundation is more important than any emotional foundation, and some girls may not like you because of your bad conditions.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello! I'm afraid that the proportion of this situation is not a minority, most of the girls choose their boyfriends in the first place, and they can't always draw cakes to fill their hunger, this is what this part of the girls think, and some girls are the first reference condition for whether the two people and three views are consistent, this part of the girls values the potential of boys, as for the current material foundation of boys, it is not in the scope of consideration of girls, I hope I can help you and oh thank you!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think it's possible that today's girls are not like the girls of the past, as long as they are in love. Today's girls want love, but they can't live without bread, because they have to make sure that you don't love her in the future, at least she still has money.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, there may be such a reason, but it is not the only one. It is also possible that there is a good feeling, but the conditions are not good, and there is no plan to continue to develop, so let's stop there.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Girls don't like you because of bad conditions, it's because you're not good, hello friends, change yourself, girls will definitely like you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Although this question is very realistic, it is not absolute, or the fate of two people is not enough, not all girls are material, in real life, there are still many people who work hard emotionally, so don't find other people's reasons, let yourself work hard, do more, okay!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's not all, it's mainly because she doesn't have her shortcomings, which is why I don't like it!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Whether you give up this relationship because of your poor conditions also depends on whether the girl is very materialistic, if the other party is not materialistic, then it is not this problem that caused the breakup, maybe there is no common preference between you or other reasons that cause her to want to break up with you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It depends on the situation, it may be that the two of them feel inappropriate together, and the girls who are realistic may also be because they don't like each other's conditions, so look at the girls.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In fact, no matter which choice it is, it is the freedom of the individual, and no one has the right to criticize, after all, it is a personal choice. Some girls have their own ability and conditions, why should they go to a man who is worse than themselves?

    Some women don't mind that men don't have money and their family is not good, they may indeed not want to suffer after marriage, and think that their own conditions will not be so bad that they will be a man with nothing.

    But more women are unwilling to be with a man who has no money and a bad family background, not because the man has a low salary or a less than ideal family background, but because this man has a deep-rooted idea of "living a day is a day" or "getting by", and the whole family is like this, neither motivated, nor hard-working, and has no sense of saving money, which makes women see no hope of marriage at all.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    yes, isn't that normal? People like to find excellent and good conditions, especially girls.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It shouldn't be, it's probably because each other's personalities are not suitable, or their tempers are not suitable.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Some of them are, and some of them may have discordant personalities.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Times are different, now you don't really like girls with bad personal conditions, you used to love someone, and now you don't have the ability to make money, then it's in vain.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Hello, it's true that this is the case, maybe I don't like it that much.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    In fact, we should believe that in the vast sea of people, the world. Being able to meet is actually a kind of fate. Meeting is fate, knowing each other is fate, and companionship is fate.

    Some losses are doomed, and some fates are destined to never come to fruition. Sometimes believing in fate and believing in fate is not a kind of confusion and relief for us to our own destiny?

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Only then will we be able to face life's toughest tribulations without losing faith in the future. There is a good saying: "When you don't have something to rely on, you can better protect yourself." "The world doesn't need to be lonely for no reason, a fierce man Dao Qin dumplings shackles urn tungsten.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's a real problem, it's hard to say, it depends on the situation, you say that.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It shouldn't be, maybe I just don't like you very much, if this girl really likes you, then she definitely doesn't care too much about your outside conditions, even if the conditions are not good, she can work with you.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    As the saying goes, men should get married, and women should get married, and for the vast majority of people, when they reach a certain age, they will find a partner, fall in love, and get married. ......But there will also be some people who have very good conditions of their own, but they don't fall in love. The practices of these people are puzzling to many.

    The reason why this situation occurs is that some people can't find a partner because they are very demanding because of their own good conditions, some people like to be single and don't want to fall in love at all, and good or bad personal conditions are not the decisive factors in falling in love.

    1. Some people have very good conditions, so they have very high requirements for finding a partner, and as a result, they can't find a partner.

    According to most people's understanding, good personal conditions should be conducive to falling in love. But for some people, it affects their ability to find a partner. ......The reason why this situation occurs is because these people have high requirements for their love partners because their conditions are very good, and the result is that there are too few qualified people, and they can't find a suitable partner, so they have been unable to fall in love.

    2. Some people like the state of single life and don't want to fall in love at all.

    For others, although their own conditions are ideal, they very much like to live in a single state. ......As a result, these people don't want to fall in love at all, they just want to live a single life that they like. ......Although these people have good personal conditions, they still won't fall in love.

    3. Good or bad personal conditions are not the decisive factor in falling in love.

    Fundamentally, whether or not a person falls in love is related to personal conditions, but this is not the decisive factor. It's not that people with good personal conditions will definitely fall in love, and it's not that people with poor personal conditions can't fall in love. ......In fact, there are many people who have good personal conditions but do not fall in love, and there are many cases where people with poor personal conditions successfully fall in love.

    The fundamental reason for this is not how the individual is digging, but whether he is willing to fall in love, and whether he can fall in love in the right way. This is the key to whether a person falls in love or not, and whether he can successfully fall in love.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Break it down:

    1. The object needs to be found to have it, and if you don't find it, you will never have it.

    2. Age should not be a problem, after all, people are busy with work now, and many excellent boys are single.

    3. The problem of conditions needs to be considered more, and it cannot be low or high, which will delay your life.

    4. Your own work is not a reason for you to be depressed, people want to be better in life, of course, there must be some ideals.

    5. If you talk about life, finding an honest person should be the first choice.

    To sum up: Older, let's just say, I feel that you are not old, you need to spend some effort to find it, and you need more opportunities to contact, so you must be proactive. For the sake of your own happiness, you need to take some time to do it.

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