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The first is to be able to see that he cares about you very much, every man will be a little cautious, but it depends on the degree and how to solve these problems. Being like your boyfriend is a very negative approach. When you meet your girlfriend and someone else or talk or something, you are not happy, and even cry, the typical thinking is a little extreme, it can be seen that he is also a conservative type, you have to communicate with him well, and make it clear to him that you only have him in your heart, and the interaction with others is a must in life, remember to be calm, don't get angry, if he is a sensible person, he will gradually change.
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Boys also need to be coaxed, as long as it's not too unreasonable, just coax more, he's happy, and other things don't matter.
Of course, don't indulge him too much, you still have to have a position when you should have a position, show your attitude.
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You tell him: The most important thing for two people to come together is to trust each other! He also loves you too much! If after you analyze him, he is still like that. Take action again! Divided.
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I'm also mostly suspicious of my girlfriend if she avoids me to pick up **. Or come home late in the evening. I'll be suspicious.
Men are stingy with you, they care too much about you. If he doesn't be stingy with you. Then I have lost interest and concern for you.
I'm the main thinker.
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This shows that he is not confident in himself!!
I think it's important for you to speak to him!! So that he doesn't think too much!!
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So what's wrong? Didn't you look within yourself for the reason? For example, do the expressions and attitudes you have when you talk to his friends make your boyfriend extremely unhappy? Or are you one of those extraverted girls?
Actually, it's nothing, you have to put yourself in their shoes
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I was suspicious of my girlfriend too.
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If your boyfriend is too cautious, here are some suggestions to deal with the situation:
1.Communication: Talk openly with him about your feelings and observations about his cautious behavior. Express your point in a gentle tone and try to understand his worries and apprehensions. Through communication, you can better understand each other's needs and expectations.
2.Look for the cause: Try to understand why he behaves cautiously. It may be due to his past experiences or his depressed personality. Knowing the reasons can help you better understand the repentance and find solutions to the problem.
3.Build trust: The cautious eye may behave out of concern and concern for you, and he may need more security and trust. By building trust and stable relationships, he may gradually let go of his cautious behavior.
4.Encourage positive behavior: Give positive feedback and encouragement when he exhibits open, tolerant, and trusting behavior. This can help him realize the benefits of positive behavior and gradually change his habit of being cautious.
5.Seek professional help: If your cautious behavior is seriously affecting your relationship and life, you may consider seeking help from a professional counselor. They can provide more specific advice and guidance to help you solve your problems.
Keep in mind that changing one's behavior takes time and effort and is not always successful. If you feel that you can't accept his cautious behavior, or that this behavior has caused serious distress in your relationship, you may need to reconsider whether your relationship is a good fit.
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It is normal for couples to have such a problem, why should you be careful, because you have a close relationship and intimacy, most of your thoughts are focused on your beloved, so each other's words and actions may make you angry, which is difficult to avoid; Take myself as an example, I'm like this, I wasn't happy when my girlfriend made me angry, but then I thought I loved her so much, ruined my heart and felt sorry for her, and apologized after I figured it out, it's nothing to be embarrassed about, after all, it's the person I love deeply who is not afraid of losing face, and will explain why I'm angry and so on, all of which shows that your boyfriend loves you and cares about you, otherwise why would he apologize, right, what does it matter to him if you're angry, so what's the matter, mushroom cool, Your situation is the only way for the run-in period of love, as long as you can communicate after a quarrel, you can apologize, you can care about each other, it shows that you can't do without each other, and finally, I wish you happiness, real experience.
Don't always be tired of being together, after understanding each other, you will definitely find each other's shortcomings, then you have to slowly accept and tolerate each other, he has to be careful to see what it is, if it is more understandable, don't let him care, if it is very powerful, you have to seriously say this to him, because it is terrible to be careful, you don't know what he will do, this is a manifestation of immaturity, you have to let him become more and more mature in life, exercise him. I don't know if what I said can help you, just a little advice from me!
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Less contact, less contact, less talking.